On the issue of marrying a wife, should we believe in "eight characters"?

In modern marriage, most people have never measured their horoscope before getting married, and few people have measured their birth date before deciding whether they can get married. After all, not many people understand such profound truth. Unless the elderly still have a certain demand for these things, young people basically stop paying attention to these things before they get married. Moreover, most people think that a person's marriage date of birth can only reflect a person's date of birth, so it seems unreliable to plan life with birth date. What's more, a person's fate will be influenced by many subjective and objective conditions, except the weather, the influence of the growing area, the difference of people, fate and opportunities, and the difference of a person's family education and education level. Perhaps, in the face of a failed marriage, some people will think of measuring their date of birth to find the objective reasons for the failure of marriage.

But since ancient times, China has paid great attention to whether the eight characters of two people together are consistent. Whether it's officialdom or shopping malls, whether it's friends or couples, some people always like to seek yin and yang in advance, and seek the consistency of eight characters. It seems that only the consistency of eight characters will lead to a harmonious fate, especially for two people who need to be married for a lifetime. The consistency of their birth dates can determine their happiness in life. In modern society, many people understand that these are superstitions. Whether you can become a long-term husband and wife depends on whether the husband and wife can tolerate each other, which has little to do with the date of birth. But many people just believe those inexplicable things and worry that the bad probability in case will fall on themselves. The problem is that many couples with different birthdays live happily, and even those with the same birthdays have quarreled and divorced. So, how to understand and treat the birthday problem in marriage? Will you marry someone whose birthday is different?