Wei Song fortune-telling

Notes of Hunan Satellite TV's "True Love" column

April 9, 2007, the truth-director's note, father, can you bless me?

Perhaps the most helpless thing in the world is planting love, but being alienated. Shen's father's intervention in his daughter's marriage and love stems from selfless fatherly love, but the gap is getting deeper and deeper because of unsuccessful communication. Shen Miao is bent on getting his father's forgiveness, but he doesn't understand his father's knot, which is also a communication mistake.

We often talk about communication. What is communication? Perhaps, only by crossing the gap between people and looking at it from each other's point of view can we be connected with each other.

Anyone who used to be a child will be a parent-when you are a parent, you might as well recall your childhood feelings. Are you willing to listen to every suggestion from your parents? Have you ever had rebellious youth? Parents want to teach their children their own experiences, so that their children will no longer eat the hardships they have suffered and take the detours they have taken. This is of course well-intentioned, but it also invisibly deprives children of their rights. Injury and pain are a right. Only after experiencing these setbacks can we be more rational and brave!

And when you are a child and a woman, imagine how you feel as a parent. Are you willing to be misunderstood and contradicted by children? Don't dislike your parents' nagging. When they said "I have crossed more bridges than you", they didn't insist that you repeat their route. Maybe it's just that their parents are old and lonely, miss you and want to talk to you about their past.

At the moment when the stubborn Shen Fu and the equally stubborn Shen Miao embraced again, we felt very clearly that in a family, there was only eternal love and no long-term resentment. If you confront your family in front of the TV, please think about it. Life is short, please try to love each other.

April, 2007.16 True Love —— A Record of the Director of Little Horse Hill's Wish

/kloc-behind the feat of saving his father by Wu Mashan, a 0/2-year-old rural teenager, we also saw the dereliction of duty of two mothers. Their indifference to children and families surprised us, but it also forced us to re-examine the existence of this special group. They are the true epitome of abandoned parents.

People often ask about the social responsibility for abandoned babies and children who are out of school, but parents' unshirkable responsibility actually requires people to reflect. Family is the cell of society, and parents must do their duty. If parents can't take up the responsibility of raising and educating their children, then the organism of society will definitely get sick.

China traditional culture emphasizes "filial piety". Life is indeed given by parents, but the beginning of life is also passive. Parents should do their duty and take the initiative to create life. You can't just enjoy the joy of the birth of new life without bearing the weight of their growth. Poverty, inability and lack of time can't be excuses for shirking responsibility. Even if we can't give our children a comfortable material environment, we should try our best to let them bathe in the care of their parents.

In fact, sending affection to children is not only the wish of children, but also the natural need of parents. From the figure of Xiaohong's biological mother stumbling behind her daughter, and the tears shed by Wumashan's mother when she promised to go home, we can all see that giving love to her children is human nature and the greatest happiness in a person's life. I hope that the tragedy of "saving dad" in Xiaomashan will not be repeated.

April 23, 2007 "True Love"-"Wife, can you let me go home" director's notes.

Marriage is like a movie that is constantly being staged, and some people can make a perfect curtain call; Some people are overwhelmed and have to quit halfway-it all depends on what role husband and wife play in marriage. Li Lei and Xiao Li are undoubtedly a pair of failed protagonists.

As a husband, Li Lei is still playing a little son spoiled by his parents and sisters, which not only makes his wife feel helpless, but also makes him unable to find a man's self-esteem because of his misplaced identity. Unfortunately, he actually broke through this embarrassment by cheating and running away, which actually proved his immaturity.

As a wife, Xiao Li plays the dual roles of mother and sister, but forgets the identity of his wife. A wife is not a person who bears a heavy burden for her husband, but a person who grows up with her husband, shares it and bears it together. If your love is too restrictive and too heavy, men may run away because of depression.

Marriage is actually a school. When Li Lei finally came home and wanted Xiaoli to confess, he finally took the first step of growth, and both Li Lei and Xiaoli paid a high price for it. If you are married or about to get married in front of the TV, have you ever thought about the price you paid in this school? What have you gained?

April 30th, 2007, Real Feelings —— The Director's Notes of Children's Dreams

The truth finally came out. A mystery that has been pursued for ten years seems to have an ending; A relationship that lasted for forty years is finally coming to an end. Finally, the old man was surprisingly calm. But our hearts have been restless for a long time. How to describe this sincere action? Did it work? Yes, because of the ending; But it is a failure, because it can't give an old man the ultimate spiritual comfort. The old man is so lost. Is he going to stumble through the last journey of his life with heart-wrenching regrets? Who can hold the old man and support him?

Looking back on the experience of these days, in fact, many times the old people are a little confused, such as trusting a fortune teller, clinging to a joke, and even wondering if the other person is conscious. What the old man insists on is nothing more than his long-awaited affection. You can't get what is in front of you, you can only pursue it hopelessly.

Why not take care of the people closest to the elderly? He is your old father and grandfather! How did he put up with all his pains to raise you? Now that he is dying, what can he care about with the old man? Please abandon prejudice, regain due respect for the elderly, care for your loved ones, and make the elderly no longer lonely in their later years.

May 7, 2007, true love-it's all the fault of the house.

Love is often romantic and affectionate; But marriage is realistic and concrete. When love turns into marriage, two lovers who have vowed to each other and never separated often feel that life in front of them becomes extremely real, so troubles cover up passion and trivial matters cover up romance. Is this an unsolved life proposition?

When economic pressure, running-in with parents, changes in the mode of getting along, etc. all come with the beginning of marriage, if Wei Song really flinches, then she can escape the temporary troubles, but she may lose confidence in love from now on, and then his life may become a semicircle that is missing forever.

Xiao Kun didn't feel tired during the five-year long-distance running of love, but the marathon of marriage has just begun, but he is a little slack, spending less and loving less. In fact, marriage needs more careful management than love. When your lover is disappointed, discouraged, timid or feels pain or hesitation in real life, you should tell him (her) with the most firm action: Dear, there is me! I believe that this kind of lake movement, the other party will never even escape back to you with resentment, but with the same firm smile.

Marriage should not be the grave of love, but a rite of passage full of transitional pain. Similarly, it is also a test for both parents. Because no matter how anxious parents are, they can't replace them. Excessive interference in their marriage and Xiao's parents will only add another burden to the relationship. When Xiao Kun put a ring on Wei Song, all these hesitations and burdens were forgiven, because they understood that marriage and love are not enemies, and the transition from love to marriage is actually a sublimation of life.

May 2007 14 True Love-Director's Note "Sister, can you still let me go home?"

People on earth are good at living. No one is born evil. Even a heinous guy has a soft and kind corner in his heart. What's more, a child of 13 years old is definitely not hopeless.

We believe that a mother's hatred for her son comes from her deep love. We also believe what my sister said. It was only on impulse that I wanted to send this demon brother to prison. The sincere tears of a family of three can prove their feelings after they confide their feelings. A son is a son after all; Brothers are brothers after all. After his life went astray, he needed the care, guidance and help of his relatives.

In today's society, communication and network are developed; Population and information inflation. Everyone's social contact area and social activity area have been greatly broadened. The growth education of minors has become a recognized problem. I'm afraid it's also because they can't tell good from bad in the face of huge information. But we must be soberly aware that the objective environment is not an excuse for parents to shirk their responsibilities. The growth trajectory of a child still directly depends on the family environment and family education. His judgment of right and wrong and his preference for good and evil are definitely first-hand information from his relatives. Almost everyone can teach children right and wrong, but have you always noticed the subtle words and deeds in front of children in life? These are also important factors in forming children's value judgment. Hu's personal words and deeds are her personal rights, but I'm afraid they are not perfect in front of a younger brother.

It is very important to educate minors to be patient. Simple stick education and empty talk can't solve the problem substantially. This is really a complicated and huge project. Parents must be prepared to make great efforts and painstaking efforts.

Hu and his mother used to give love beyond blood, and we also believe that in the future, they can lead back to the right path with their own efforts, so that this affection can continue.

May 2, 20071,true love-the director's notes on grandma's departure.

As the saying goes, every family has its own problems. The accident of her husband's death 25 years ago completely collapsed Grandma He's world. Grandma, who is suffering from the loss of her husband, quietly closes her emotional world and doesn't want to come out. In the next few years, criticism and censure became the main content of her life. Coupled with the feudal ideology of son preference, Grandma He increasingly blames her daughter-in-law for her unhappy life: Because she blames her daughter-in-law, Grandma He is more willing to believe all malicious speculations about her daughter-in-law until today's runaway storm.

But after 25 years, why can't anyone stop the gradual deterioration and escalation of this family conflict? As sons, daughters-in-law, and granddaughters, they may all feel wronged and helpless, especially today, 25 years later, China people often say that "the youngest is the youngest", and older people tend to show their childlike innocence and impermanence more easily. Therefore, as a relative, when you face the elderly who are about to enter the twilight years, you should not only care about life as simple as that, but also help her get out of that painful period and give the elderly psychological relief and guidance.

Today, the story of Grandma He's family is by no means as simple as the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in ordinary families. When we see grandma's face blooming like a child's smiling face, what else is worth caring about with the elderly?

We wish that the troubled family can really live in harmony from today, because, don't they all say "home is prosperous"

May 28th, 2007 True Love-Dad, can you still go home? "director's notes"

It is said that marriage is a besieged city and outsiders want to rush in; The people inside want to rush out.

Is this really the truth of life?

When lovers who love each other break through all obstacles and step onto the red carpet, if they don't realize that the future life is more the responsibility of family and relatives, the seeds of pain may be planted at this time.

People often say that there is love to have a home.

So what is love? What is home?

Yang Lei's parents hurt each other in the name of love, but they lack the necessary tolerance and communication. They are even used to this kind of slander, which almost leads to the collapse of their families.

So what is love?

Is it dedication? Is it together? Still tolerant? Maybe no one can simply explain him clearly.

In fact, love is sometimes really fragile, so love needs to be managed and maintained, and sometimes even repaired.

Although, people often worry about whether the repaired items are still valuable.

Maybe he will leave marks or cracks on his appearance.

However, the old man once said: If the scraped bowl falls to the ground again, even if it falls everywhere, the scraped places will be firmly together.

Therefore, we must all learn to accept the regret of Bai Bi's slight defects!

After experiencing the storm, we will know more about the hard-won happiness.

Today, Yang Lei's parents finally got a long-lost hug, which may be just the beginning of their new life. We sincerely wish that Yang Lei's family can cherish this lost love and affection after coming out of the program True Love. Carry out the true feelings that belong to their family to the end!

June 4, 2007 "True Love"-the director's notes that ruined their happiness.

Can Qin Weiming really get happiness in the future? I'm afraid no one can give an answer. But at least at the scene, we ended a fragile relationship. Love and hate are twins. At this time, the person closest to you will often become your most hated enemy at that time, and a tearful breakup is often the beginning of the next reunion. The development of feelings is definitely not a simple straight line, and its amplitude is no less than the shock in the stock market. Being in love is also risky. Where there is success, there is failure. Everyone should treat it rationally.

For Zhang Xin, she probably shouldn't take such drastic action. True love requires unconditional 100% from both sides. When this contribution has been discounted or not too pure, letting go at this moment may become the starting point of future happiness. For Qin Weiming, he should understand the true meaning of choice and responsibility. Paying for love and keeping promises is a responsibility, and choosing in time is also a responsibility. No matter what choice you make, it is a personal matter and others can understand it. However, being interrupted and hiding is not a responsible performance of men. Even if you can't give a person happiness, you can't delay her chance to get happiness. Similarly, we hope everyone can understand that their happiness should not be based on the suffering of others.

Love, there is no law, I hope everyone can make a timely and sincere choice!