The secret of making the other person love you more: the cat abandonment effect

Make him inseparable from your effective means.

Cat abandonment effect

In psychology, there is a term called "cat abandonment effect". It tells such a short story: a pet cat is arrogant and rude at home, and its owner can't do anything about it. Gradually the owner lost patience and abandoned it. After a period of wandering, the cat knows it's good to have a master.

Later, he was adopted by others. Now that the new owner is at home, it has become a very clever kitten. This story illustrates a truth that abandoned cats know how to cherish. The same is true in feelings. Make good use of the "cat abandonment effect" and grasp his psychology.

Have your own attitude.

The tough is tough, and the weak is weak, with its own principles and bottom line.

2. Don't take it too seriously

Don't think it's not easy for two people to be together, compromise everywhere and be patient everywhere. Your attitude depends on his attitude.

Act like a spoiled child.

When he makes you unhappy, don't sulk alone, let him know your mood to coax you.

4. Have your own life

Don't let him know all your movements clearly. It's interesting to be mysterious. Don't revolve around him, have your own interests and circles.

establish/make rules

It's his choice to know what he can and can't do and do something he knows will be unhappy.

Learn to refuse

When the other person asks you something embarrassing, don't endure complaining or blaming after doing it. Reluctant, it is best to refuse to let the other party know where your principles are from the beginning.