How do couples manage a good marriage relationship?

Everyone wants to run their own marriage well, but running a marriage well does not depend on wishes, feelings and responsibilities, but also needs the wisdom, emotional intelligence and pattern of two people. Generally speaking, people who know how to think are not too unlucky. Learn to borrow other people's experience and experience, and avoid detours.

20 words for married men and women, I hope you get better!

1, don't bring the ideal into reality.

You can always distinguish between ideal and reality. If you live in real life, you can't have so many unrealistic expectations or even perfect expectations for life and your lover.

Otherwise, you will get the same disappointment, which is usually fatal in marriage and will make you nervous breakdown.

2. Husband and wife need more tolerance.

Yes, it is tolerance, not tolerance, but accommodation and understanding. There is no real empathy in this world unless you have exactly the same experience.

So never expect a person to really understand you. Because there is tolerance, there will be no needle pointing at the wheat.

3. Happiness needs to be defined by itself.

Happiness is a feeling of the soul, and self-perception is not synchronized with wealth, status and prestige.

Don't be blinded by material desires, those are fleeting clouds, which will definitely make you more empty after bringing you a short pleasure. The simpler the happier.

4. Marriage is a change of life.

Marriage does not mean the beginning of romance, but a change in lifestyle.

In other words, its essence is life. As long as it is life, there will be troubles, trifles and bumps, and no matter how vigorous the feelings are, they can't escape the ordinary home.

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5. Marriage is the career of two people.

If you want to run a good marriage, you can't put personal interests first, but you should put family interests first.

Two people can move towards the same goal. * * * Qi Xin works together to make a pair of chopsticks, and no one can do without them, and then they can taste them together.

The itch of 1967 is not a spell.

Whether it's three years of pain or seven years of itching, it doesn't mean that the relationship between husband and wife will definitely itch in that year. In fact, it's just a novelty, plus the accumulation of contradictions.

When it accumulates to a certain extent, it just broke out that year, so don't underestimate any small thing.

7. A good marriage depends not only on feelings.

Feelings are the foundation of marriage, but marriage also needs bread to guarantee it. Since living in the secular world, it is hard to be extraordinary.

A good relationship between husband and wife depends not only on feelings, but also on the wife's admiration for her husband and a harmonious husband and wife life. Three views are also crucial. Actually, marriage is very realistic.

8. Don't try to reform each other.

Everyone is a unique individual, learn to respect and accept each other's differences.

Don't be angry because the other person can't be what you want, because you can't be what you want. Everyone has his own advantages and disadvantages, as well as his own strengths and weaknesses. Try to find each other's advantages, don't stare at each other's shortcomings.

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9. Couples are afraid of the cold war.

Speaking of the cold war, it is better to love one more person than to test one's patience.

People who like the cold war are psychologically selfish and just want to embarrass each other. However, this kind of mental torture is too easy for people to collapse and have the impulse to escape, so it is easy to divorce.

10, try to avoid unnecessary quarrels.

You know, the kind that can't get results. At most, it is to vent your inner emotions, but it also hurts each other deeply.

A good quarrel is the lubricant of feelings, and a bad quarrel will only shake the foundation of feelings. Don't turn quarrels into injuries. Both sides should restrain themselves and don't let hatred stay overnight.

1 1, the wife should learn to guide her husband.

What kind of person you are, you will meet what kind of person, and what kind of person you are will affect what kind of person the other person becomes.

Couples can influence each other. If you want your husband to change, don't directly control and reform, but influence him through weakness, guidance and arrangement.

12, don't keep attacking each other.

When a person is in a bad mood, he can know enough is enough. Don't keep attacking each other when they are in a bad mood.

When the other party is in a good mood, saying what you want to say can avoid many contradictions. Even if the other party doesn't do anything well, there should be no fatal nagging. In that case, even if he knows he is wrong, he won't think he is wrong.

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13, good marriage persistence.

Many times, when you can try to hold on a little longer, the ending may be very different.

You don't insist on seeing hope, but if you persist, you will see hope. There are no couples who don't have conflicts and divorce, and they don't divorce easily unless they have to.

Marriage is not as beautiful as people think, but divorce is often worse than people think.

14, try to give each other time.

Never think about tying each other to your side, or throwing yourself directly on each other, which will make both of them breathless.

Don't doubt each other easily, try to give some trust, some things can't be avoided by your prevention in advance. Doubt is the most taboo evidence in marriage.

15, there is no better person waiting for you behind.

It is easy for people to have an illusion, or a blind self-confidence, and hold themselves too high.

I always feel that the lover in front of me is not good enough for me. Once divorced, I will meet something better in the future, and there will be something better waiting for me.

16, communication is the best management of marriage.

No one is a worm in anyone's stomach, just like there is a saying, how do I know you love me if you don't say I love you?

If you don't say what you think, how can I know what you think? Therefore, frequent communication is very necessary and necessary. Only in this way can we know if there is anything that neither side can do.

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17, try not to live with your parents.

Both parents-in-law and parents-in-law can live separately and try not to live together.

It is an eternal truth that incense is far away and taste is near. Not from the same era. Living habits are so bad that all the little things add up to be fatal.

18, it's smart to play dumb.

Playing dumb doesn't mean you are really stupid, but it is a kind of wisdom, a kind of connotation and a kind of pattern.

There are too many trifles when two people are together. If you care about everything to the end, there will never be a peaceful day, just muddle along and hold the same attitude.

19, forgetfulness is a necessary factor for happiness.

Don't turn over some old sesame seeds and rotten millet when you quarrel.

Obviously, a person has changed a lot, and as a result, your words are equivalent to denying each other's efforts for so long. You'd better be a fool and don't take things that should be forgotten to heart.

20. Marriage is like an umbrella.

All marriages are like this. When the storm comes, it will protect you and make you feel comfortable. However, on sunny days, this umbrella becomes a burden.

You should be able to treat marriage with the right attitude.

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These are 20 sentences I want to give to all couples. If there is, I will change them and encourage them.

If you can manage your marriage well, you are already very capable and worthy of admiration. There is a lot of knowledge in it, and it is often difficult to understand it for a lifetime.

No one knows everything. Actually, everyone is learning.

I hope that when the husband and wife are in conflict, it is more useful to give each other a little time and patience and find the fundamental problem than to lose your temper at random. The second is to be full of awe in marriage, and no one can selfishly escape the obligations undertaken by two people.

Some suggestions are good, you can't just listen to them. When you feel meaningful, remember to use it to motivate yourself.

Less arbitrary, more considerate of each other, even if married, still independent individuals, should set off each other and become their own scenery.