My husband said I was a fool. What does he mean?

If your husband always says you are a fool, then he should not respect you enough, and sometimes even insult and slander you. You have no place in his heart, or that kind of heavy position. If you are more important in his heart, then he dares to judge you easily. In fact, he thinks so in his heart, and he won't say it in his mouth. If he says it directly, it means that he is really tired of you. There are also some resentment. You may feel really naive, and sometimes you may be naive like a fool. But anyway, your relative said that you were really angry, so he trusted your opinion. Obviously, you can go back.