Do boys spoil girls casually?

No, boys spoil you. On the whole, you have a good relationship. Reasons for coquetry:

1 Find a sense of existence by coquetry.

He may have no confidence in himself and don't know whether you like him or not, so he wants to remind you of his existence through some actions and observe your reaction.

Spoiling is a sign of trusting you.

Because of men's consistent thinking, it is not as easy for men to spoil as women, and it is invisible outside the family. In the family, men can only show the other side of coquetry in front of the woman they really love. When a man approaches you unguarded, he will show his childish side. In daily social forms, he shows masculinity.

Spoiling is a sign of loving you.

The coquetry of men is the most primitive emotional mobilization of the inner subconscious. In the face of unfamiliar women, men can't be spoiled, which is disgusting; In the face of women you don't love, men won't be spoiled, which makes people feel uncomfortable; As long as men face the woman they really love, men will really unlock their hearts, and their original emotional psychology will be manifested under the stimulation of love.

4 coquetry may be Oedipus complex

Men's coquetry stems from Oedipus complex. When a boy was weak, he went to his mother. Mother is a man's harbor. A man's coquetry originated from his mother's mind. Men subconsciously form an attachment to their mothers, and mothers naturally become the object of men's coquetry. But mother can't accompany us all our lives. Once a man meets a woman he loves deeply, this kind of psychology will start again, and the woman he loves deeply will naturally become the psychological "mother" of a man.

5 coquetry is psychological decompression

Men are more resistant to stress than women, but even if they are strong, they will be weak. Men actually live under strong psychological pressure. Society and family always regard men as the backbone of society and the pillar of family. In fact, they are essentially the same as women. Everyone has a fragile side, and when there is pain, men also need to vent their inner emotions. A man's favorite woman is the best haven for a man to comfort his soul, and it is only natural for a man to be spoiled.