Does anyone know the OH card? What's the psychological use of this?

Tarot cards, in fact, are useless, just psychological hints. You can read the following story.

In Warsaw, a group of children are playing. A gypsy witch holds a little girl's hand and looks at it carefully. "You will be famous all over the world!" The "prophecy" came true, and this little girl was the later Madame Curie.

A worker was locked in the cold storage after work and was found "frozen to death" the next day. Surprisingly, there was no electricity at all that day, and the cold storage only had room temperature!

In fact, there is no accurate prediction in the world. It was the witch who gave Madame Curie a belief of "success". The worker committed suicide, looked at the closed iron gate and thought, "it's over, it's MINUS tens of degrees Celsius here, and I'm sure I'll freeze to death!" " This is "psychological suggestion", which can lead people to success or death.

The so-called psychological suggestion refers to the psychological characteristics of people accepting the influence of the wishes, ideas, emotions, judgments or attitudes of the outside world or others. Self-suggestion is a method to influence oneself through thoughts and words, so as to achieve the purpose of mental health, psychological prevention and psychotherapy. Through self-suggestion, you can adjust your mood, feelings, hobbies, will and even work ability, which plays a very positive role.

All kinds of hints we get from ourselves or others every day will bring us joy and confidence, as well as depression and anxiety. Learning to give positive psychological hints can help us face life more happily and make ourselves happier!

The Story of Nine-headed Cows —— Magical Psychological Hints

A long time ago, in a tribe, there was a tradition: young people there wanted to get married, but they had to learn the skills of catching cows first. Catch enough cows as dowry and give them to the woman's family before you can get married. The dowry is at least one cow and at most nine cows. The chief of this tribe has two daughters. One day, a young man came to the chief and said that he was in love with his eldest daughter and was willing to marry her with nine cows as a dowry. When the chief heard this, he was shocked and said, "The value of nine cows is too high, and the eldest daughter is not worth it. It is better to marry my little daughter, and my little daughter is worth nine cows. " But the young man insisted on marrying the chief's eldest daughter, and the chief finally agreed to him, which caused a sensation throughout the tribe.

One day a year later, the chief passed by the young man's house and saw that his house was holding a party. A large group of people in a circle are enjoying a beautiful girl singing and dancing. The chief was very surprised and asked the young man who the girl was. How can the director not know each other? The young man replied, "She is the chief's eldest daughter!" " "

When young people treat their married wives with the values of "nine cows" and the chief's eldest daughter is convinced that her value is the highest "nine cows", she has completely changed.

Philosophy of story

What do you expect your subordinates and colleagues to look like, you should take them as what you expect, so that because of your hints, they will develop in the direction you expect and eventually become what you expect.

The story of psychological suggestion:

Invite friends to see some psychological suggestion stories first:

1. No one likes fresh air more than others. One winter, he stayed in a fancy hotel. It was particularly cold that winter, and the windows were tightly closed to prevent the cold flow. Although the room is very comfortable, the thought that fresh air can't get in at all makes him very uneasy and difficult to sleep. At last, he couldn't bear it any longer. He picked up a leather shoe and threw it at something like glass. He fell asleep peacefully after hearing the sound of broken glass.

When he woke up the next day, he saw intact windows and broken photo frames on the wall.

There is a factory in Tennessee, USA, which recruits many workers from the nearby countryside. Because these workers are not used to working in the workshop, they always feel that there is too little air in the workshop, so they are worried and their work efficiency naturally decreases. Later, the factory tied a thin silk scarf to the window and it kept fluttering, suggesting that the air was poured in from the window. Therefore, the workers got rid of the "heart disease" and improved their work efficiency.

A worker was locked in the "cold storage" after work and was found to freeze to death the next day. Surprisingly, there was no electricity at all that day, and the cold storage only had room temperature!

The function of psychological suggestion is enormous, which can not only affect people's psychology and behavior, but also affect people's physiological function. Therefore, negative suggestion will disturb people's psychology, behavior and physiological function; Positive hints can promote and improve.

A short story of psychological suggestion

(1). The psychological novel Fresh Air by the British writer Soren tells a story like this:

Wilson, the hero, likes fresh air more than anyone else. One winter, he stayed in a high-end hotel in Finland. It was particularly cold that winter, so the windows were tightly closed. ...

(1). The psychological novel Fresh Air by the British writer Soren tells a story like this:

Wilson, the hero, likes fresh air more than anyone else. One winter, he stayed in a high-end hotel in Finland. It was particularly cold that winter, and the windows were tightly closed to prevent the cold flow. Although the room was very comfortable, Wilson was uneasy at the thought that fresh air could not enter at all, and it was difficult for him to sleep. At last, he couldn't bear it any longer. He picked up a leather shoe and threw it at something like glass. He fell asleep peacefully after hearing the sound of broken glass.

When he woke up the next day, he saw intact windows and broken photo frames on the wall. Soren's novels involve an important psychological concept-suggestion.

② Looking at plum to quench thirst and psychological suggestion.

During the Three Kingdoms period, Cao Cao led troops to crusade against Zhang Xiu. It was July and August, the sun was blazing, and there were no clouds in Wan Li. The soldiers were thirsty and the marching speed slowed down obviously. Several weak soldiers fainted on the side of the road. Cao Cao was very anxious when he saw this scene. He believes that if this continues, the troops will not reach their destination as scheduled and their combat effectiveness will be greatly weakened. So he called the tour guide and asked if there was any water nearby. The guide said that the nearest water source is on the other side of the valley and there is still a long way to go. After thinking for a while, Cao Cao grabbed the horse's stomach and quickly rushed to the front of the team. Then he happily turned his horse's head and said to the soldiers, "Soldiers, there is a large piece of Merlin in front, where the plums are all red." It must be delicious Let's speed up our steps, cross this hill and reach Meilin! " When the soldiers heard this, they couldn't help but breathe a sigh of relief, their spirits were greatly boosted, and their pace was much faster.

Psychoanalysis: Cao Cao, an outstanding strategist and politician in history, used a very important psychological phenomenon-suggestion consciously or unconsciously in psychology. Hint is the most common psychological phenomenon. It means that people or the surrounding environment transmit information to individuals in a verbal or nonverbal way, and individuals unconsciously accept this information, thus making certain psychological or behavioral responses. Russian psychologist Pavlov believes that suggestion is the simplest and most typical conditioned reflex of human beings.

Psychological suggestion is always widely used by people intentionally or unintentionally. For example, the famous "Rosenthal effect" is an authoritative suggestion. Teachers' positive expectations for children and leaders' proper praise for subordinates can be like "a large piece of merlin" described by Cao Cao to soldiers, which makes the implied object "refreshed and accelerated a lot"

Not only Cao Cao, but everyone living in society will carry out suggestive activities. A positive and kind attitude will often give positive hints, so that others can gain the strength to overcome difficulties and keep making progress; On the other hand, negative and bad mentality will make others be influenced by negative hints and become indifferent, discouraged, withdrawn and depressed. As the saying goes, "a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts the cold in June", which is the truth. Therefore, when we find that others may be hinted by ourselves, we should also pay attention to the way and degree of suggestion, and try our best to let others accept positive and moderate hints. (End)

A professor asked nine people to do experiments. The professor said, you nine people listen to my command and cross this winding bridge. Don't fall, but it doesn't matter if you fall. There is a little water under it. Nine people understand, hua hua all walked past. After walking over, the professor turned on a yellow light. By the dim light, nine people saw not only a little water under the bridge, but also several crawling crocodiles. Nine people got a fright and were glad that they didn't fall down just now. The professor asked, who dares to walk back now? No one dares to leave. The professor said that you should use psychological hints to imagine yourself walking on a solid iron bridge. After a long period of induction, three people finally stood up and were willing to try. The first man trembled and walked twice as long; The second man was trembling, and he couldn't hold on any longer after walking halfway, so he was scared to lie on the bridge; The third man took three steps and then climbed down in fear. The professor turned on all the lights at this moment, and everyone found a net between the bridge and the crocodile. The net is yellow. I couldn't see it clearly under the yellow light just now. Everyone is not afraid now, saying that we have passed the net and several people are coming. Only one person was afraid to leave, and the professor asked him, what's wrong with you? The man said, I'm afraid the net is not strong. The principle revealed by this experiment is that mentality affects ability. Another professor made a more cruel experiment. He locked a condemned man in a room, blindfolded the condemned man and said to the condemned man, we will let you die in another way. We'll cut your blood vessels and let you bleed to death. Then the professor turned on a tap so that the condemned man could hear the dripping sound. The professor said, this is your blood. When I opened the door the next morning, everyone knew what had happened. The condemned man died, pale and bleeding. In fact, he didn't shed a drop of blood. He was scared to death. The principle revealed by this experiment is that mentality affects physiology. So the mentality is good, the physiology is healthy, and the ability is enhanced; In a bad mood, poor physiology and poor ability. Mentality has such great power that it affects you from the inside out. J

A story about psychological suggestion contrast

A scholar went to Beijing for the third time to catch the exam and stayed in the hotel where he often stayed.

Two days before the exam, he had three dreams: the first dream was that he planted cabbage on the wall; The second dream was that it was raining. He brought a hat and an umbrella. The third dream is to lie naked with my beloved cousin, but back to back. These three dreams seem to have some profound meanings, so the scholar hurried to the fortune teller to interpret them the next day. The fortune teller heard it. Continuous shooting thigh said, "You'd better go home. Think about it. Isn't it futile to grow vegetables on high walls? " Isn't it unnecessary to wear a hat and an umbrella? Isn't it impossible to sleep naked with your beloved cousin but back to back? "

Hearing this, the scholar was disheartened and went back to the hotel to pack his bags and prepare to go home. The shopkeeper was surprised and asked, "Isn't there an exam tomorrow?" Why are you going back to your hometown today? "The scholar said this and that. The shopkeeper was very happy: "Hey, I can interpret dreams, too. I think you must stay this time. Think about it. Isn't it high (medium) to grow vegetables on the wall? Doesn't wearing a hat and an umbrella mean that you are prepared this time? Sleeping back-to-back with your cousin naked doesn't mean you can get it by turning over? After listening to this, the scholar felt that what this man said was more reasonable. So I took the exam in high spirits, and I actually got the flower detective.

Revelation: positive people are like the sun, where they shine; Negative people are like the moon, and the fifteenth day of the first lunar month is different. Ideas determine our life, and what kind of ideas will have a future.

Psychological suggestion can also be pregnant?

Introduction: A newly diagnosed wife, whose stomach is about 6 or 7 months old, walked into the clinic in a panic and was anxious to tell the doctor about her vaginal bleeding, so that the doctor could see if the child in her stomach was good. Surprisingly, through ultrasound examination, the doctor could not find the heartbeat of the fetus at all, only a swollen uterus and several uterine fibroids of different sizes were seen. What's going on here?

Key words: prenatal pregnancy test stick, morning sickness, menstrual pregnancy, 4 weeks of pregnancy

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The true story of pregnancy

Mrs. Wang and Mr. Wang were both old when they got married, but there has been no news of pregnancy for many years after marriage. Although Mrs. Wang is under great psychological pressure and eager to get pregnant and have children as soon as possible, she doesn't know how to ask for help.

One day, she suddenly remembered that she had been absent from class for 1 or two months, and she thought, "No way.