What should an ideal lover be in life?

Probably everyone has described their ideal love state and ideal lover before falling in love. Everyone has different standards for the ideal lover. What's your standard?

First of all, I hope the other party can have the same appearance as before. The ancients once said that few people can avoid customs because of eating color. They all hope that their ideal lover can grow into what they like, on the one hand, they are happy physically and mentally. After all, it is delicious, and lovers who grew up in their own aesthetics feel very satisfied just looking at it. On the other hand, going out with a high-value partner will make you feel more glorious.

Second, the ideal lover should naturally have a high emotional intelligence. He should be able to observe all the unhappiness in your life When your mood changes, he can see and know how to make you happy. He will give you enough face in front of your friends and always solve your embarrassment. He will pay attention to every detail of life, always make you feel full of emotional value and give you a high-quality love.

Third, he knows how to respect your thoughts and feelings. No matter what you do, he will not interfere and give you absolute freedom. When encountering contradictions, he can also control his emotions and try to consider the problem from your point of view. No matter what problems he encounters, he can stay rational and communicate with you calmly, and face those problems and quarrels in life together.

Fourth, he must be a responsible and self-motivated person, which is the key to a relationship. The sense of responsibility is that he will shelter you from the wind and rain, share the responsibility and burden of life with you, shelter you from the wind and rain, and become your trustworthy shoulder. Self-motivated means that he will work hard for you, bring you a better life and make you feel that life is full of hope at any time. In addition, the other party must be someone who can give you enough loyalty and trust to bring a sense of security in this relationship.