Xu doesn't want to marry a princess.

Why didn't Xu want to marry the princess of the Tang Dynasty?

The atmosphere of the Tang Dynasty was open, and men and women were not as formal as before. But there is a unique phenomenon in the Tang Dynasty, that is, the gentry are unwilling to marry the princess. Marrying a princess is a great success, and you can enjoy all the splendor, but all the gentry in the Tang Dynasty "quit their illness and should not" and pretended to be deaf and dumb. In fact, they have reason to give up marrying the princess.

First, the mourning ceremony was stipulated. In the Tang Dynasty, the Book of the New Tang Dynasty ~ Rites and Music stipulated that when his wife died, her husband would celebrate the "Cui Zi Staff Week" (referring to the anniversary of the funeral). If the princess dies, her husband must mourn for it for three years. The princess is a precious jade leaf, which men can't reach. It is better to marry a folk woman than to live in the shadow of the royal family every day.

Second, the concept of family. In the Tang Dynasty, people attached great importance to the concept of family status. The family status valued by people in the Tang Dynasty should not only have a prominent family background, but also have excellent family cultural traditions, family style and enviable marriage relationship. All these requirements make it difficult for the princess to get married.

Third, most princesses don't practice female rituals. The culture of the Tang Dynasty was open, and most princesses were arrogant and extravagant, and some of them were jealous and cruel. In feudal society, which attached importance to women's morality, no man could bear to wear a cuckold husband, even if he could be prosperous. This is also one of the important reasons why the princess of the Tang Dynasty could not get married.