As the saying goes, the old man is a dragon, who is poor? Why do you say that?

The analysis is that in a family, if the elderly are biased towards a certain family, it will make that family poor. Therefore, no matter how much parents prefer to spoil, they should also be strict with and educate their children. When it is time to let go, we must let go and cultivate children's sound personality and other abilities.

Because parents often love that child, that child's ability will be worse. A netizen once told such a story. There are two sisters in her family. Her mother likes her sister very much, but she doesn't like herself at all. Whenever something happens to my sister, my mother will be particularly anxious, but she will ignore her sister. When I was very young, my sister did nothing at home. Basically, my sister does everything at home.

It was not until the age of sixteen that my sister died of a terminal illness that my mother began to love her. One day, my mother told my sister why she was partial to my sister. The fortune teller said that her sister could live long, but she wouldn't live to be sixteen. It is for this reason that she is biased against her sister. However, surprisingly, it is my sister who can't live to be sixteen, but my sister has been living very well.

Although this story is amazing, it also indirectly illustrates the truth of the proverb. This proverb said by our ancestors is not groundless. At the same time, I also hope that parents all over the world can treat their children equally. After all, they are all their own children, and it is not good for any child to spoil a child blindly. In real life, there is indeed such a phenomenon: when parents are particularly fond of or love their children, children are not as good as other brothers and sisters in all aspects of work and life when they grow up.