Will a woman who is a mistress be happy? Why don't men marry mistresses?

Being a mistress has always been against social morality. This kind of interference in other people's marriage is not desirable, and it will hurt the happiness of a family. So will a woman who is a mistress be happy?

Will a woman who is a mistress be happy?

Even if you are lucky enough to be an ordinary junior, it is difficult for 99% people to get real happiness. In fact, you have to understand that most of his original purposes were not love, but feelings of sexual desire, spiritual compensation and stimulation in life. Don't say you got married after their divorce. Even if he takes the initiative to help you get married, you won't last long, let alone be plain and happy. Especially those who succeed by some means, this situation will not last long. Of course, if two people really have a good relationship and can understand each other, maybe life can go on.

Before being a mistress, please think about why a person who is not responsible for women will give you happiness. Are you pretty? What if you are not beautiful? How can he get married if he doesn't like the woman he wants to marry now? More and more young and beautiful women choose to be a mistress, and the development of the mistress industry is mostly because the mistress is not only easy to enjoy, but also well paid. They look beautiful, but rarely have happy endings.

Why don't men marry mistresses?

1. No matter how beautiful the third wife is, it may not be the dish of cheating men.

Being a lover needs capital, either young and beautiful, smart and capable, or considerate, but a lover is not necessarily the dish of a cheating man. At best, it's just a piece of vanilla used to stimulate and relieve fatigue when a derailed man is bored after marriage. More importantly, San Xiao is also a woman. If she is a woman, one day her face will get old and her youth will disappear. "There are mountains outside the mountains, and there are people outside." In the eyes of cheating men, a lover is actually one.

No matter how old, ugly and incompetent the wife is, marriage is the original match.

There is no denying that men cheat because of their wives. They either ignore their husbands and don't know how to dress themselves, or they just don't make progress. But even so, in the heart of a cheating man, he always knows that his career will not be brilliant if there is no ruined wife at home. Even if he betrayed his wife, he still felt guilty and sorry psychologically. Most cheating husbands don't. If she is not unreasonable and unreasonable, she really wants to push her husband out.

3, the heart is worried, or career, or future, divorce is a lot of losses.

Although this reason is objective, it can really make men take care of it after cheating. They are either worried that divorce will hinder their career, or that their families will point it out, or that their future will be destroyed. Even if his mistress is forced to death and threatened with pregnancy, if she really wants to divorce and marry her mistress, the derailed man will still consider it and will not easily make a wrong step. Although men have a strong animal instinct, San Xiao is insignificant in front of his own vital interests. Once San Xiao is enough to become a stumbling block to a man's career and future, a man is willing to kick San Xiao, a smelly and hard stone, far away, unless he is really abnormal.

Why is it difficult to be a mistress?

1 stateless

If a wife is a vague supporter behind a man, then a mistress is an ugly suitor. The mistress asks for the man's material, time and emotion, and the wife just pays without complaint. Everyone has a steelyard in his heart. Whoever gives more gives less. It's just msg. I have never seen monosodium glutamate as a meal, and that boring wife is still white rice. I've never seen anything tired of eating. I probably don't want to live. San Xiao can only sneak around with other people's husbands, avoiding places where acquaintances appear. She has no right to attend formal occasions.

There is no hope.

A woman is willing to be a mistress, so what she has to face is that her face will get old, her youth will pass, and men will still not divorce. He still can't let go of his wife for two reasons. His wife loves him, and he loves him even if he has no money or status. It's true. Secondly, if you divorce, you have to give half of your property to your wife, and your assets will shrink. And your wife will take care of the housework intimately, so that he has no worries and does not give her money.

It's not that men have no feelings for mistresses, but that few mistresses can turn positive. After all, there are fewer Adam Cheng in the world. This ignorant mistress, the man is just playing with your feelings and body, and has no idea of being responsible for you at all. If you want to be the first wife, you must cultivate this man yourself, which takes time and experience. How can you get ready-made ones so easily? Women's youth is limited, so don't be wasted by married men.

3 Insecurity

Who knows what a man's wife is? If you are jealous, coupled with the courage of a leopard, this mistress's life will be gone. Maybe she washes her face with sulfuric acid, eats a kitchen knife raw, or enjoys a massage in public. If she is a minor, her legal wife may sit down and negotiate with her mistress. The wife can be very overbearing about what kind of bird this man used to be, how to train himself, and how much of his grades were given by his wife. After his divorce, he went out clean, and the house and car were all in her name. San Xiao had to put up with it. If you find that he has been spared a beating, you should go to worship Buddha. The day when San Xiao lived alone in an empty room was when her lawful wife was with a man. As long as San Xiao really loves this man, she will be jealous or sad because she misses him. She wants to bear this pain alone, and she will bear it all the time.

What kind of mistress do men like?

1. Young, beautiful and in good shape.

Most men have a clear goal of finding a mistress. Young, beautiful and in good shape are the standards, and it would be better if they received higher education. Having such a woman around a man will make him feel very respectable. However, if your husband loves his mother's sister, or an older woman is particularly fierce, there may be a "third son" older than you.

2. Being gentle, considerate and obedient will spoil you.

If the mistress you meet tells a man how much he loves and then cries, "Don't accompany my wife and children!" That kind. Then you don't have to worry too much. This kind of girl has no strategic awareness and can't become a big climate. But if the third wife can always be considerate, encourage men to go home and spend more time with their children and wives, and always save money and effort for men, it will be extremely pleasing. Then it will be much more difficult for you to separate from mistress.

3. High IQ and patience.

Patience is very important for grade three. This must be a protracted war. Successful junior high school students generally have high IQ, because junior high school students have to fight not only a man's distrust of her, but also the bond between children and their wives, as well as his remaining morality and kindness. High IQ means "fighting" and patience means "long-term fighting".

4. Single-minded, not greedy for money.

For a mistress outside marriage, it is a red rose, especially for a mistress who doesn't want money. It will make men feel that they have found a harbor where they can escape from family chores. This kind of mistress will make men believe that they have met true love to the greatest extent after marriage. The third wife is much cuter when facing Mrs. Gong Zheng, because she is humiliated at home. Over time, men will inevitably have the psychology of keeping up with the joneses. If a man finds that the sunk cost of breaking up with his third wife is already high, then the possibility of the third wife taking the upper position will be great. Therefore, the third-year girls with good sense of pattern, long-term vision and strong overall view will try not to raise money actively, but wait passively.