Old people in rural areas often say: "There are three kinds of homes, and there are prosperous days." What three kinds are they referring to?

Every household hopes that the family business will flourish and everything will go smoothly. Old people in rural areas often say that there are three kinds of families, and the days are prosperous. What three kinds do you mean? Meihua shares her understanding with you.

One is having a harmonious family. As the saying goes, everything goes well at home. As long as a family is very harmonious, no matter what difficulties it encounters, it can be solved. Although people's abilities are different, as long as we can work together in Qi Xin and Qi Xin, make rich contributions and make strong efforts, we will not haggle over every ounce, and we can solve everything harmoniously. There is also an old saying, people's hearts turn to their backs, and Mount Tai is the top. As long as the family Qi Xin works together and lives in harmony, I believe the family business will flourish.

The second is to have a good family style, which should be filial piety and harmony. Filial piety is to honor the elders and the elderly, and laughter should also mean imitating the elders at home. Filial piety is bound to set an example for future generations. Shun means obeying the wishes and demands of the elders, letting the elders take the helm, and the next generation will work hard to do it. The right direction. Young people have worked hard, and I believe such a family will flourish. Because good family style has laid a solid foundation for the prosperity of family business.

The third is to have a good wife. A good wife at home can directly affect the prosperity and development of the family. Because the wife has to do housework at home and the husband has many children, she is the first teacher of the children. Daughter-in-law can be diligent, diligent and filial at home, and can do housework smoothly, seamlessly and harmoniously. In cultivating children, we can also give priority to educating children how to behave and focus on cultivating their intellectual development. Based on the child's health. The heirs who do a good job in the family business are all descendants of the family, and such a family life will certainly be very prosperous.

In a word, a prosperous family must have a harmonious family relationship. There is a good family style that can be passed down at home. Having a good wife at home can manage the housework well and cultivate future generations. With these three treasures. It is impossible for a family to develop.

Every family wants to live a rich life and live in harmony, but with the continuous development of rural areas in recent years, the living standards of farmers have gradually improved, but many families still choose to go out to work to earn money, because going out to work also makes many families' pockets more and more bulging, and some even decorate their old houses after returning home, but now many children have become left-behind children.

But there is a sentence in our question today, "There are three things at home. What three things do you mean by abundance?" Today, I will explain the profound meaning of this sentence in combination with the current rural life.

This is also one of the important factors of family harmony and prosperity. Presumably, in recent years, everyone has encountered many situations in which the whole family relationship is not good because of the disharmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It is conceivable that if mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can live in harmony, it is even more valuable for a family. After all, there is an old saying that "everything is prosperous at home".

Whether a family can develop greatly depends entirely on its descendants. If children and grandchildren are unfilial, even if the family is rich, it will not develop further, let alone prosper, because only children and grandchildren can bring hope to the family.

There is also the development orientation of future generations, which depends on our correct guidance as parents. Therefore, when we honor our parents, we will keep them in our eyes and mind, and they will become filial and knowledgeable people in the future, so that our family will become more and more prosperous.

The "legitimate business" mentioned here means that you can't help doing legitimate business, because if a family is lazy all day or gets something for nothing, then such a family can't prosper, but if a family is diligent and proactive in creating wealth with its own hands, then it must be a prosperous family.

The prosperity of a family needs harmony, virtuous children and grandchildren, and more importantly, a proper job, so that we can live a better life for the family and make the future family more prosperous.

Everyone will have their own family, and what a family wants is a happy life. Even if food is not enough to eat and money is not enough to spend, families can care for each other and tolerate each other, which is also happy. To tell the truth, it is not easy to form a family, and it requires the joint efforts of family members. In this regard, the elderly in rural areas often say: "There are three kinds of homes, and the days are prosperous."

In fact, to say these "three things", different families and different outlook on life will have different views. For me, it should be these "three things":

Home is a warm harbor for people. Maintaining a family depends not only on natural blood relationship, but also on mutual affection. The most difficult thing to maintain and own in today's family is after the children get married. Although we live under the same roof and eat in the same pot, too many families are already "separating". Children earn their own money, spend their own money, eat well and dress well, and never ask about the living expenses such as rice, noodles and oil at home, let alone pay off debts. As parents, they know that it is not easy for their children. They think of their children everywhere, save as much as possible, "rob Peter to pay Paul", and try their best to help their children solve their problems. They are also afraid that their daughter-in-law will have a "demon moth" and their family will not be at peace. Some sons turned to Bengali and began to gnaw at old bones. They are idle and lazy, regardless of their parents' fatigue and hardship. Speaking of daughter-in-law, he still confidently said, what's the big deal, being single again? What makes parents feel embarrassed?

Actually, you don't have to do this. They are all a family, and they constantly have the "feeling" of giving up. There is nothing wrong with parents thinking of their children. Marrying a daughter-in-law for his son can be regarded as the "mission" of parents. Parents should have left a "burden", but they can't give up that "feeling", so they still love and care in every way. Children should be self-aware and considerate of their parents' difficulties. You should make money and spend money, but also think about your parents and family. If you have something to discuss with your parents, you can solve the problem calmly. As the saying goes, "Everything goes well at home"?

Although it is a feudal traditional concept, "the husband sings with the woman" still has certain reference significance for a family. Because only husband and wife can handle their feelings well, and they can negotiate with each other and tolerate each other when things go wrong. Even if you are temporarily poor, you can face it calmly and help each other. Don't argue, don't give up, live in harmony, and also play a subtle role in children and set a good example. It is a family style that is gradually formed unconsciously, and life will naturally get better and better.

Husband and wife don't get along, they quarrel when they encounter problems, and they "break up" and divorce when they have difficulties. The contradiction between husband and wife makes parents don't know how to mediate. The most fatal thing is to let the children follow suit, and the demonstration effect is often negative.

"Filial piety is the first of all virtues". Thousands of years of national cultural traditions in China tell us that "filial piety" is the bottom line of being a man. With filial piety, we can inherit and have our present culture and life. Filial children know how to be grateful and do good deeds, so that their careers will be smooth and their families will be happy. Filial piety is a precursor to family prosperity.

In real life, with people's pursuit of quality of life getting higher and higher, they even regard the life of "two people" as the highest realm. Therefore, they don't like or even dislike the old people, are not used to their cooking, don't let them eat at a table, and some even leave their shoes outside the door. Actually, I want to drive out the east and west buildings that my parents bought or built. Parents go back to the old house, ignore them, and even children are not allowed to see their grandparents.

Many people go out to work to earn money, leave the elderly at home, leave their children with their parents, and don't even give pocket money. Last month, the old man had something to do. Even if he was ill, there was no one around to take care of him, let alone show filial piety. Some old people are angry and say that it is not a good thing to give it to their neighbors. This is the "war" of the family. If you meet a tricky daughter-in-law, you will make trouble. Some families are not "idle people" when they marry their wives. If their parents don't like it, they will be unmoved by saying a word or two occasionally, which will increase the factors of family disharmony, let alone filial piety, and life will be a mess.

In fact, whether a child is filial is also a character. If you have a good character, you must be filial to your parents, your children are filial, your family is harmonious, and you have no worries about your work, so your life will be happy.

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Thousands of things at home are just oil, rice, sauce and vinegar. Most of these little things are caused by money. Whoever makes money is not omnipotent, and no money is absolutely impossible! This is also the reason why we have been rushing for money all our lives. That's true, but to live a good life, husband and wife are United, family is harmonious, and filial piety is the foundation and premise. Only with these three things, it is only a matter of time before life is prosperous. Therefore, the old man said that "there are three kinds of homes, and there are prosperous days" is very reasonable.

Filial piety is the essence of Chinese traditional etiquette for thousands of years. Only by knowing filial piety and gratitude can we know everything about treating people. Parents gave birth to children, raised children, and spent a lifetime of energy and sweat to cultivate children. As children, we should be filial first, and only filial piety can lead to family unity and harmony. "Lambs know how to feed" and "crows know how to feed back". As children, they should and must be filial to their parents in return for their parenting. This kind of life is very prosperous.

The family live in harmony, life is particularly smooth and smooth, and the mood is particularly pleasant. As the saying goes, "everything goes well at home" and "the family doesn't bully outsiders", so that the family can live in harmony, be round and round, accommodate each other and take care of each other. Only in this way can this family prosper, and it can last forever without falling apart, especially those families who make irresponsible remarks and make noise at home, which are particularly uncomfortable to outsiders. Therefore, only home peace can prosper.

Husband and wife must live in harmony. After all, husband and wife have known each other for a long time and can be said to be lifelong partners. If there is the phenomenon of strange bedfellows, each with his own ulterior motives and using the other side to achieve his own goals, this kind of life will never be good, and finally it will end in discord, or even the family will be ruined. Only husband and wife are United, just like a sword cutting iron like mud and gold like earth. It can be said that husband and wife are the smallest unit of a family, and only unity and harmony can make the family happy.

Some people may say first that as long as there is money at home, life will flourish. It's good to have money, but there are many rich people, and not all rich people live very well at home. Some people have money at home, but their children are unfilial and their affection is weak. No matter how rich such a family is, it will never prosper.

About eight or nine years ago, the daughter of a village secretary near us personally killed her mother. At that time, the village secretary's family was rich. My daughter plays mahjong and gambles every day, and goes home to ask her mother for money that day. When her mother refused, her daughter colluded with her boyfriend and killed her mother. So it has nothing to do with having money at home. What does it matter? There are three kinds of homes, and there are prosperous times every day. What three things do you mean?

The first thing is that in order to succeed, children must honor their parents. I don't know if you have found a phenomenon. You can go to the village to have a look, but all the families who have a smooth and prosperous life at home are very filial families. Rural people don't want to be rich and expensive, but they all want a smooth life. Traditional culture tells us that filial piety is the only way to obey, and filial piety and obedience are linked together.

I remember reading a passage in a book to the effect that if a family is compared to a tree, then parents are the roots and children are the leaves and branches on the treetops. If you want the whole tree to flourish and the treetops don't wither, you must constantly water and fertilize the roots, otherwise, as long as the roots dry up, even the most powerful treetops will wither. I think this statement is brilliant. If children don't honor their parents, the life of this family will not flourish.

The second is that brothers and sisters unite as one. In rural areas, many brothers and sisters fight because of family chores or uneven division of parents' property, and some even commit suicide. In recent years, some villages have been demolished, and rural houses are worth millions at once. It was a good thing, but because of money, brothers and sisters at home turned against each other.

Our neighboring village moved last year, and a married daughter felt that her parents' property also had her own share, while her parents' brother felt that her married daughter should not go home to share her property. Both sides want to force their parents to agree with their own ideas, but the palms of their hands are full of meat, and their parents are forced to get angry and sick. Finally, the old mother was hospitalized and was in great pain. Brothers and sisters, however, were not in the mood to wait on their mother because of the house problem, which caused her illness to get worse and almost lost her life. Therefore, brothers and sisters can only live a rich life if they understand and care for each other.

The third point is the most basic, that is, husband and wife must handle family relations well. The relationship between husband and wife is the center of this family. Only when husband and wife live in harmony and have business and quantity can the whole family relationship be harmonious. Only children who grow up in a harmonious environment will have love and filial piety. This is a virtuous circle, parents have harmonious feelings, children are sensible and filial, and life is naturally smooth.

I grew up in the countryside and have an unusual attachment to the countryside. I like to chat with the old people in the street during the slack season. Some simple proverbs are particularly vivid in the old people's word of mouth. Today, I would like to share with you the meaning of "three things in the family, and prosperity in the day":

I am fortunate to know a talkative eldest sister-in-law, who has a harmonious family, a successful career and filial children. The secret of her success is that China people generally lack a sense of boundaries. As an old man in a family, both grandparents and grandparents should look like an old man. As the head of the family, he should not interfere too much in the children's lives. All the children are married, and they know the pros and cons. As for how to live, the couple will discuss it. Don't follow the trend, the old couple order and drink.

Children grow up, get married and have their own cooking plans. At this time, the relationship between the elderly and their children can be said to be friends, and they can often get together, but they have independent space. It is a natural phenomenon that children who used to be very close suddenly like others. Don't feel lost, just like a bird leaving its nest with hard wings. If you always stay around your parents and stay in the nest, it is estimated that many parents will have a baby early.

As a member of a big family, people in middle age, old and young, play an important role in connecting the preceding with the following. It can be said that they are the backbone of a family, their words and deeds are related to the happiness of their parents in their later years, and they are silently edifying the next generation.

My second uncle in my hometown is a polite person. When grandpa four and grandma are old, he will be taken care of in the city. He has three meals a day, food and clothing are warm and cold, and he always takes it to heart. No matter where you go, when you get home, you should sit in your parents' room first and see what the old people need. The toilet at home is an old squat pit, not a toilet. Fourth grandma took a shit outside and stepped on her foot, but she didn't notice. She walked around the house, and her uncle and aunt went home and opened the door. There was gold everywhere.

Without saying anything, the second uncle quickly brought the shoes on fourth grandma's feet, wiped them clean and put them on the old man. Then the whole family began to clean up and sweep the floor. Seeing that her son and daughter-in-law were busy, Fourth Grandma argued that I didn't do it. My shoes are clean. My son just checked. Uncle quickly attached: Yes, Mom, your shoes are clean. I can prove that it has nothing to do with you. In fact, at that time, fourth grandma was the only one in the family, and the footprints of little feet and pointed little shoes were clear at a glance.

Children are the hope of the future, and parents are the objects of training by all means. Be considerate of your parents and try to be strong. There is a popular saying now: thirty years ago, the father respected his son, and thirty years later, the son respected his father. In the traditional culture of China, people think that when you are 30 years old, you should be able to face all difficulties. When you were young, others respected you for your father's sake. When you are independent and your father is old, others will respect your father for your sake. Generally speaking, before the child is 30 years old, relatives and friends will respect the child because of his parents' ability. When a child marries after the age of 30, relatives and friends will respect their parents because of their location.

My parents worked so hard for you. As the next generation in the family, there is no reason to indulge in the internet, neglect their studies, choose ease at the age of struggle, and work hard at the age of ease. Seize the youth, strive for progress, and one day all efforts will eventually take root, sprout and bear fruit.

Every region and every place may have different ideas. For example, three things that the old people here often say: successors, family harmony and filial piety. With these three things, it means prosperity

1. successor

The concept of rural successors is still very profound. In the countryside, the successor said that he must have a son. Without a son, others will look down on us and gossip in the village. Without a son, there will be no descendants who are rooted in the future. So having a son in our countryside is a symbol of happiness.

2. Family harmony

Rural family harmony is a sign of happiness. And there is no contradiction in family trivia, and I am sincere to my friends and relatives. Often such people are praised by everyone when they are mentioned in the village. We all know that Confucius said: Harmony is the most precious thing. Since Confucius, our nation has formed the traditional ideas of "harmony is precious" and "harmony is good". So family harmony is a sign of prosperity.

3. Filial piety

Filial piety is a traditional virtue of China for thousands of years. Filial piety is the first of all virtues and has been a tradition since ancient times. Therefore, in rural areas, elders educate us to be grateful and filial. We must respect, love and filial piety the elderly. In rural areas, the elderly should see a doctor in time when they are sick and take care of them often when they can't walk. Therefore, there is a filial and sensible child in our countryside, which is praised by everyone.

I am the third brother in the country and a young man in the country. Every place has different customs. I don't know what you mean by "there are three kinds of homes, and there will be prosperity every day". Let's exchange traditional virtues together.

Family is the most basic unit of society. In the Confucian culture advocated by China in ancient times, various behaviors of the family were stipulated, which became the basis for the prosperity of a family. This is also the source of the saying that "there are three kinds of homes, and the days are prosperous".

1. Family harmony: A family consists of everyone. Here, a big family includes generations of grandparents, brothers and sisters, and a small family includes a family of three. The most important thing is family harmony. Family members here are harmonious, with brothers, sisters-in-law and husband and wife. There is an old saying in the countryside: if brothers are not new, the gold in their hands will turn into mud. Therefore, if there is no harmony between brothers, life at home will not flourish. In any family, the relationship between family members is the most important. This idea and desire have a long history. In the north, there is a tradition of eating "Su jiaozi" on New Year's Eve, hoping that the family can live in harmony in the new year, and the family can live together quietly and harmoniously.

Second, children's filial piety: In Confucian culture, filial piety means "good parents". Only those who are filial parents can have higher moral quality and make family life flourish. The requirement of filial piety in The Doctrine of the Mean is that children can respect and thank their parents, maintain family style through continuous learning and growth, and win glory for the family. This is the traditional filial piety culture. Therefore, only filial children can flourish.

Thrifty housekeeping: frugality housekeeping consists of two words, one is thrift and the other is thrift. Zeng Guofan once summed up several viewpoints about enriching the country and the people, all of which are related to these two words. It depends on when future generations can get up, whether they can do housework diligently and whether they like studying diligently. These little things can show the ethos of a family, and these simple things can determine whether the family can prosper in the future. At the same time, by observing whether the living conditions of the family are extravagant and extravagant, we can see whether the family can prosper in the future.

Therefore, the traditions of family harmony, filial piety, diligence and housekeeping have all become excellent qualities advocated in Confucian culture, and are also the most fundamental factors to maintain the prosperity of a family. Looking back, to sum up, many families who claim to be richer than three generations have basically made the above mistakes.

There are three kinds of homes, and the rich are rich!

There are three kinds of families, and they prosper day by day. In rural areas, you can often hear old people say this in front of their children or grandchildren. This is a sentence that guides future generations to be kind, loyal and positive.

There are three things at home. Old people say that as long as there are these three things at home, life at home will flourish.

First, filial piety. Filial piety is the first of all virtues. Filial piety is a topic advocated by our ancient civilization for a long time.

I once heard a friend say that she has a neighbor who has a rich family life, but never takes care of her sick mother-in-law, such as hiring a nanny. In view of the conditions of their family, it is very possible to hire a nanny. But this woman said that her mother-in-law has worked hard all her life, and now she needs us to be filial to her old man. An outsider is always an outsider. How can she accept the care of her relatives with peace of mind?

She also warned her children: people should know how to be filial, and filial piety to the elderly is a matter of course. Knowing filial piety will lead to good blessings.

Second, harmony. Everyone knows this saying, a harmonious family will be popular, rich and noisy, shrouded in gloom all day, and wealth will not dare to enter the door.

Since my aunt married her daughter-in-law, she has often chatted with her daughter-in-law. She said she was willing to be a peacemaker all her life. If any relative has difficulties at home, she will take the lead in mediation. She told her daughter-in-law that the first criterion of a good family is harmony, home and everything, and home and everything.

Third, kindness. Kindness is the standard of practice. This is what the ancients did. Isn't it just that good people get what they deserve? This goodness actually means kindness. Today, your kindness allows you to help others. If you are in trouble in the future, the people you helped will definitely help you in turn.

There is a person in our village who is too practical. Once, he pushed a cart uphill, and a kind old man in the village helped him pull it. Later, after the old man fell ill, doers often visited him. He said, Grandpa is the kindest uncle in our village.