Why didn't Gao Xiumin reconcile with Zhao Benshan before his death? What do they have against each other?

The feud between Zhao Benshan and Gao Xiumin is because Gao Xiumin promised his hometown leaders to invite Zhao Benshan to perform together, but after Zhao Benshan went, he did not give Gao Xiumin any face, which made Gao Ma Dexiu sensitive and humiliated. Moreover, during a CCTV program review, Gao Xiumin temporarily left, leaving only Zhao Benshan during the review, which failed to complete the review well, resulting in conflicts between the two, and they never contacted each other again after a big fight.

First, Gao Xiumin, a "feud" between Zhao Benshan and Gao Xiumin, went back to his hometown to participate in activities. The organizer hoped that she could invite Zhao Benshan, and Gao Xiumin agreed without hesitation. Then, the organizer asked Zhao Benshan how much money was appropriate, and Gao Xiumin bluntly said, "Just prepare 200,000 yuan! Maybe Lao Zhao will see that I don't accept this money. After all, it is my hometown! "

However, she soon hit her face. On the day of the activity, Zhao Benshan took the money and put it in his trouser pocket without saying anything. Gao Xiumin can't wait to find a hole in the ground. Backstage, she reluctantly said to Zhao Benshan, "Big Brother! You really give me face! "

After this incident, Gao Xiumin was a little dissatisfied with Zhao Benshan, and the latter incident accelerated the break between them. In 2003, Zhao Benshan, Gao Xiumin and Fan Wei are preparing the Spring Festival Evening sketch Heart Disease. As a result, during the rehearsal, Gao Xiumin suddenly got help from his hometown friends.

The other party told her that when she performed in Tonghua, the finale star suddenly couldn't come, and now she will face sky-high compensation. I hope Gao Xiumin can give her a hand and be the last guest. Faced with the danger of a friend's sky-high compensation, the brave Gao Xiumin could not bear to refuse, so he agreed to his friend's request.

After confirming that the director group will not censor the program in the near future, Gao Xiumin hurried back to his hometown. Who knows that she just left, and the judging panel decided to judge in advance temporarily. After Gao Xiumin left, Zhao Benshan changed a lot of words in the sketch. When she came back anxiously, it was too late to get her lines right, and she was about to go on stage to review.

As a result, the performance failed and the leaders were very disappointed with Zhao Benshan, which made Zhao Benshan, who had always been strict with himself, very dissatisfied and accused Gao Xiumin of not being serious enough. Gao Xiumin, whose temper is straightforward, is unhappy. He replied to Zhao Benshan: "I am like this, I should use it when I need it, and I don't have to pull it down!" The relationship between the two people has been cracked. At the Spring Festival Gala in 2004, Zhao Benshan wanted to change her partner to Song Dandan, but Song Dandan couldn't come for the time being, so Zhao Benshan had to reluctantly invite her back to Gao Xiumin. For the sake of the overall situation, Gao Xiumin agreed to star in The Water Delivery Man. After the performance, this sketch was widely praised again.

Gao Xiumin said in an interview after leaving office: "Thank you for thinking of me. This sketch was originally invited by (Song) Dandan, and later said, let me come, let me come, I will come. I am willing to be a good green leaf and hold Zhao Benshan's red flowers. " Gao Xiumin's words, everyone is fine, obviously with resentment. The Water Delivery Man became the last cooperation between Gao Xiumin and Zhao Benshan. In 2004, Zhao Benshan wanted to shoot "Ma Dashuai", but Gao Xiumin was not invited. He Qingkui was worried that his wife would be sad, so he tailored the rural drama Lake Shui Sheng for her.

2. Before his death, Zhao Benshan was unwilling. In 2005, The Holy Water Lakeside, written by He Qingkui and starring Gao Xiumin, was broadcast on CCTV. The score of this play is as high as 8.2, and Gao Xiumin plays this honest peasant woman quite well. She died of a heart attack at the age of 46 when she started planning the second film. Before that, she never made up with Zhao Benshan.

On the day of the memorial service, Zhao Benshan cried and said, "Sister! Brother is late, I really shouldn't treat you like that! " Many years later, He Qingkui and Zhao Benshan talked about past grievances: "It's Xiumin's fault that we separated. She shouldn't go out to perform before the Spring Festival Evening Review. This is her fault. But I love her and can only choose to leave with her. "

Zhao Benshan also said with emotion: "In fact, there is no contradiction between us, but we are young and energetic." Then the two embraced excitedly, and the previous grievances were finally resolved. 20 18 On He Qingkui's birthday, Zhao Benshan was extremely distressed by his health and said generously, "Don't write if you are too tired. I will support you in the future. "

Conclusion: Perhaps because of youthful vigor, the iron triangle on the stage has alienated. As an audience, we could have left more beautiful memories. As time goes on, these grievances will eventually come to blowing in the wind. The dead are gone, and the living should cherish them.