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Can a girl with a boyfriend and girlfriend have one? Can men accept that their women have boyfriends and girlfriends?

Text/Lan Xing

Foreword Many women now have male girlfriends. They are not lovers, but they are closer than ordinary friends. To describe this relationship in one sentence is: friendship is above love.

Women think it's okay to have a boyfriend and girlfriend, but what about being a man? Do you allow your woman to have a boyfriend?

Let's listen to what three men say and see if they can accept that their women have male girlfriends.

1 "It's unacceptable. If she has boyfriend and girlfriend, I will resolutely let them break up."

Mr. Lei, 27 years old.

I am extremely disgusted that women have boyfriends.

As a man, I know a lot about men's psychology. If he didn't like women, how could he want to be with them?

Except for women, I don't believe they really don't know what men are thinking. They always said they were friends. In fact, to put it bluntly, they are reluctant to let go of a man who is good to them. Even if you don't like it, you should hold on to each other and let them feel that they can spare a tire at any time.

No man can accept that his woman is surrounded by a man who covets her, and he can't stand that his woman is more intimate with other men than normal men. This is not bullying, nor is it a man's desire for control, but a normal reaction of a woman who really loves herself. If you are not together, if you don't love her, who cares how many men there are around her!

If my woman has a boyfriend, nothing I can say will break them up. If she really loves me, she will do so. If she insists on not doing this, it proves that she doesn't love me very much.

2 "If I have a close female friend, can she accept it?"

Mr. Wang is 29 years old.

I have seen many videos of women quarreling with men on the Internet, because they don't accept that she has a boyfriend and a girlfriend.

As long as their men don't accept that they have male girlfriends, they will tell their men that we are just friends. Don't be so stingy. If you love me, you will accept it.

As soon as I heard them say this, I couldn't help but want to spray them: "How can you say such shameless things so confidently?"

According to their logic, should men accept close female friends? If they don't accept it, does it mean they are stingy?

I don't think women should accept that men have close female friends! Since I can't accept it, why do men accept that they have male girlfriends? Is this not a "double standard"?

I can't accept that my woman has a boyfriend's girlfriend anyway. If she does, I will resolutely let them cut off contact. If she doesn't want to disconnect, I will also find a close female friend and see how she reacts.

My wife and I divorced because she secretly contacted her boyfriend.

Mr Zhao is 27 years old.

Before I got married, I didn't know my wife had a boyfriend because her boyfriend was working in another city.

Later, a year after my wife and I got married, her boyfriend came to work in our city. It was also at this time that I learned that she had a boyfriend.

That day, her boyfriend invited us to dinner. During the dinner, it was particularly uncomfortable to see them making out, so they always had a bad face. I wanted to get angry, but considering that I was in public, I had to put up with it.

When I got home, I told my wife that you should stop contacting him.

She said angrily, why, why not let me contact him?

I was angry, too, and my tone was a little stiff. Why do you say that? Look what you did today. I sit next to you. I didn't know you were husband and wife, I was an outsider!

After listening to my words, she said, would you stop being so stingy? We are just close friends. Are you jealous?

I want to laugh at her words. I am very stingy. Is this a stingy question?

I said coldly, I don't want to tell you so much. In any case, you must break off contact with him. If you keep falling out, we'll get a divorce.

As a result, she promised to break up contact with her boyfriend on the surface, but she was still secretly contacting her boyfriend in private. I was so angry that I divorced her directly after I found out that there was still a connection between them.

Conclusion I think what Mr. Wang said is very good. If women can't accept that their men have good friends of the opposite sex, don't let men accept that they have male girlfriends.

Both men and women, after having a partner, should keep their distance from the opposite sex. This is the minimum obligation to each other. Remember, there is no room for a third person in the emotional world.