My mother-in-law is superstitious about sleeping, and making rounds in the middle of the night makes my daughter-in-law very tired.

The problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often bothers her mother. A netizen complained that her mother-in-law was superstitious. After listening to the Feng Shui master, the husband and wife had the best sleep. They went in and out of the room several times in the middle of the night to check whether their sleeping posture was correct. The husband even agreed with her mother-in-law's behavior, which made her sleepy.

The netizen complained that sleeping should be a private matter, but her mother-in-law's going in and out really made her unable to sleep well, and her husband also agreed with her mother-in-law's strange behavior, which made many netizens complain, "I can't accept that abnormal and abnormal request and behavior", "won't I get depression like this" and "pervert!" Take care of even sleeping "and" completely incomprehensible ",encourage the suffering people to express their ideas and strive for a good sleeping environment.

Don't let faith become superstition.

China culture likes to pray to God and worship Buddha, and fortune-telling is a necessary process when deciding major events. However, these so-called geomantic numerology can only be used as a reference and should not be overly superstitious. Especially the elderly love to find some feng shui masters and fortune tellers. They are usually not themselves, but children and descendants. Although they are out of a better heart for future generations, excessive superstition may bring trouble.

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Why is mom superstitious?

Mom is a lonely job, ironing clothes for her husband and bringing lunch to her children. She is busy for her family, but her feedback and sense of accomplishment are very limited. Many times, husbands and children leave home, leaving them with a sense of emptiness. If they have no other interests as spiritual sustenance, they are actually very lonely inside.

Especially for stay-at-home mothers, their world may be as small as a family, with only husbands and children in contact. I am busy with housework every day, waiting for my husband to get off work, trying to find someone to chat with, but my husband may be too tired to chat, depriving my mother of the opportunity to vent her feelings. Over time, their hearts become fragile and it is understandable that they need spiritual sustenance.

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Change the focus of life and live for yourself.

My mother-in-law is also my mother. When the children are old and have their own families, sometimes they feel very empty and don't know what to do. They need spiritual food and a new focus in life. They can be encouraged to leave home, try various courses and cultivate new interests, such as Tai Chi, flower arrangement, yoga and other activities that cultivate the mind and are beneficial to health.