Guiguzi: Three taboos in life. You must avoid them when you meet them, so that you can get better and better.

Life is neither short nor short. In these decades, we have experienced countless things. Among them, there are good ones and bad ones. We should actively rely on the good and try to avoid the bad, which is to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. Three taboos told by our ancestors must be avoided to ensure our life is smooth. Which three are they?

First, virtue and respect.

Literally, this sentence tells us that if a person occupies a high position, he must have extraordinary intelligence and virtue. When his virtue is not worthy of his position, it is a taboo thing, and something will happen sooner or later.

In fact, the wealth that everyone can benefit from in this life is matched with their own virtue and wisdom. If a person doesn't have high morality and intelligence, then his probability of being in a high position will naturally be much smaller, so his living standard will be lower. Imagine what he would do if he were given a lot of wealth and a very high position.

First of all, it is certain that when a person who only meets his own food and clothing all the year round has inexhaustible wealth, he will definitely start spending money indiscriminately on some improper things, such as things that he never dared to do before, such as getting in touch with the dark side of some society, which is very bad for him and the stability of the whole society.

And if you have a lot of power, the probability of abusing your power will be great, which is very unfavorable to social stability. Especially if you go on like this, your reputation and moral character will soon be destroyed, and then someone will give you a secret trip, waiting for your end is naturally to return to your previous life, and it is even very likely that it is not as good as your previous life.

As the older generation often said, it is very wise to eat as many bowls as possible, assign tasks to yourself according to your actual ability and determine your status. It's for your own good, and it's also for others' good. Never do anything that doesn't fit your identity, which will bring disaster.

Second, see the big from the small.

The meaning of this sentence is to describe a person's wisdom, which is actually not as good as he imagined, but he always thinks that he can cover everything, consider everything, and then plot something beyond his ability. Such people often fail in the end.

The most important quality of a person is to be able to do things down-to-earth, make progress step by step, do something that he can do and set some goals that he can achieve. This is what he should do when he was born, instead of talking all day, feeling how good he is, and then setting some ambitious goals, but finally he can't reach them at all.

Just like Princess Taiping, the daughter of Wu Zetian and Tang Gaozong, she is still very resourceful, but the difference is that her wisdom can't keep up with her own ambitions, and many things are not as good as planned, so naturally she is not as perfect as her mother Wu Zetian.

It happened that she plotted in the same position as her mother, and her IQ was not enough, which made her easy to be caught. Finally, she chose an incorrect way to plot a great career and lost it to her nephew. In fact, if she can assist the emperor well, it is still very useful, which shows the importance of seeing her true strength.

Third, the intensity is small and heavy.

There was a very famous bad emperor Yang Guang in history. His fatuity is not only manifested in his love for beauty and wine, but also in his being a very incompetent emperor in governing the country. At the beginning of his reign, he did a lot of things that consumed national strength, but at that time, the national treasury was very empty.

All kinds of wars in the north and south, but also the whole country to build the Grand Canal, a huge dynasty, was not very stable, was tossed around by him, consumed faster, simply could not stand his stupidity, and finally ended up with the country being taken away by others and ruined.

This story tells us the same as this sentence tells us. When your ability is not enough to support the task at hand, you might as well put it aside and adopt some rest and recuperation policies. When your ability is big enough, you can catch what you didn't finish before and do it. Only in this way can you get the most perfect result, otherwise it will only waste energy.

It is a very serious thing for a person to value his virtue, wisdom and ability. People's life is actually very short, there is no need to do these things, and they are very tired. When they truly realize their abilities, they can find a correct position and spend their lives safely.