Reflections on "Marriage in distress situation"

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After reading Weeping Marry, 1 After reading Weeping Marry by Zhang Henshui, I will read the scenes in the book from time to time, which will be unforgettable for a long time.

It tells the emotional entanglement between the protagonist Fan Jiashu and Shen Fengxi, He Lina and Guan Xiugu. Jiashu is a rich young man with affection and righteousness. He is infatuated with Shen Fengxi who sings drums. Unexpectedly, Shen Fengxi was greedy for money, married Liu Dezhu and became the general's wife. I'm afraid I fell into the jaws of death from now on. You'll go crazy. He Lina, a rich lady, has been devoted to genealogy and is even willing to change her bad habit of extravagance and waste. Jiashu was also moved by He Lina's insistence after Shen Fengxi's betrayal. Finally, they finally got married. Guan Xiugu and her father Guan Shoufeng, who are chivalrous, are heroes who repay their kindness. They regard genealogy as brothers of life and death and are willing to go through fire and water for it. The father and the daughter finally formed a team to fight the enemy outside the customs and died in the battlefield, which made them a hero.

The ironic marriage is a novel developed chapter by chapter, and there is suspense at the end of each scene to arouse readers' curiosity and let them read on. Although this is ancient, we have to admit that this is a clever way.

It seems that even in troubled times, there is no way to shake the "determination" of wealthy families to enjoy luxury, but we have to admit that wealthy families are patriotic. Just as Shen Guoying destroyed the family to ease the hardship, He Lina forced her father to donate money. I have to be surprised.

Moreover, not all poor people are "poor people are not poor". Shen Fengxi was widely valued by the genealogy, but when the genealogy went home to visit his mother, he climbed another branch. Although he has to do this, I don't think Liu Can will do anything if he leads an honest and clean life. If he doesn't long for happiness, he won't fall into the jaws of death. I have to say that his tragic ending is of his own making. But then his guilt for Fan Jiashu was pitiful.

The nasty behavior of Shen's mother, especially Shen Sanxian, is really disgusting. They agree with the situation and do whatever it takes to get rich. Even catch up with Shen Fengxi's lifelong happiness.

I like the style that He Lina dares to love and hate. In the end, she finally won the love of her relatives with his persistence and kindness. For He Lina, it was bought with her faith in love. Is the most perfect character at the end of the article.

Guan Xiugu is a heroine among women. Her love is unknown and selfless. After all, a broad-minded and heroic person will not be fettered by his children. Therefore, Guan Xiugu finally joined the ranks of resisting the enemy and saving the country, and made a "Modern Mulan", which finally made people sad.

There is also Fan Jiashu, a well-born but kind-hearted young man. From beginning to end, he played the role of a good man and insisted on loving Shen Fengxi. Even if Shen Fengxi betrayed him in the end, he still cared about Shen Fengxi. So he is a lover. He doesn't treat people with his background, but he is sincere and kind to people. Of course, good intentions are rewarded, and Fan Jiashu finally holds his lover's hand and goes to serve the country together.

In a word, the marriage in distress situation gives people a feeling of looking at life in a big background, which is memorable.

Reflections on the marriage of crying and laughing II. Mr. Zhang Henshui was called by Mr. Mao Dun as "Zhang Hui's style has been used for 30 years, which made Zhang Hui open up a new life", while Mr. Kong called Zhang Henshui's "The Cause of Crying and Laughing" "the significance in the history of modern popular novels, one is its civilian spirit, and the other is its resistance to the darkness. These two points are the spirit of the May 4th New Literature. "

I'm used to reading modern romance novels, and then watching The Cause of Crying and Laughing tastes completely different. Compared with the product of the novel frenzy, this crying karma has no gorgeous words, crazy plots and artificial language, but a simple, true and intriguing story that condenses society, thought, rank and fate, and even the old stories and old words are hidden.

The core structure of The Cause of Crying and Laughing is the story of a man and three women. The protagonist is a rich boy in Shanghai, a man with lofty ideals, who came to Beijing alone to study and accept the emerging trend of equality. She has her own thoughts and soul, and a sense of justice to help the weak and the poor, but she is somewhat influenced by traditional ideas. She is considerate, obsessed with feudalism and at the bottom of society. She is a poor woman Shen Fengxi who has no father and sings drums. But she is beautiful, with the help of Fan Jiashu, she has a fixed source of life, and she also wears simple and tidy student clothes and reads books. She is an innocent woman who loves her, attracting the evil possessiveness of warlords. Miss He Lina, a rich lady, has faded away from the traditional lady and innocence in China. Influenced by western culture, she is a standard "Miss Yang". She received an excellent education from an early age and lived a luxurious western-style life, full of charm, talent and arrogance. She comes from a poor family, but she is as narrow-minded as a man. Guan Xiugu, an upright "chivalrous woman", is frank, upright, patriotic and brave. She is serious, intelligent and decisive. Although she has never read a book, she specializes in Buddhist scriptures and devotes herself to Buddhism. Among the three women, Fan Gushu chose Shen Fengxi, who was born in poverty and has a traditional charm. The story really begins here. Jia Shu returned to Beijing after leaving for three months, and she found that Xia Feng had her own other half. Xiugu's parents broke their hearts for Jia Shu and Xia Feng, but Xia Feng was forced to do so. At this point, when describing He Lina, Zhang Henshui described her face very much like Xia Feng, while Xiugu arranged between Jiashu and He Lina at home and gave her the genealogy. Finally, although Feng's madness was cured, she still could not escape the fate of death. Xiugu fought for her country with all her heart, so Jiashu had to marry just the right He Lina. The ups and downs of the plot and the wonderful karma of the protagonist, coupled with detailed appearance, expression and action description, portray a vivid task.

I can only say that I love and hate the characters in the novel. Feng, a simple girl, bowed her head in front of money and lost her love until she lost her life. When Feng abandoned her family tree, she hated this insatiable woman, but when she went crazy, she had some pity, as if people didn't care enough about her. Jiashu finally found her own happiness, but she felt that the man and three women who spoiled everywhere always felt a little frivolous.

It seems that all women deserve pity, poor women. Everyone has the right to fight for love.

Zhang Henshui told this story very skillfully, and gave the book a sense of vicissitudes with the aftertaste after the story was finished and the sad drums lingering in his mind. The cause of crying and laughing is not a classic in inscrutable language, nor a touching cause, but an orderly layout and perfect detail description. The master tree was emotional when he learned that Feng had betrayed himself. When faced with the complex mood of Feng's terminally ill genealogy, the gap between China's traditional genealogy thought and He Lina's avant-garde quartet thought is really an unattainable realm, which gives people a very deep sigh-really, even if it is incomplete, it is beautiful.

After reading "Marriage in Laughter" 3, ruthlessness is the most golden thing, which has changed the hearts of many children.

After reading it, I felt inexplicable panic. I don't know whose fault it is, which caused this tragedy. He, Fan Jiashu, a kind-hearted man in the south of the Yangtze River, seems to dominate the fate of others, but a person eventually becomes unimaginable because of him.

First of all, Feng, his mother and uncle, all of whom are helpless, live on a few copper coins from singing drums under the bell tower. Although poor, it is stable. Fan Jiashu's dollar ocean has completely changed the fate of this family. They were so grateful that they almost regarded him as their own Buddha. Slowly, he also fell in love with Feng. Everyone saw it, so the family pinned all their hopes on this god of wealth. So, they tried their best to please Feng and let Feng be loved by God. Here, I really can't figure out whether the social background makes such a humble person unable to succeed through his own efforts, or whether this family is too thick-skinned. It is really puzzling that a family should rely on the beauty of a daughter to support itself.

But Feng's performance is really annoying, because he loves you? I cann't believe you let people buy you this and that step by step He told you to get rid of the fate of singing drums and become a female student. It is enough for you to spend money on a yard to decorate your house, but your performance is really chilling. You need to compare with other female students. You said that other children can understand it with ink pens. If you coquetry, you need a gold ring. Just because other children have it, you can't lose to them. But the family tree always smiles and meets all your requirements without complaint.

Because he is not a dude, and because he is kind, he doesn't like He Lina who looks like Feng, and he frequently pays attention to him. He hurts this beautiful woman who has never been wronged again and again for only one reason-she is too extravagant and wasteful. However, Michio fell madly in love with genealogy. Even though she was hurt, she still insisted on inviting him to dance, go to the theatre and go shopping again and again. Every time, her indifference did not repel her enthusiasm until she completely defeated the delicate woman's heart. She realized that no matter how hard she tried, she couldn't change the man's heart, so she went back to her previous dress-grass skirt, thick rouge, crazy dance and the screams of men around her, which seemed to be the only way to heal her traumatized soul. After all this madness, she chose to live in seclusion, and no one knew her whereabouts.

Through these two heroines is Guan Xiugu, the daughter of martial arts hero Guan Shoufeng. Because Jiashu saved her father's life with money, she has been silently in love with this rich boy. But when she knew that he loved the girl who sang drums next door, her heart broke all over the floor. But her kindness tells her that she wants to make her lover happy. This is exactly the lyrics of Fish Leong: Love a person, and hope he has a good life. I think this is the highest level of love.

What's more, the Fengxi family, perhaps because the genealogy indulged her too much, led to her love for money reaching its peak. So when the genealogy returned to Hangzhou, she accepted a lot of money from General Liu and an agate necklace worth more than 2,000 yuan. In fact, it was a mistake for her to go to General Liu's house at first, but she indulged it again and again. It was not until she understood the general's intention that she stayed up all night and struggled with her thoughts all night. She still has a conscience. She didn't forget that Uncle Fan was kind to her family, so she returned the necklace and thousand dollar bills to the general. But the original love of money has no way to save himself, because as a general, Liu's adult fell in love with her, as a general, such as

If you can't even get the person you like, it's not that era. So she became Mrs. Liu.

When Uncle Shu returned to Beijing, it was Miss Guan who did not forget to save her life and sneaked into General Liu's house to be a family tree maid, only to find out about Feng's recent situation. Jiashu is still infatuated, and he lets her escape. But she loves money so much that she chose to continue to be her Mrs. Liu instead of living a life that is not too rich and expensive with her family tree. Only on this date, according to General Liu's temper, he was severely beaten. From then on, she lost her mind and became a complete madman.

Before Mrs. Liu recovered, General Liu fell in love with Guan Xiugu as a maid, and Guan Shoufeng and her daughter killed General Liu with a honey trap.

The cowardice of genealogy, the love of money, Mishao's infatuation and Guan Xiugu's injustice have created a career of crying and laughing.

Reflections on Marriage in Laughter 4 Recently, I especially like reading Zhang Henshui's novels. The Reason for Laughing and Crying is a book I just finished reading recently. The novel tells the emotional story between Fan Jiashu and three different women: Guan Xiugu, Shen Fengxi and He Lina. Fan is a student who came to Beijing from Shanghai to take the exam. After preparing for the exam, he likes to wander around. One day, he came to Tianqiao, a place frequented by the poor, and met a strange man, Guan Shoufeng, who was fascinated by his martial arts. They hit it off immediately and only got along for a short time. Guan's daughter Xiugu had a crush on Fan Jiashu when she visited Guan's house once. However, Fan generously gave Shen a sum of money to the artist, because he didn't have any change on him on the overpass. Shen Fengxi, Shen's niece, mistakenly thought that Fan had ulterior motives, so she fell in love with Fan and took the initiative to take a photo with Fan. Fan, who is in her youth, can't help being moved by this young girl. However, Fan and He Lina happened to meet in the ballroom. Miss Guan Guigui, who is still sociable, has special respect for Fan because of her simplicity, and her cousin also intends to promote them. However, Fan still fell in love with Feng. Although he helped Guan Jia and paid for Guan Shoufeng's treatment, he saved his life. Although he couldn't refuse He's kind invitation, he arranged a new home for Feng.

I don't want my mother to be sick at home at this time, so he has to go home quickly. Because of his departure, Shen deceived his niece Feng to Mr. Shang's home because of his greed, and was attracted by General Liu. Under the pressure of Liu's arrogance and the temptation of money, Feng married the general Liu. Although she was deeply sorry for Fan, she was still moved by the glory of marrying Liu. Originally, Guan Shoufeng was going to enter the general's office to rescue Shen, but he didn't want to see the situation change and left angrily. Fan went back to Beijing after dealing with his family affairs. He couldn't believe that Shen would be so heartless. Touched by her deep affection for Shen, Guan Xiugu got the nerve to disguise herself as a maid and sneak into the general's office to get information. Finally, with the help of Miss Guan, Fan met Shen and later became the general's wife. However, a check from Shen made Fan feel infinitely insulted. General Liu was whipped when he learned that Shen knew Fan privately, but Shen could not resist such torture and finally became a poor madman. At this time, the heartless Liu targeted Guan again, closed the plan to destroy the traitors, and finally agreed to Liu's proposal, tricked him into the temple in Xishan and killed him to avenge Shen. For Shen and Guan, the father and daughter are very sympathetic, thinking that she is young and ignorant, and helping her, let bygones be bygones. Although her illness was not cured, it also gave her infinite care. Fan was kidnapped during the trip, and Guan's father and daughter gave their lives to save him. All kinds of behaviors touched Fan's father and daughter, and gradually fell in love with Guan girl, but Guan girl at this time was no longer Guan girl at that time. Although she likes Fan, she keeps this relationship secret, and even deliberately promotes his relationship with Miss He. At the end of the novel, Miss He changed a lot for the model. She lives in seclusion, uncharacteristically, seemingly ruthless but affectionate, and the final outcome is intriguing. How will Fan end up? Who is the right person to marry Miss He, or to go through all the hardships to get married with Miss Guan?

The novel does not explain what the real ending is, but it makes people daydream. Who knows what the ending will be? Irony or reasonableness, anything is possible. Maybe it can only be given to unpredictable people, and the fate in the dark is doomed.

The novel doesn't beautify the characters in the novel, which makes people feel more cordial to read. As long as they are ordinary people, they will be tempted, confused, at a loss and negative, and it is difficult for anyone to avoid customs. Of course, I like Guan Xiugu, her atmosphere and her chivalrous character. Although she failed to pursue love boldly, everything she did for the person she liked was still touching and selfless in my opinion, otherwise Fan might not be worthy of her. If I leave it to my imagination, I hope she can find a real man who is as generous and enthusiastic as her father as her life partner, and then travel around the world chivalrously and be a pair of four seas. composition

Reflections on the marriage of crying and laughing 5. The ironic marriage depicts the complicated feelings between Fan Jiashu, a rich boy, and three women with different status in the 1920s and 1930s. Fan Jiashu is an intellectual young man who accepts new ideas. He has a sense of justice to help the needy, and at the same time he is considerate to people, which naturally attracts the love of three women. Among the three women, Xiugu was the first to meet Jiashu, and Lena He was the last. Fan Jiashu and Shen Fengxi had a real love. As far as the social background was concerned, the gap between their status and status doomed the tragic ending of this love. Feng is a woman who sings drums at the bottom of society. Later, she betrayed her family tree and married General Liu, which also reflected her love for money and status to some extent. What if Fan Jiashu is a poor scholar? As for Guan Xiugu, there are many times when her feelings for Fan Jiashu are unilateral. At first, she was obsessed with genealogy, but once she understood the attribution of genealogy, she resolutely closed her heart. If everyone can do it like her, it will reduce a lot of unnecessary harm. She is also a chivalrous woman, willing to take risks for her friends to go to the Grand Commanding House, such as the Dragon Cave, and send a message to Feng for her family tree. After Feng went crazy, she designed to get rid of the grand marshal, which can be described as both wisdom and courage and narrow-minded! After that, I ended this relationship with my brother and sister, which is quite satisfactory. As one of the protagonists in the novel, He Lina finally came together with Fan Jiashu. Although Li is a rich girl living a western-style life, and her temperament and lifestyle are quite different from Jiashu's, I think they are the most suitable couple since they met. I don't know why I think so, maybe it's like some love in reality that doesn't need a reason.

It seems that it has always been a rule to be suitable for each other. He Lina seems likely to become Mrs. Jiashu, but the author didn't write it clearly. Maybe many people will be homesick. If they don't go back to their hometown and stay away for a few months, maybe so many things won't happen. Maybe they can really be together.

But I think this is only a possibility, just like the long-standing love proverb: if two feelings last long, it will be sooner or later. If Zhen Feng really loves her genealogy, let alone a few months, that is, a few years, I think Feng has been waiting. She can only sing drums on the overpass and show her face. Because of the appearance of genealogy, she didn't have to sing drums on the overpass, and she became a female student. He took the initiative to bear all her family expenses, rented a new house for their family, sent Feng to a girls' school, and bought whatever he wanted and whatever clothes he wanted to wear. In fact, in the final analysis, it is still her inner greed. All this is of her own making. If she wasn't greedy for money, it wouldn't have ended like this. During Jia Shu's absence, she became the wife of a general at Shen's instigation, and the old soldier bought everything from her, including her life. Feng got a temporary fortune, but in the end, because the old general was moody, she was whipped and beaten, which made her schizophrenic. What a mistake! This is a lifelong mistake! Although she still has Uncle Fan in her heart, it is very happy for a girl of eighteen or nineteen to earn a dollar a day. Suddenly a man threatened to marry her, offering 200 thousand. Can she not be tempted? Besides, her own environment makes her have no wisdom to analyze the benefits of marrying the old general, because there is a pile of money in front of her, which blocks her eyes. She only had money in her eyes, so she didn't think so long. Feng is a tragic figure, and her tragedy has its own background. Even now, there is no such simple love. There are many things to consider, not just two people falling in love, their family background and society. Money relations must be taken into account, otherwise love will not last long and will eventually break up for some reason. The society is very realistic, and fairy-tale love will not appear in real life. Since ancient times, the right love can last. After all kinds of twists and turns, Fan Jiashu and He Lina can be regarded as "lovers shall have Jill". At this time, all the tragedies of fate were accumulated because of their deep thinking about life.

There are six books that hate water after reading Weeping Marry. I've only seen "Golden Powder Family" before, but now I see this "Crying for Marriage". To tell the truth, it feels not as good as "Golden Powder Family". But it is still worth pushing.

In fact, the story is not as earth-shattering as imagined, but Mr. Zhang Henshui's description of the relationship between material and love is more realistic now. At that time, although our dependence on material has been greatly enhanced, it has not yet reached the point where it is completely inseparable. However, love will still stand the test of material, and ideals will fall apart in front of reality. Especially in this materialistic world, if we want to live, we must get more materials than before. You seldom use your mobile phone to contact, and you seldom use the computer network to find a job. Wherever you go, you should at least take a bus. The higher the cost of living, the more capable reality is to make us yield. If we put the background of this "crying marriage" into modern times, I am afraid it will be another ending.

But just reading this book is enough to make us sigh. After all, Zhang Henshui arranged an acceptable ending for us, but he did not explain all the destinations one by one. No wonder there are so many sequels in this book. As far as the general public is concerned, we always hope that the people we like will continue to live in novels.

After watching "Weeping Marry", I have been watching "Weeping Marry" by Zhang Henshui for two days. I watched several TV plays a long time ago, but unfortunately I was young and didn't feel anything special. Now I feel very different when I read it.

Seeing that Feng in the novel abandoned Fan Jiashu, who was interested in himself, and became a general's wife for the sake of prosperity, I was no longer simply contemptuous and sympathetic, but more understanding. Imagine that a girl has been living a poor life for more than ten years since she was born. Give a few coppers every day, and people who know why are very grateful. And one day she suddenly found that she could easily live a life of spending money like water, and it was not incomprehensible for her to be tempted. Her family, on the other hand, is the kind of family that can ignore many things in order to make a living. She had no orthodox ideological education since she was a child, so she naturally made the wrong choice. However, nothing in this world is free of cost. It is really sad to exchange your inhuman pain and even your life for a short-lived glory.

Maybe she became a mother and always considered family education. This reminds me of a popular sentence today: girls are easy to raise. Although it is a bit biased, it is not unreasonable. However, Guan Xiugu in the novel, like a poor girl, has different behaviors. Come to think of it, Guan Xiugu has an unyielding father, while Feng has only one father who has no opinion. Whoever gives money is the mother of the uncle. This should be the most fundamental difference!