My name is Li Mengting .. I was born on19.25 in Gregorian calendar in 997, and on the evening of 8.24 in lunar calendar 10/0. Ask the great god to tell fortune! ! !

I figured it out for you. With a stick? It took more than an hour to figure out that it was a lawsuit. Then I spent more than half an hour on Baidu, and the explanation is as follows.

Is litigation competitive? . Generally, a lawsuit is stronger than the weak, so it will not win. The strong are generally enough to shock and strike. You need to be alert 1 whether you will go to court. It's best to avoid litigation and win both sides. It is best to mediate between two people. If we must win or lose, the bitterness of both sides is not good for anyone. But you can't always fight when you should be competitive.

Litigation divination should not be a lifestyle of cautiously welcoming and avoiding litigation. Disputes are troublesome, and the lawsuit will eventually be fierce. It is a good medicine to keep the original way of the monarch and stop litigation disputes.

I have three options to deal with disputes:

1, both rigid and flexible, not arguing and not suing, and finally succeeded by luck.

2. If you get lost, retreat in time and avoid disaster.

3. Fight to the end, bring disgrace to oneself. ?

The hexagrams in the lawsuit give us the following enlightenment:

First, be open and don't haggle over every ounce.

Generosity is a virtue. As long as those who stand in my way say sorry, I won't argue with them. Forgive those who are biased against themselves and influence them with their words and deeds. At any time, don't argue with others because of trivial matters. If we do this, we will lose our position.

Second, be calm and try not to be too aggressive.

Getting along with people is more important. Speak moderately, don't talk big, don't talk about other people's private affairs, and don't say things that hinder others' self-esteem and personality. Communicate sincerely with others to win their trust. Always keep a cool head, especially when someone deliberately provokes you, be sure to treat it coldly, and never have excessive words and deeds. Otherwise, you will step into a trap set by others.

Third, learn to vent and get rid of stagnation.

Now the accelerated pace of life, pressure from family, marriage, work, career, interpersonal relationships and so on, makes people's fragile psychology unbearable. At this time, you should learn to decompress yourself and lighten your burden. When it's time to vent, imagine something as the person you hate the most and try your best to beat him up. You can also come to a remote and deserted place alone and yell at you.

4. In case of dispute, mediation is the best policy.

Once you have a lawsuit with someone, don't run away, but dare to face the reality and take responsibility. Find a respected person, or someone with strength, to conduct fair, fair, open and reasonable mediation and adjudication. If you go to court easily, even if you win the lawsuit, you will have to pay the material and spiritual price. Among them, the spiritual cost can never be compensated.