I am very happy, but I can't forget my predecessor. What should I do?

It's simple. Force yourself to forget. You can't forget him because you think that only you can give him happiness, and only he can give you the happiness you want, but the happiness he needs doesn't necessarily come from you, and the happiness you need doesn't necessarily come from him.

In fact, after all these years, what's the point? What we should regret is over. Now I feel that I can't let go, just because of the beauty at the beginning. The former is like a person stepping on a piece of shit while walking, but after air drying, he feels like a piece of chocolate. But don't worry, when you get closer, you will find that he still smells familiar.

However, it is difficult to really forget someone, and people will always think of it from time to time. If the breakup is not complete, or for serious reasons, many people will miss their predecessors and recall the past. I think, with a person, you should be single-minded. Being single-minded doesn't mean loving only one person all your life, but being single-minded when you love one person. It is not easy for two people who like each other to get together.

You should be clear about your attitude. Since you choose to forget and start over, please be decisive, be responsible for yourself, your present position and respect your predecessor. A boy said, I don't want to be with my ex, but she came to me, she chatted with me, she invited me to dinner, and she invited me to a movie. Hehe, does she have to go if she asks you?

Just like playing poker with friends, occasionally playing may contact feelings; But if you gamble every day, you will ruin your life. Everything has gone too far. If you just recall your youth and miss it occasionally, that's normal, because everyone has flashbacks to the past in memory.

But if it develops into sharing what you are doing with the person in your memory every day, it will become another matter, from accidental memory to harm to your present life. So the best way is to hack him.