Truly powerful women are car-scrapping (car-scrapping in all three aspects).

Today's society is an era of rapid economic development and continuous integration of various regional cultures.

However, in marriage and love, due to various physiological and psychological reasons, girls are still in a weak position.

Just like the heroine in the TV series "The Temptation to Go Home", she is a good wife and mother, but her humbleness can't bring her respect.

Her mother-in-law gave her face. She chose to please and give in and take care of her family wholeheartedly. She thought that her ex-sister had sex with her husband behind her back, and she put up with it again and again. As a result, her husband got worse.

Finally, she committed suicide by jumping into the sea under pressure and was rescued. With the help of her friend Gao Hong, she began to learn knowledge and technology. After all kinds of hardships, she finally grew into an independent and strong urban woman step by step.

Moreover, feelings and marriage have also undergone great changes, from humble to dare to love and hate, from attachment to independence.

Therefore, as a woman, we must learn to keep our car-scrapping, so as to win due respect and defend our love in this weak environment.

First, women should maintain a car-scrapping character and not make themselves too fragile. Before falling in love, many girls lived a very chic life and could handle everything by themselves. However, when girls enter the big environment of love, some will instinctively rely on the other half, which does not mean that it is wrong to rely on the other half.

After all, when two people are together, they rely on each other to support each other and spend every difficult moment, but remember that girls should not rely too much on your other half.

Not that you can't do it without him. You can still do anything by yourself.

Excessive attachment will not only make you become "incompetent" slowly, but more importantly, it will make men feel irritable and bloated.

02) Expansive psychology means that a man can't have a woman without his own psychology.

Irritability refers to the mentality and behavior of women who are unwilling to meet their constant demands.

Therefore, to maintain one's spiritual independence, only under the premise of maintaining one's strong personality can one better face everything that will happen in the future.

Especially when the other half is in trouble, you can also help him.

In this way, the life of two people is to help each other, and men will not feel tired when they live together, thus establishing a cooperative relationship.

Once a cooperative relationship is established, we women will feel needed by men and be satisfied with ourselves.

Second, economic car-scrapping is the foundation of women's happiness. Many unfortunate marriages end in women's misfortune, because the current legal system still can't perfectly protect women's position in marriage. After almost all women get married and have children, their physiological characteristics will make us more inclined to family and children, and the shift of work focus will naturally affect their career and life planning.

Once some unexpected accidents happen in marriage, women without economic income are more likely to fall into a daze.

In normal life, you don't need your partner to give you financial support all the time, which is not a problem during love.

But when your relationship has reached a stable period after a period of operation, this unilateral economic dependence is not conducive to the further development of your relationship.

With the general status of women, in the current social environment, it is not as good as men. In order to ensure their economic independence, this will undoubtedly greatly improve women's status in gender relations.

Therefore, economic car-scrapping is an essential point. But one thing needs to be emphasized, not that women must keep making money, but that we must maintain the ability of self-renewal and have the ability to support ourselves.

Simply put, you don't have to, but you can't live without the ability to make money.

Third, attitude and bottom line position are women's dignity. The attitude here is hard, which doesn't mean that you must be the leader in your feelings. Because male chauvinism will unconsciously want to dominate, if you deliberately pursue dominance, it will have a bad influence.

The car-scrapping here is to live a good life in a love relationship and not to form a likable personality.

You should put forward your own opinions in your feelings, keep your own opinions on everything, and put forward your own opinions. Be strong when you should be strong, and don't be the situation where your boyfriend decides everything.

Living a high life, having a clear distinction between love and hate, and having your own judgment on things will undoubtedly have greater appeal to the other half. But be in a hurry, don't get into a dead end.

In a word, some people say that love is humble and insignificant, but as a woman, you should not take it seriously. What you need is to live your true self. Humble love does not mean that we are humble. Learn to express yourself hard and win your respect in love.