What do you mean, too self?

1. People are self-centered, but to different degrees. If you don't believe me, go and see if everyone always likes to say, "How am I?" When chatting with others, but what you can't hear is the psychologist or the one with deep talent. If people blindly output "I" without listening to what others are like in the process of communicating with others, it is probably self. In the long run, the relationship will be unbalanced.

2. Excessive self-awareness will have a bad influence on people. For example, what others say and what theories have nothing to do with you, but you may involuntarily substitute for yourself. In this case, we will lose an objective position to observe and think about many problems. Therefore, try to "find yourself" and observe and think from the perspective of a third party that has nothing to do with yourself, and you will get different fun. There is also the more self-stripping, the less emotional it will be. So many beautiful things that may make people unhappy will eventually become samples in the observation pool.