Why do you say that the circle determines life?

We have our own "circle" since birth, which is made up of people and environment where our parents live and associate. People in this "circle" will have a great influence on us in their thoughts, behavior patterns and understanding of the world.

When we enter the school, we will come into contact with students from different families. Some students' parents have power and status. They belong to different circles. People in that "circle" have different views on food, clothing, housing and transportation, etiquette and even things. During college, students came from all corners of the country, and people in the same province had a "circle" like "hometown association"; Because of different hobbies, various "circles" have emerged, such as Quyi Troupe, Literature Club and English Club.

Generally speaking, the more "circles" a person joins, the richer the information resources he contacts, the higher the chance of making a breakthrough in his own understanding, and the higher the success rate of choosing and even doing things in the future. For example, when graduating from college, people who have participated in various community "circles" will find job opportunities more easily than those who do not have these "circles" because they have already contacted other "circles".

I have to admit that many people's life experiences or "circles" are very narrow, although their social status does not look low. Some stay-at-home mothers, with high academic qualifications, quit their jobs after having children and take care of housework full-time, resulting in only some similar situations in their own "circle", such as "mother circle", "parent-child circle" and "children's education circle". Their frequent topics rarely break through the common topics of these "circles". The "circle" is very small, and when they encounter problems that can be solved beyond the "circle", they will be very upset and have few ideas and methods. There are also some friends who are experts in a certain field, with high qualifications and busy affairs all the year round, running around in various professional meetings, academic discussions and teaching and scientific research activities. They often fly at home and abroad, but the "circle" they belong to is relatively simple, and there is little interaction with other circles. This relatively single and closed "circle" will limit people's thinking and knowledge. When they encounter bottlenecks in their lives or careers, the possibility of being difficult to break through will greatly increase.

A rolling stone gathers no moss. The vitality of water lies in its "flow", not limited to one or several specific "circles". Its circle is infinite and ubiquitous, so the energy of water is huge, which can absorb all rivers and nourish everything. "Hu Shu" is also doing communication and transformation between "circles" between opening and closing. It can be seen that different "circles" have different energies. Only by entering the "circle" of low energy can we get higher energy.

Many students who studied Chinese medicine together have been ill for many years and visited famous doctors all over the world, but they have not been cured. Later, I studied Chinese medicine myself and entered a different "circle". In this "circle", ................................................................................................................................, a doctor, psychologist, business manager and lover of traditional culture in the hospital, inadvertently made many friends in different industries and fields, learned more about "circles" and broadened his horizons. It can be seen that entering a higher energy "circle" will enable you to gain higher energy-the growth of your ability and wisdom.

I have a friend who specializes in law. He is a doctor of law from a well-known university, and his professional level is excellent. Most of his usual contacts are "circles" generated by business contacts, and he is too busy to contact others. Everyone feels uncomfortable getting along with him, because this brother can bring everything to the legal level. For example, when everyone talks about a relaxed topic, he can immediately find out the loopholes in the law and refute them, so that everyone loses interest. It is said that when the eldest brother met the woman's parents at home for the first time, he talked with the prospective father-in-law about the necessity of notarization of pre-marital property, and the result was ... no result.

No matter how high the "circle" is, don't trap people. Trapped in the "circle", people are "trapped". The "circle" is mastered by people, who can break through the "circle" and use it for me. The doctor of law was trapped by the circle of "law", thinking that he had a "universal golden circle" and wanted to use it to trap everything. He euphemistically called "everything should be explained", but as a result, he was trapped and became a joke.

If people want to make progress, they should know more about "circles". The so-called well-informed, nothing more. Different "circles" actually bring us different lifestyles, different ways of thinking and perspectives on the world. If you want to get taller, you must constantly contact and experience different "circles". To get in touch with and understand different "circles", we must put down our own prejudices and treat others with an inclusive, humble and sincere heart.

I am an economics major myself. I pay attention to input and output and cost-effectiveness in everything. When I just graduated from college, I felt that I could do anything. Seeing the company's shortcomings, I often go to the boss and put forward various "rationalization suggestions". Many years later, I realized that I was ridiculously naive: I always wanted to use my professional knowledge to measure all the problems I encountered, but I couldn't see the size of the world. There are thousands of "circles" in Qian Qian, and I just stayed in a smaller "circle" called "international trade" in the "circle" of "economics" for four years, and I was so arrogant that I thought I could solve it with a key in my hand. Is it funny?

Some basic knowledge in economics, such as the need to discover, stimulate, constantly meet and even "create" the needs of consumers, is an important guarantee for enterprise development and wealth growth. Nowadays, I have many friends in my circle. They are vegetarians and abstainers. They don't have much desire for material wealth and don't want to make big money. They sold their houses and cars, left the city and lived an idyllic life in the country. They are immersed in a simple and carefree slow life every day, happy and full. For their "circle", many premises of economics have been completely subverted: they have less material desires and don't want to have too much wealth, so they are not bothered by all the problems such as "increasing profits", "reducing costs" and "expanding reproduction".

If I hadn't been exposed to this "circle", I couldn't understand that there are so many people in this world who don't know the common sense of economics and can still live happily. Later, I learned that economics is only a very small "circle" in the world, and the world is very big. More than 90% of people who have never been exposed to economics in their lives can still live a happy life. It is ridiculous to measure the world and others by one's own "circle".

Knowing your own smallness is the beginning of progress. The size of a person's energy lies not in what "circle" he belongs to, but in how many "circles" he has surpassed. The "circle" you belong to is horizontal and vertical. How many "circles" you exceed is three-dimensional and can sublimate yourself.

Among the friends who studied together, some people came from science and engineering, and after being influenced by the strict modern scientific concepts in the west and the experience of modern enterprises, they returned to the study of traditional culture, specializing in Yijing Bagua, Confucius and Mencius, Buddhism and Chinese medicine. These people have crossed enough circles, and I am very optimistic about them. Some children who are still in college have entered such a "circle" through classes, which undoubtedly opens a vertical ascending channel for their lives, which is equivalent to taking the stairs instead of taking the elevator, going straight up and down. I like them, too. Bless them.

In recent years, I have participated in various activities such as photography circle, badminton circle, Chinese medicine circle, literature circle, vegetarian circle, food circle, circle of friends, music circle, geomantic fortune-telling circle, and made many mentors and friends. With more "circles", the way of thinking will be broadened, and people will become more tolerant, and they will not easily get angry or criticize others. For example, friends in badminton circle, Chinese medicine circle and vegetarian circle have completely different ideas about diet, nutrition, exercise and health. Friends of Chinese medicine and western medicine also have many tit-for-tat views, and even have different views on the quality of a photo and a piece of music. At first, I tried to explain and discuss in order to reach a consensus. It turned out that everything was in vain. Different "circles" have different perspectives. Many problems, if we can go beyond the limit of "circle" and look at them from a higher angle, everything will be suddenly enlightened and no longer need verbal explanation.

Everything in the world is just a "circle". As long as you are "selfless" and sincere like a child, you can enter a circle when you see one, understand one when you see one, and know everything when you see more, which can be described as "omnipotent".

In fact, the world is just a "big circle". Many of our troubles are basically trapped in a small "circle" and we can't get out. When our hearts can get rid of all kinds of spiritual "circles", we gain complete freedom.

Of course, this is the ultimate goal of life. How much pious efforts and karma must be forged to achieve this goal! One of the most important things is the karma of learning Tao, which requires great blessing-without him, it is only because of this karma that life has led to the most extraordinary situation-according to Taoism, it is called "getting the Tao". According to Buddhism, it is called "enlightenment".

My present state: deviant and opinionated. Hurry!