27-year-old first love date: mother has been single for 27 years. How did I get rid of it?

The diary of first love updated from time to time, I hope we can really go on alone all our lives.

What is a "parent order"

It means that both the mother and the fetus are single, that is, they have been single since birth and have never been in love.

Why have you been a single mother for 27 years?

1. People are introverted and slow to get hot.

It is difficult to get acquainted with one person, so it is very important to pay attention to the gas field of two people and whether they can talk together. If the gas field doesn't agree, even if two people sit at the same table, all conversations are limited to thanks. I'm sorry

Of course, if you have the same topic, you can have a good chat, but chatting doesn't necessarily mean you like it.

2. The contradiction between inferiority and pride

I always feel that I am not beautiful; At the same time, I always feel that I am a unique existence that others can't understand.

3. Ideal, longing for pure love.

I can't stand purposeful blind dates. If the other person is together just because I am suitable for marriage, then I absolutely can't accept it.

There is a saying that "only brave people can have love and only cowardly people can have marriage", but I don't want to indulge myself and enter marriage because of my loneliness or the progress of my life.

4. house, small circle.

In college, a dormitory was full of single housewives. Everyone reads novels, movies and comics, but they can't do without the dormitory.

Work at home, get off work at two o'clock, and you can move less when you get home.

There are almost no male friends, and former classmates are no longer in contact.

Apart from the men around them, there are very few people who are single and clean and can communicate normally.

Of course, it's not that no one has confessed to me or done some tests.

One is a docking person I know from work. Although it is not good to speak ill of others behind their backs, I just can't help it.

I feel guilty every time I think about what he confessed to me.

At that time, we were all isolated at home and worked at home. I used to go to work normally and talked a few times more. He said, "I dreamed of you last night." After saving my life, I still feel seriously uncomfortable writing this.

He is about 30 years old and divorced. He is usually dirty and looks like a greasy middle-aged man.

In view of the fact that migrant workers can't help themselves and there will be work exchanges in the future, I will politely refuse first.

Who knew that brother was excited? He said he would drive to my house to find me and tell everyone that I was his girlfriend.

I couldn't stand it any longer, regardless of any manners, and began to scold him.

I felt bad after that, too. I have been single for more than 20 years. Can I only attract such a man?

The other is a shared roommate. Everyone is actually a stranger. Wechat was because we had to pay the electricity bill, and then we talked a few words.

He probably thought he could develop, so he asked me to go to the movies. I have no feelings for him, and I still live under the same roof. It would be embarrassing to continue, so I refused. He's fine. He hasn't spoken to me since.

They all refused without hesitation.

How did you get rid of the bill?

He was my former colleague. At that time, we had the same topic in the company, but we haven't contacted each other for more than a year after he left.

I took the initiative to restart contact. Because I added a friend before, he commented on the message I forwarded, and then I remembered that I hadn't contacted him for a long time, so I wondered if he was still in the same city.

After reconnecting, we chatted happily, but since he said when to go to the movies together, I noticed something was wrong.

I panicked and asked my roommate what to do. My roommate advised me to have a try. At least this is not a stranger, which saves a lot of understanding costs.

Because I have been single for a long time, I am naturally very cautious before entering a relationship, although I only showed a little possibility at that time.

I turned him down once in the middle, but I didn't simply hesitate, because I stayed in the comfort zone for a long time and I was not sure what would happen if I came out.

But WeChat chat is really enjoyable, because there are very few classmates and colleagues who can chat with me about movies and animation.

I was really surprised when I said, "So you like watching this movie, too."

So offline dating, I am not so resistant.

First date, New Year's Eve at the mall.

We chatted while hanging out, and he said it was especially like before sunrise.

When I am tired, I sit in the bookstore. A few hours passed quickly, but I'm really not sure if I want to enter a relationship.

Later, because he was afraid of gathering pigeons, he sent me home to attend the New Year's Eve ceremony in the mall.

Later, I talked a lot on WeChat, and I have been talking until now. When we are going to sleep, he will send us a good night and a moon expression.

He was the first to tell me the day when it first snowed.

Look out the window, it's snowing.

"See"

Snowflakes scattered outside the window have just begun to fly ~

This really poked me, which means that when he saw the snow, the first person he wanted to share was me.

When I told him my troubles, it was really difficult for him to enlighten me.

One day, I was scared by a drunk in the community. He was seriously looking for something like a wolf-proof electric shock stick in a treasure.

Then tell me, if you want to go for a walk at night, you can invite him.

Confession must be done in person.

On the second date, I left naturally.

We walked a long way, but the atmosphere was not ambiguous at all. I can feel him brewing, but I always find it almost boring.

By the way, there is one more thing. After he left his job, someone called me to reply to him. I was puzzled at that time. How did he get my phone number? Ask him and fool him.

Later, we sat on a bench, far apart. I said I would go back later, and my roommate asked me what to say.

He suddenly said, "XX, I like you. Be my girlfriend. "

His voice is not loud, but I can hear it clearly, as loud as fireworks in my ear, which suddenly makes me unable to think normally.

"Really, when does it start?" My voice is a little shaky.

He said he started in a company, so he got my phone number, because he secretly wrote it down from the address book and saved it.

He made a very serious confession. I promised him.

He has never been in love, and we are each other's first love.

But I feel very unaccustomed when holding hands. It seems that when I hold hands, half my body is numb.

There happened to be a job for me, so I hurried home, and then at night, I couldn't sleep until the early morning.

That confession seems magical, and it will keep ringing in your ears, giving your brain another round of bombing, and then I can't help covering my whole face and burying myself under the covers.