I don't know how to refuse, but my boyfriend took advantage of me. Now he is cold to me and doesn't pay much attention to me. I want to break up with him, but I feel that I have suffered a loss.

First, do you love him? I don't think I love you, even if you do, it's just a good feeling, probably like any alien friend. But he loves you, and obviously he doesn't. It is said that men are animals with lower body thinking. Men keep saying that they will give you happiness in the second half of your life, but in fact they will give you happiness in the second half. Women should understand what is important to them. Women can be weak and have no personality, and they can't understand anything, but they can't be without it. You'd better think it over before you do it! There are many things you don't regret. Even if you can cover up a lot of the past in many ways and not let others find it, in your heart, the worries and scars in your heart can only be seen and tasted by yourself! So be nice to yourself, okay?

I suggest you talk openly. Ask him what he really thinks. If he thinks he doesn't like you at all, he is the kind of romantic man. Don't go back and say goodbye, and don't dwell on it. Remember not to eat this dumb loss in the future!