What are the stresses and precautions for engagement?

Abstract: Engagement is the most important thing before marriage. After the engagement, it means that the two sides are about to enter the marriage hall and start preparing for the wedding. Although there is no uniform standard for engagement now, there are certain ceremonies and procedures, and the customs and etiquette of engagement are also very particular. So, what are the stresses and precautions for engagement? Next, take a look at the engagement strategy and precautions prepared by Bian Xiao for your reference. Western engagement process 1, admission. First, the priest, the groom, the best man and the bridesmaid enter. Next, the bride and the bride's father enter.

2. Declare and pray. When calling and praying, the groom should stand on the left side of the priest and the bride should stand on the right side of the priest. The announcement is that the priest asks and announces the new couple and the people attending the engagement ceremony, asking whether the new couple is willing to show their desire to get married in front of God and people, and whether they have any objection to the new couple's upcoming engagement, and generally they don't object. After the call, the priest prayed to God to bless today's new couple and engagement ceremony and the new couple who are about to get engaged, and was blessed by the Holy Spirit.

3. Everyone sang in chorus. After calling and praying, everyone will sing "Gong Xing Wedding Song".

4. The priest suggested. The priest's encouragement of the couple is an important part of the engagement ceremony.

5. Engagement. Next, in front of God and everyone, the priest will ask the couple and get engaged for them.

6. exchange vows. After the couple finished their engagement, they exchanged vows.

7. Exchange engagement rings. Men and women exchange engagement rings and wear rings to each other.

8. The priest announced. The priest announced that they were married before God and everyone.

9. Blessings from relatives. Relatives of both sides blessed the couple in turn.

10, the choir sings poetry. Two rings and a contract.

1 1, the blessing of the priest. The priest blessed the two newcomers.

12, kiss. Unmarried couples kiss and the engagement ceremony is completed. More+.

Wearing an engagement ring means that after the two families meet, they can initially decide the order of happy events. When the man proposes, he will give a ring inlaid with precious stones, not limited to diamonds. If it is a traditional family, it is usually handed down from home, which is not necessarily expensive, but it will be very meaningful. Nowadays, many people also buy new jewelry, which is usually inlaid. According to the custom of our country, the engagement ring is usually worn on the middle finger of the left hand, indicating that there is a heart.

In foreign countries, the wearing method of marriage proposal ring is different. It is usually worn on the ring finger of the left hand, because wearing a ring on the ring finger of the left hand means that you are married or engaged to the outside world, and other boys have no chance, so girls are willing to wear it on the ring finger, which means they are willing to marry boys. So the proposal ring should be worn on the ring finger of the woman's left hand. More+.

Marriage custom of Han nationality

1, Nacai. A man proposed to a woman and gave the goose as a gift.

2. Ask the name. After the collection, ask the woman's name to predict whether she is married or not.

3. Najib After asking the name and birthday, a fortune teller and a woman sent messengers to the woman's house to report the good news, which seemed very lucky.

4. Zheng Na. The man's emissary engaged his wife. After the conscription, the marriage entered the formal preparation stage.

5. Please invite the date. The man chose an auspicious day for his wedding and formally agreed that the woman would take the goose as a gift.

Zheng wedding

1, welcome. The new husband went to marry the bride.

2. Worship ceremony. Paying homage to the bride is the basic etiquette of traditional weddings in China. The couple knelt on the mat facing the podium to express their gratitude and commitment to heaven, the earth, their parents and each other.

3. Ceremony. Newcomers stand opposite each other, with several cases in the middle. Newcomers kneel down and are willing to work together. When you get married, love will not move.

4. Wally. The ceremony of washing clothes refers to watering and cleaning the bride and groom before they sit down, expressing the solemnity of the couple to the wedding. The new husband cleans his hands and face himself, then makes a towel for the bride and wipes his hands and face. It represents that at this moment, two new people are throwing themselves into a new life with pure and clear hearts.

5. * * * got married. "Book of Rites": "When a woman arrives, her husband enters, and she eats in prison, so she marries, so she fits in, humble and kiss." "Roommate" refers to the meat that the newlywed husband and bride eat in a tripod. "Couple" means that the bride and groom each hold a couple's cup and drink it relatively. The couple dined at the same table at the wedding, announcing that they will be a family from now on, symbolizing the happiness and longevity of the couple and sharing joys and sorrows with * * * *.

6. Wedding ceremony. The new husband poured the wine, and the two drank half before exchanging. The two of them spliced the gourd together, and the bride quickly wrapped the gourd. Gourd represents many children and many blessings. After drinking, husband and wife hope that they can share joys and sorrows and help each other for life. Then splice the gourd and connect the red rope as before. It symbolizes that the couple will become one and never part.

7. Untie your hair. "Removing tassels" means that the new husband personally removes the tassels from the bride's head. "Knotting hair" refers to cutting a bunch of hair from the bride and groom and combing it together with red tassels. The new husband cut off a strand of the bride's hair and then cut off his own. The bride opens her tool kits and the new husband puts them away in turn. Two people can tighten the sewing thread. It means that the husband and wife care for each other, grow old together, and be United forever.

8. Hold hands. Get up, the couple hold hands and look at each other. Hold your hand and your son * * *; Hold your hand and eat with your son; Take your hand and bring your son back; Hold your hand and sleep with your son; Hold your hand and grow old with your son; Hold your hand and grow old with your son.

wedding ceremony

1, women see menstruation. The wife calls her father-in-law "uncle" and her mother-in-law "aunt". The next morning after the wedding, the bride got up early, bathed and waited outside her in-laws bedroom door with a bamboo tube full of dates, chestnuts and prunes. "Jujube" means getting up early, "chestnut" means trembling, and "_ repair" means cheering up.

2. The woman feeds her aunt. The bride personally serves her in-laws for dinner. After the parents finish eating, the wife will symbolically eat the leftovers of her in-laws to show respect and filial piety. Another way of saying that "the woman gives gifts to her aunt" means that on the third day after the bride enters the door, she will cook and give gifts to her aunt to show that she will be in charge of the gift money and show filial piety. In the Tang dynasty, there was "the third day, cooking instead of me, washing hands to make bride soup;" I decided that it wasn't my mother-in-law, and my first task was to let my sister-in-law taste Folk Records.

3. Aunties and aunts. In-laws provide the bride with food and mouthwash, and reward her with "a gift" to show the care of her elders.

4. See women in the temple. Three months after the marriage, the in-laws took the bride to the ancestral temple to show that the woman had officially become a member of the in-laws. More+.

What engagement gift should I give each other?

1, for the woman: engagement ring, gold, chocolate, rose, pearl necklace, couple's watch, etc.

2. Send the man: jade, men's perfume, lovers' rings, watches, belts, etc.

An engagement present for my best friend.

1, embroidery. A woman's skillful hands are usually reflected in her embroidery skills. A good pair of Yuanyang embroidery is actually an engagement gift for her best girlfriend.

2. Plush toys. Plush toys are very popular for girls. You can choose some lovely plush toys to increase the romantic atmosphere of the wedding.

3. Bless the red envelope. Sometimes I can't attend the engagement ceremony because of work or other reasons. I can send her a red envelope through the internet to express my blessing.

4. Pearl jewelry. When economic conditions permit, it is also a good choice to prepare a pearl necklace or bracelet as a gift for your best friend.

Engagement gift taboo

1, avoid sending fans, which is homophonic with scattered sound. It is only used in summer. When the weather is cool in autumn, they are thrown away, which means rudeness. No matter how exquisite and expensive the fan you prepare, you'd better not send it.

2, avoid sending mirrors, mirrors are easy to break, and if they are not broken, they will reveal the true face of people, indicating that people are ugly, so they are taboo.

3, avoid giving knives, knives are easy to hurt people, there is a suspicion of losing face, and there is an idiom of "make a clean break", as a wedding gift gives people a bad feeling, so there are many taboos. Although your collection of knives is beautiful and valuable, it is not popular at Chinese weddings.

Don't send towels, because they are usually used to thank mourners for their mourning, so weddings are not welcome. Besides towels, wedding bedding, silk, fabrics are all ok.

5. You can't get married with a green hat. Giving a cuckold as a gift is considered an insult and taboo.

6, the umbrella can not be sent, umbrella and scattered homophonic, scattered is discrete, indicating bad luck.

7, good double bogey, China generally has the view of yes-men, all major events, gifts are good double bogey. Therefore, if there are multiple combinations of gifts, it is better to be even and avoid singular.

The homonym of 8 and 4 is "death", which is unlucky. Generally speaking, the number of gifts should be avoided. On the contrary, the numbers 6, 8 and 9 have better meanings.

9. Although white is pure, it is taboo in China. In China, white is usually the color of great sorrow and poverty. Similarly, black is considered unlucky, the color of disaster and mourning. In China, big red is usually very popular.

10, the clock can't send, which is homophonic with the tail, which is unlucky. You can give your friends expensive clocks and watches on birthdays and anniversaries, but it is best not to give them at weddings. More+.

Matters needing attention in engagement party 1. Number of people and objects at the banquet: As the saying goes, know yourself and know yourself, and you will win every battle. Although the engagement party is not a battlefield, it is very important for the whole life. What is more important than witnessing our happiness in front of friends and relatives? Therefore, first of all, we must determine the number of people for the banquet, so as to "prescribe the right medicine."

2. Time and place of banquet: time, place and person. Since we came into contact with composition, we know that these are the three basic elements. Entertaining the right person at the right time and place will leave a perfect engagement party. Especially in this country with a history of 5,000 years of civilization, we must choose an auspicious day, and then the location of the banquet, whether the environment is beautiful, whether the transportation is convenient, whether the dishes are satisfactory, and whether the food is satisfactory.

3. Engagement ceremony custom: According to the traditional custom, the whole process of engagement ceremony and the items to be prepared are quite complicated. Recently, however, people think that the traditional engagement ceremony is too troublesome, and more and more people want to carry out the engagement ceremony in a simple way. However, although the simple way, the two sides have different places of origin, different concepts, and different emphasis and concepts, both sides can acquire knowledge in advance. There will be some differences in matters such as bride price and return gift due to different regions. It is best to discuss intensively in advance and get to know each other. No matter which way is adopted, the customs are mostly simplified, and six kinds of gifts, ancestor worship, sweet tea and rings are prepared. Until the engagement party and other basic processes, it is still the most common content of engagement ceremony for ordinary people. Among the six kinds of gifts, "watch" can be said to be a very popular gift in return. Although there are no so-called six kinds of gifts abroad, there are cases where watches are given in exchange for engagement. Some newlyweds will engrave the same name as the ring on the back of the watch, such as the anniversary, as an eternal commemoration of the two. The bride-to-be can design different engagement ceremonies after consulting her fiance and considering her parents' opinions.

4. Engagement party: After the engagement ceremony is completed, the woman usually holds a banquet. Recently, some hotels have begun to launch some engagement plans for prospective couples. Because these engagement schemes are usually more cost-effective, it is also a good idea to use them effectively. In Europe and America, after the engagement ceremony, it is also a common way to entertain close relatives and friends and hold a natural and warm party. Don't get bored with the form and method, hold a family dinner in a warm way of holding an engagement party at home, and those who come to congratulate can also attend in a more relaxed mood. On the other hand, in Japan, there is also a so-called "engagement" after the ceremony. Generally speaking, family members or matchmakers of both sides choose Japanese kiosks, or recently some newcomers choose to hold banquets in high-style restaurants or restaurants.

If you want to send 3 gold, it means 3 gold jewelry. Platinum and gold are not required to send 100 1 yuan, which means to prepare a box. Put the back of the second bed in the box. Ten thousand is ten thousand, and the so-called three gold, clothes for the daughter-in-law. Sweaters, shoes and socks. Cotton jacket and watch. Then there are your conditions. But when the man goes to the woman's house, he must put cigarettes and sugar in the box. More+.