I found an interesting phenomenon when I went home during the Spring Festival. I don't know whether this phenomenon has scientific basis or is purely accidental. The phenomenon is as follows, please a

I found an interesting phenomenon when I went home during the Spring Festival. I don't know whether this phenomenon has scientific basis or is purely accidental. The phenomenon is as follows, please answer! There are several factors at work:

First, the spotlight effect. What you said is only part of it. There must be counterexamples, such as being chubby when you were a child, but your attention made you filter it out intentionally or unintentionally.

Second, causal compensation. In the past, most domineering students in primary and secondary schools did not study hard, and most unknown students took the time to study. Of course, time will compensate for hard work. Generally speaking, children who are diligent and diligent in school develop well, but it is not absolute. Many naughty kings have also made a fortune.

Third, relativity. The handsome guys and beautiful women in the impression are labeled in memory and have high expectations. When we meet again after many years, the impression is often relative to the previous label. Relativity is an illusion.

Fourth, times have changed. The only constant in the world is change. Environment and living conditions can make or break a person. A person's appearance and temperament are born when he is young, and his appearance after 40 years old is made by himself.