Look at those things that ruin people's outlook on life. You've heard of things that ruin people's outlook on life.

It is said that the two most important time nodes for women are childbirth and marriage. Birth determines what kind of starting line you stand on, and marriage determines whether you will be happy for the rest of your life. Birth makes it impossible for each of us to be the Lord. Everything is predestined. But the object of the rest of my life is my choice.

I have a 24-year-old colleague He is the same age as Hua, but today he asked for 20 days of sick leave. The reason is that she is going to get pregnant, so take care of her health first. The girl is unmarried and lives with a man eight years older than her. The man divorced and took care of the children. Just a few months ago, the girl lost a child because the fetus was undeveloped.

I'm curious. You just lost one. Why are you in such a hurry to get pregnant? Then I heard the reason that made me feel strange and unreasonable. .......

It turned out that the two of them had lived together for many years, but the reason why they never got married turned out to be that the man's father used to tell the girl's birthday. The fortune teller said it was not easy for her to have a baby. As a result, the man said, let the girl get pregnant first and wait until she is sure that she has children before getting married. Otherwise, they can't accept a woman who can't have children into the house. Hearing this reason, my three views fell like broken glass. Today, 202 1, there are still such ignorant, disrespectful and uncomfortable things. If it didn't happen to me, I would think that someone invented the eye of the blog on purpose. What is more magical life than drama? I've realized that.

Of course, what is even more frightening is that this girl actually accepted this unreasonable request and chose to give up her job temporarily to prepare for pregnancy. Maybe she is out of true love, but I really want to share it with my female friends. Feelings are important, but they are definitely not the only ones in our lives. Don't give up everything for a man, and finally even lose yourself.

Never forget that you must learn to love yourself in order to attract better people to love you.