What kind of man will you marry and what kind of life will you lead in life?

A good marriage is mutual giving and mutual respect. Someone once said,? Marriage is your own, it is like your breath, your life. ? In marriage, others can't participate, and the external evaluation and other people's opinions are a reference. For everyone, a happy marriage has a happy reason, and an unhappy marriage has an unfortunate reason.

Before, I was chatting with a friend, and he talked about his wife. He said,? My wife is very naive and will tell me everything she meets. ? I didn't know what marriage was when I heard this sentence, but now I look back on this sentence and find that the best marriage is nothing more than that.

A man who is kind to you is worth doing for you. He will treat you like a child, as long as you are happy. And men who are not good to you will ignore you, be indifferent to you and turn a blind eye to your love. Therefore, before you get married, you must polish your eyes. If you meet these two kinds of men, don't get married.

A person who is easily out of control.

Marriage requires careful management of each other in order to build a happy and harmonious family. When choosing a partner, never choose a man who is easily out of control. This kind of man will have a domestic violence after you get married in the future. Any domestic violence is the destruction of marriage.

Online search for domestic violence cases can be described as numerous. At work, a colleague sent a screenshot in the group and was worried when he saw that photo. A child's head was beaten bloody. At that time, there was a lot of discussion in the group, and later I learned that this child of one of our parents was beaten by his father.

The child's family relationship is not harmonious. When she was pregnant with him, the two of them often made a scene. But I didn't expect that the child would still be like this after a few years.

As adults and parents, this behavior will leave a lifelong shadow on children. After reading it, it was embarrassing. From this case, we seem to understand that what kind of man a woman marries is really important. Marry well and be happy all your life; If you don't marry well, you will be unhappy all your life, and your children will be unhappy all their lives.

When choosing to get married, we must observe each other's personality more. When you choose to be with a violent, easily out of control man, you will be treading on thin ice in your later life. Every woman is poor all her life, hoping to have a happy marriage. In countless days, she can have someone to protect herself and warm herself. However, in the face of that kind of man who is easily out of control, please kick him out of your life.

Second, a person with a bad heart.

An old man said:? Poverty is not a disease, but poverty in the heart is the biggest disease. ? As a woman, you can choose to be with a poor man, but you can't choose to spend your life with a poor man. A poor man can't give you happiness. He is not only irresponsible, but also extremely selfish.

At work, I met a colleague, Sister Wang. They met on a blind date at first, and when they were older, they chose to get married, which led them into the marriage hall. She told me with a sad face. I didn't think there was anything wrong with my husband before. After I got married, I found that he was so stingy that he even had to pay for dinner with me. ?

Next, she said? Usually I have to take care of my children. When he comes home from work, he doesn't do anything, and he doesn't care if he sees the child crying. At that moment, I had the impulse to divorce. ?

Indeed, in marriage, it is unlucky to be a woman if you meet such a man. Because he is too selfish, he doesn't know how to think of his wife at all and ignores her hard work. In his heart, only himself, this kind of marriage is undoubtedly sad.

A good marriage needs to be managed carefully by each other. If you care too much about gains and losses, your marriage won't last long. Therefore, when choosing a partner, we must pay more attention, otherwise, the wrong choice is an abyss, and the right choice is a happy life.

Just like Sister Wang, the marriage is unhappy. When you get married, the other half doesn't care about anything. It's better to get divorced early. Instead of making yourself so miserable, choose to live the life you want. Ignorant living in such an environment, it is easy to destroy their psychological emotions.

Born to be human, you should know how to please and love yourself, instead of living in a dark corner. If you dare to go out, you can see the outside world and the sunshine outside. If this marriage is not suitable for you, please let go.