What do you mean by "women are too worried to say it"?

"Women's anxiety can't be said" means that women who are addicted to love can't get rid of it.

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Source: pre-Qin anonymous "Meng"

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Original text:

Embrace trade silk for self-protection. When robbers came to trade silk, they came to me. Sending a child involves gas, as for Dunqiu. When I was a robber, I had no good media. There is no anger in the child, and autumn lasts.

Take the other side of the wall to get back to the customs. I didn't see the resumption of customs, so I cried. Seeing the resumption of GATT, I was full of laughter and laughter. Well, Parr, the body is not responsible. Driving your car to bribe me to move. (2: Ba)

Mulberry leaves flourish before they fall. There are no mulberries in the nest! I'm a woman, what's there to worry about! It can be said that scholars are worried. You can't say a woman is worried.

Mulberry fell, yellow, and fell. Self-pity, poor three years old. Qishui soup, curtain skirt. Women are unhappy, and scholars do their best. Scholars are also extremely useless.

Being a woman at the age of three is exhausting. Sleepless all night, there must be a dynasty. As for violence, what you say must be done. My brother didn't know, but he smiled. Calm down and think about it, and you will bow your head and feel sorry for yourself.

Being together always makes me complain. Qi has a shore and discipline has a plate. General's corner banquet, talking and laughing. Swear, forget it. On the contrary, I don't think about it. I'm already embarrassed!

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Translation:

The man is simple and honest, with cloth in his arms for silk. Actually, I'm not really here to change diaosi, but to find an opportunity to talk about marriage. Send Lang Jun through the ice water and all the way to Dunqiu. It's not that I want to postpone the agreed wedding date and refuse to get married, but that you haven't found a good matchmaker yet. Please don't be angry, don't be angry. Come and get married when autumn comes.

Climb up the collapsed wall and watch from a distance. After re-entering, tears fell to those who didn't see hope. My lover came back from the city, talking and laughing happily. Your divination with tortoise plastron and yarrow is unlucky. You get married by car, and I'll marry you with my dowry.

Before the mulberry leaves fall, they shine like water. Alas, those turtledoves, don't be greedy for mulberries Hey, young girls, don't indulge in love with men. A man who is addicted to love can still get away. A woman addicted to love can't get rid of it.

When mulberry leaves fall, their leaves turn yellow and fall off one by one. Since I married your family, I have endured years of poverty. The ice water waves rolled and the cloth curtain on the car was wet by the waves. There is nothing wrong with my woman, but the behavior of men is inconsistent. Men's love is uncertain, and feelings change again and again.

After many years of marriage, I have always maintained a woman's morality and done heavy housework. Get up early and go to bed late, so it doesn't count. After your wish came true, you gradually became cruel to me. My brothers don't know what's wrong with me. They all laugh at me when they meet. Calm down and think about it, only one person can be sad.

At the beginning, I made an appointment with you to grow old together, and I hated it in vain. Qi water eventually has a shore, and the swamp is wide and has an end. Looking back, when I was young, I had more joy and more tenderness between laughter and laughter. The vows of eternal love are still in my ears. I didn't expect you to break them. Don't think about going back to the league, just stop now that it's over!

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Precautions:

Meng: "Shuo Wen" "Meng, the people also." The original meaning is foreign people, and here refers to people who come here from there and are called people. Chi(chρ)Chi: You just smiled with a sneer. Say simple and honest, honest.

Trade: trade. Embroidered silk is barter.

The second sentence "bandits are coming" means that the man didn't really come to buy silk, but came to discuss things with me. The matter under discussion is getting married. Bandit: No, it isn't. Pronounced as "fěi", that is, close, close. Ask: discuss. The ancient yin is dense (mο).

Q: The name of the Weiguo River. Qihe River in Henan Province today.

Dunqiu: Place name. Today's Henan is Qingfeng. Qiu: Ancient books are like "Bullying".

Qiān: negligence, negligence, here refers to procrastination. It's not that I want to postpone the agreed wedding date and refuse to get married, but that you haven't found a good matchmaker yet.

Will (qiāng): Yes, please. Do nothing: say "no" and don't.

Multiply: board. Guǐ yuán: The collapsed wall. Hey, crash. Wall, wall

Reentry: ① Reentry and return. Checkpoint: a checkpoint set up on the main passage. The lady is looking forward to attending the meeting as scheduled. He must pass the closed door when he comes. When you say "Fu", it is a similar name. ② Re-entry: the place name of Weiguo refers to the place where Meng lived.

Snuff: tears; Ripple: Tears look dirty. At first, she didn't see Peter come back to close the door, thinking that he had an appointment and couldn't come, so she burst into tears.

In (zài): verb prefix, meaningless.

Shiì: Burning a crack in the tortoise shell to judge good or bad luck is called "divination". Divination with grass is called "divination". Body: refers to tortoise omen and divination, that is, the result of divination.

Jiù: Unlucky, disaster. No blame: refers to no evil divination.

Bribery: property refers to dowry and dowry (lián). The above four sentences mean that you can see good fortune and bad fortune from divination. As long as the divination results are good, you can send a car to get married and move a dowry.

Wolo: It's still "Wolan", shining like water. Above two sentences, the flourishing period of mulberry is better than the period when one's love is satisfied and life is beautiful.

The original meaning of "Xu" is to express surprise, surprise, emotion, etc. Both "Yu" and "Yu" here express emotions. Dove: Turtledove. Legend has it that turtledove will get drunk if she eats too many mulberries.

Dān: infatuation, addiction, excessive pleasure.

Say, "get rid of", get rid of.

Meteor (yǔn): Falling, falling. Here, the falling of yellow leaves is used as a metaphor for women's aging and color decline. Yellow: turn yellow.

Yellow and gone: yellow, too, in the article "Go to the top".

Yao (cú): Go; Pierre: Marry your family.

Eat poor: live a poor life.

Soup (shāng) soup: the emergence of huge water potential.

Gradually (jiān): I'm soaked. Curtain (wéi) clothing (cháng): a cloth curtain beside the car. The above two sentences mean to cross the water and return home after being abandoned.

Cool: Wrong.

Two: not single-minded, with two hearts, as opposed to "one". The above two sentences mean that the woman is not at fault and the man's behavior is wrong.

W: No, no; Extreme: standards, norms.

Two or three virtues: morally half-hearted, words and deeds are different.

It is said that all the work at home is shouldered by one shoulder.

Room labor: housework. Nothing: nothing.

"Su Xing" two sentences: that is, talking about going to bed early and going to bed late, so it is countless. Su Su: Good morning. G: Get up.

What you said is done: the word "Yan" is an auxiliary word and has no meaning.

Completion: In Gu Feng, it means "birth and education", which means that since the wish has come true.

Er (Xing): The way you smile. The above two sentences mean that my brothers don't know what happened to me, and they all laugh at me when they meet.

Meditate silently: calm down and think about it. Words: syllable auxiliary words have no practical meaning.

Bow and mourn: I am sad alone. Bow, yourself; Mourn, grieve.

Jill: I once agreed to grow old with you, but the idea of growing old together made me hate in vain.

ⅵ (xí): the place with low humidity; As "wet", the name of water is Luohe, a tributary of the Yellow River, which flows through the territory of Weiguo. Pan (pàn): connecting the "shore" water margin with the shore. The above two sentences are a link between the preceding and the following, saying that there must be a shore in the water, which means that everything has its edge and its own worries are endless. The implication is that if you grow old with such a man, it will be endless.

Total angle: In ancient times, men and women tied their hair into a bun when they were minors, which was called total angle. This refers to childhood. Banquet: Happy.

(Yan): Happy and harmonious.

Danny: Sincerity.

Reverse: betrayal, violation. Forget it: I never thought I would break my oath.

Instead of thinking about it: violating these. Yes, demonstrative pronoun, meaning oath. Is to repeat the meaning of the last sentence and change the syntax of the next sentence, Ye Yun.

Yes: close, terminate.

Yan Zai (pronounced as Z Ρ in ancient times): modal particles are used together to strengthen the tone and express exclamation. The last sentence is equivalent to saying forget it!

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Creative background:

The poem Dream is a representation of the poet's typical emotions in real life. Poets unconsciously used realistic creative methods to express their tragic experiences through singing, which played a reflective and critical role in the social reality at that time. Dream is a folk song, and it is written orally. At first, it was widely circulated among the people. After repeated singing and constant revision by countless working people, such a complete poem was formed until the time of writing. In the process of spreading, people have permeated their feelings about love and marriage into singing, so the works are full of realism.

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Appreciate:

(A) the creative method of realism

The heroine in the poem describes her own personal experiences and feelings, all of which are true feelings. And this kind of true feelings is universal and typical in class society. Poets are good at grasping all kinds of complex contradictions in the subject matter. She caught the contradiction between herself and Meng, as the agent of husband's power. They changed from the relationship between husband and wife to the relationship between oppression and oppression, revealing the social reality of the patriarchal system. She grasped the contradiction between herself and her brother, reflected the social morality and public opinion at that time, and was the thought centered on husband's rights and the reality of abandoning her wife and helplessness. She grasped her inner contradiction: can she live together without parents' orders and matchmaker before marriage? I am happy when I see self-protection, but I am sad when I don't see self-protection. How to solve the contradiction between seeing and not seeing? These intricate contradictions constitute the main contradiction of poetry-the contradiction between feudal ethical code system and women's desire for a happy family life. This was an extremely remarkable and universal phenomenon in the society at that time. Secondly, the poet Meng is good at portraying characters. There are two distinct images in Meng. One is a cunning and ungrateful "self-protection", and the other is a kind abandoned "woman". Self-protection means that farmers go into exile from other places in order to defend the country. "Embrace Trade Silk" points out that he is still a small businessman. At first, he was false honesty, false warmth and false loyalty. He cheated an innocent and beautiful girl by hypocritical means and got her love, body, labor and furniture. After marriage, he showed his true colors. I used to swear every day, but now I have changed my mind. I used to be very affectionate with her, but now I am very "violent", not only abusing her, but even kicking her out of the house. Some people say: Meng was a sheep before marriage and a wolf after marriage. This metaphor is vivid and accurate. The image of self-protection is the product of the husband's power system and the product of businessmen's mercenary. The poem also depicts the image of a kind working woman. At first, she may be engaged in some sideline business of sericulture and reeling, so she has some savings. She was innocent and inexperienced, so that she agreed to her heart at once. Seeing that Meng was unhappy, she quickly comforted: "I will have no regrets, and autumn will continue for a while." She is affectionate and really loves herself. When she can't see him, she will "cry" and when she sees him, she will "laugh". She is brave and dares to live with Meng without media. She was very loyal and moved herself and her belongings to Meng's house by car. After marriage, she lived in poverty and lived a hard life of self-protection. She works hard and does housework together. She is very down-to-earth. When her family gets better and her husband abuses her, she always loves to protect herself (and her daughter is unhappy). After being abandoned, she was strong and resolute, calm and rational, saw the hypocrisy and ugliness of self-protection, and resolutely refused to fight against self-protection. She changed from a simple, affectionate and brave girl to a hard-working and humiliating wife, and then to a strong and determined divorcee. Her character developed with the change of her relationship with Mongols. Through the sharp contrast between self-protection and female images, it is clear who is true and who is false, who is good and who is evil, who is beautiful and ugly. The true face of the unequal society between men and women at that time was as it is now. Therefore, the author Meng unconsciously used realistic creative methods. Zhou Yang said: "Where there is literature, there are creative methods. Myths and legends are the origin of romanticism, and The Book of Songs is the origin of realism. " His summary accords with the actual situation in the history of China literature.

(B) than a harmonious and prosperous artistic approach

The poet is a rural woman, and the natural scenery around the countryside is familiar to her every day. When a poet touches something, he sings. The third chapter "Mulberry leaves have blossomed before it falls" is a metaphor for the happiness of young and beautiful girls at their first marriage. The fourth chapter "Mulberry has fallen, but it has fallen yellow" is also a metaphor for the haggard face of abandoned wife and the pain of being abandoned. The third chapter "Don't eat mulberries when pregnant with pigeons" is a metaphor, which means the following two sentences: "Don't worry about scholars when pregnant with women". The sixth chapter's "qi has a shore, discipline has a plate" is inversely proportional, and the changes of people's hearts are endless and unpredictable. All these have played a positive role in shaping the image, highlighting the theme and strengthening the ideological significance of poetry.

(C) the expression of contrast

This is due to the reflection of realistic contradictions in people's minds. There are two forms: 1. Syntactic contrast, such as "women are unhappy, scholars do their best"; "The scholar's sorrow is fair to say; Women are embarrassed and can't say it. " This is the contrast between scholars and women. The contrast between Mulberry Not Falling and Mulberry Already Falling, and the contrast between Not Seeing Re-entry and Seeing Re-entry are all against each other, which is more effective in shaping images and expressing feelings. 2. Before and after the comparison, such as Meng, before marriage is a "laughing oath"; After marriage, "whatever you say and do, as for violence." Different attitudes set off each other, depicting the essence of hypocrisy.

(D) Metonymy rhetoric

Poetry is thinking in images, not abstract preaching. We should use concrete things to express abstract artistic conception. The language of images can easily stimulate readers' imagination and enhance the charm of poetry. The poet "Meng" represents Meng by "re-entering" the place where Meng lives, and "general angle" represents childhood. Look into the distance and express your love through the wall. The briber moved to the table and lived together by car, and returned to China with the "seven waters of Tang Tang, a curtain coat". Use the "three-year-old" table for many years, and use the "two or three" table repeatedly. This is the same as the poet who picked Wei replacing spring with "willow yiyi" and winter with "intermittent rain". The language received is meaningful and thought-provoking.

(5) the authenticity of rhetoric

Chen Wangdao's "The Origin of Rhetoric" said: "Topping really means using the end of the previous sentence as the beginning of the next sentence, so that the ends of adjacent sentences are connected together, and there is a rhetorical method to convey interest." This rhetoric is common in songs. This may be due to the collective singing method, word of mouth, this singing method and that singing method are interrelated and easy to remember a sentence pattern. Such as "exchange cloth for silk, bandits for silk", "I look forward to the resumption of customs, but I don't see it", "I don't care about scholars, but I worry about them", "I always complain when I am old" and "I don't think about the negative, but I don't think about it" are all true sentences in the poem "Self-protection". Not all the re-elected words are at the beginning of the sentence, but some of them have the same function in the sentence, all of which are to strengthen the musicality of the poem.

(6) Application of interjections

When poets express strong feelings or profound thoughts, they often express them with sounds or sighs. For example, when she recalls her love life before marriage, her feelings are relatively stable and there is no need to sigh. The third chapter is lyrical and passionate, with two words "Yujie", three words "Xi" and two words "Ye". The fourth chapter has some feelings about "Mulberry Fall" and uses the word "one". The fifth chapter tells the most exciting time when she was abused by her husband and laughed at by her brother. She used six words "Yi" to express her deep feelings and tone. In the last chapter, I expressed my indignation and rejection of self-protection, strengthened the tone, lengthened the tone, and resolutely sang "No" (forget it)! The word "gorgeous" is used together, just like the end of the curtain of a traditional Chinese opera, which makes people feel the lingering sound.

(seven) the expression of the call.

Because the poet's feelings are very strong, although he is not in front of the person he loves or the person he hates, he feels that if he is in front, he will complain or reprimand, which is the characteristic of calling. It is most commonly used in lyric poetry. In the third chapter of the poem, "Self-protection", the poet describes her abandonment and her anger, and links her personal fate with the fate of ordinary women at that time, as if there were a group of young women in front of her. She told them about her pain. In the process of love, she should be alert to men's change of heart in the future. It is difficult for her to get rid of the scourge: "If you are a woman, you will have no worries with literati!" The anxiety of scholars can still be said; You can't say you are a woman! "These phone calls sang a strong indignation at the social phenomenon of gender inequality. The sixth chapter turns to the form of a call, "Changing the boss with my husband makes me complain". At this moment, it seems that self-protection stands in front of him, reprimanding his oath as cheating. Then, with the scenes of harmonious feelings, laughing and swearing when I was young, I set off today's ingratitude. Grief and indignation reached a climax again. At last he shouted, "I don't think about it, but I don't think about it." What a pity! "If you don't call to reprimand the self-protection here, it is not enough to take revenge.

The tone of this poem is sonorous and natural, full of true feelings. The overlapping of adjectives such as "Chichi", "Lianlian", "Tang Tang", "Yan Yan" and "Dandan" is used in the poem, which not only plays the role of imitating sound and painting posture, but also enhances the musicality of the poem. The composition of folk songs in The Book of Songs is mostly repetitive. Because of the poet Meng's complicated feelings and tortuous narration, he stopped singing in the form of chapters, which is rare in folk songs.

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Classical Chinese knowledge:

Common words

(1) For self-protection.

Sophia Kao: Say "before" and smile. Speaking of loyalty.

② Yu Jie dove Xi.

Metaphor: saying "Xu", exclaiming and expressing emotion.

(3) The child has no anger.

Do nothing: say "no" and don't.

4 you can also say.

Say, "get rid of", get rid of.

⑤ Pan (⑤ Pan).

Pan: Pass the "side" and the side.

Different meanings of ancient and modern times

(As for) Dunball

Ancient meaning: to; Meaning: To reach a certain level.

② No scholar/scholar/woman.

Ancient meaning: addiction; Meaning: procrastination.

③ Autumn (thinking) period

Ancient meaning: treat ... as; Meaning: thinking.

(4) (crying)

Ancient meaning: tears; Meaning: tears and runny nose.

⑤ Move with me (bribe)

Ancient meaning: property; Today's meaning: bribe with property.

⑥ Banquet from a general angle (banquet)

Ancient meaning: happiness; Today's meaning: banquet.

All landowners three-year-old poor/three-year-old wife

Ancient meaning: many years; Modern meaning: refers to age.

Flexible use of parts of speech

(1) its (yellow) and meteorite: turning yellow (adjective as verb)

(2) (23) Its advantages: frequent changes (numerals such as verbs)

(3) Sleep at night: day/night (noun as adverbial)

(4) three-year-old food (poor): poor life (adjective as noun)

⑤ Scholars (2) and their behavior: not single-minded, with two hearts (numerals as verbs)