The pearl of the world-ankles are not as good as hands and feet.

Brothers are like brothers, ministers are like femur. Femur, not butt, is thigh and humerus, which refers to the part of arm from elbow to shoulder. Which of these two is better than hands and feet? It seems that the thigh arm is stronger, but the hands and feet are more flexible, and both sides have their own advantages. Femur and humerus, brothers and sisters, are metaphors, indicating importance and closeness. Since they are both important and close, they should all trust each other. But after seeing the Daqin Empire, I feel that these two kinds of trust are different. Ying Zheng, the first Qin Emperor, appreciated and reused Reese and Meng Tian, and both trusted each other. But in contrast, it is obvious that the trust in the former is limited, and the trust in the latter is obviously greater than the former, if not infinite.

Ying Zheng and Reese were adults when they met, and Ying Zheng and Meng Tian were teenagers when they first met. The older a person is, the less likely he is to make bosom friends. This is a common psychological phenomenon. There are two reasons: the three views have been established, and he did not participate in his growth. Ying Zheng trusts Reese, but he can't be trusted completely. After all, he is facing a minister. Once the minister's power becomes greater, Ying Zheng is very worried. From God's point of view, Zheng Can trusts Prime Minister Reese, and Reese is also a person who will serve the country with his people. In the game model of these two people, the distrust of either side will be captured by the sensitive other side, and thus get a response. If this reaction is negative, the result is a lose-lose. Now I can't tell who made the act of distrust first. I prefer Hurisse. The reason is that Reese can't be as close to Ying Zheng as Montaigne, and the perspective can only be lower. He is too concerned about his reputation, afraid of losing it, afraid of falling out of favor, and will inevitably try to figure out its meaning. In Ying Zheng's eyes, the hesitation caused by deep thinking can easily be interpreted as defensive and reserved. Ying Zheng's reason is that he is an open and cautious person, and his identity, experience and ambition determine that it is more beneficial for him to strike first than to strike first in distrust. Therefore, they are rare good partners in the workplace, but they can't be brothers, that is to say, they are unlikely to cross talk together in the street in the middle of the night-although they are not necessarily brothers.

Life is beautiful from the beginning. When Ying Zheng heard Meng Tian's report, he said excitedly, "As long as Reese enters Xianyang, he is a talent of Qin! That Han Fei, try again later. Hey, do you think this Reese will come directly to town to see me? " The desire for talents is beyond words. After some discussion, Meng Tian was even told to "contact Reese". "Once the time is ripe, we should be able to call this person." Later cracks can't explain that the present is hypocritical, and the present hope can't guarantee that there will be no gaps in the future. Everything is developing according to the law, and Kang Long's regret must be after the arrival of Feilong.

No matter how good Reese is, he is just a pawn here in Ying Zheng, and Meng Tiancai is a chess player. After being urged to get married, Ying Zheng specially called Meng Tian and asked him, "Meng Tian, have you ever tasted a woman?" Meng Tian said you called me here to discuss this. Is this a national event? Ying Zheng doesn't want Meng Tiantian to be as serious as a "national response" because it is "no energy"! Today, "not for the monarch, the monarch and the minister are also." What does this mean? It means that in Ying Zheng's mind, Meng Tiandu can ask for advice on these private topics of love and marriage, and he certainly won't ask Reese or anyone else. Tell Meng Tian, and don't worry that he will tell. The relationship between them is bone to bone and meat to meat.

The intimacy of this relationship is beyond Reese's reach, and I'm afraid it has nothing to do with hard work. After Reese explained that the old Qin people in Guanzhong were not enough, Ying Zheng keenly felt that Reese knew that he was just "trying to persuade them when the opportunity was right" and remembered Wang Ben's last words, "Prime Minister Reese, the heart of mediation is too heavy, and his own heart is too ..." Suddenly he found that this Reese had agreed with this leader for more than 20 years! What does this mean? Consistently consistent, consistently no different opinions, does this also make people feel a chill: is there a plan? This kind of thinking is wedged between two people. As the movie Inception said, an idea is like a seed, which will sprout and grow by itself one day after being implanted in the brain. In addition, no matter how clever the calculation is, it can't prevent people who are also close and trusted, such as Ai Chen Wang Ben of Ying Zheng.

So, Ying Zheng saw that Prime Minister Reese's motorcade was heavily supervised halfway up Liangshan Palace, and casually said, as a result, it was much smaller when he saw it again in a few days. It is natural for him to worry about Reese's eyes and ears around him. Although he can explain the behavior of killing all his followers from the perspective of managing people around him, he is still inevitably guessed by Reese. Reese met casually instead of finding an opportunity to ask privately, "What are you doing?" What exactly do you want to do? "Even when he left the capital for the last time for a large-scale tour (inauguration tour) in important provinces, he found that Ying Zheng didn't tell him several major events, and he just endured it. First, Hu Hai (also the unmarried son-in-law of Reese) accompanied him; Second, he suddenly decided to change his route to visit the north (probably related to the heir, and his eldest son Fu Su was in Jiuyuan in the north); Third, the temporary personnel arrangement after the departure of Chief of Staff Meng Yi-and it's none of his business. This situation may not be a problem for Meng Tian, but rushing directly to Ying Zheng and swearing may resolve the misunderstanding. But the difference is that for Meng Tian, this misunderstanding in the relationship between the two disappeared with the development, but for Li Si, it accumulated over time.

Although Reese can't get rid of it, he will also be sensitive to whether he thinks too much, and no one can say for sure. Sometimes if he doesn't think too much, he may be a hundred secrets. It is this mutual suspicion and obscurity that has shaken the trust between Ying Zheng and Reese a little.

As for Meng Tian, Ying Zheng has always trusted him. Although Meng Tian knows how to respect leaders as a minister, his doubts are different from those of Reese in at least three aspects. First, in any case, he will not change his trust in Ying Zheng; Second, he must solve it. If he can't solve it, he must find the person who tied the bell. Third, he will convey his doubts in his own way, even in subtle ways.

Why is there such a difference? Apart from the above two reasons, personality, or nature, is also an important reason. Personality is related to congenital inheritance and acquired growth environment. Once a person enters the society, both are basically stereotyped. This is also the reason why a responsible fortune teller can roughly calculate his life.

Anyway, the rule we see is that the arm is not as good as the brother. The relationship between colleagues is several orders of magnitude worse than that of femur and humerus, let alone colleagues. This is a simple logic. If no friendship can be reached between colleagues, then any one of them leaves the company, which is almost the end of the relationship. A nodding acquaintance and a praising acquaintance can't be said to be worthless, but they can't embody value in isolation. For so many years, too many people left the company and didn't even bother to say goodbye, which not only reflected my value in their hearts, but also reminded me that I didn't go through customs in a limited time.

Everything has cracks, that's where the sun comes in. All friendships, if they can't cross the threshold of trust, or if they don't cross the threshold, there will be cracks. It is good to have light coming in, but if there are seeds there, a tree may grow.

It's not that it's bad to have trees, but the welcoming pine in Huangshan is quite good. However, it is necessary to know whether it is the thigh or the arm, the upper part or the lower part of the arm. As for the hands and feet, where can there be more? If there is, do it and cherish it. Too many hands and feet. That's a centipede. If not, don't ask-it's almost determined by genes.