Is the father a horse and the son a cow?

Is the father a horse and the son a cow?

Many people may feel very worried when they hear the harmful relationship between the zodiac horse and the zodiac cow, and think that a catastrophe will happen together. In fact, the differences between parents and children are far less serious than those between husband and wife. Although they hurt each other, most of them are reflected in bad temper, or contradictions are easy to occur in life, and Jacky's opinions appear, which is easy to produce contradictions and estrangement with his father in the process of children's growth.

Horses are bold and capable, but they are also strong. They always hope that their children can develop and live according to their own wishes, so they will make suggestions on their children's study and career from childhood to adulthood. However, people who belong to cattle are stubborn, stubborn, do not like to listen to other people's opinions, and all like to be self-centered, so conflicts between the two generations are easy to occur. In the eyes of the father who belongs to the horse, the children who belong to the cow are too rigid and rigid, hoping to make them look like themselves. Children who belong to cattle think that such a father is too autocratic and self-centered, so they always want to get rid of the shackles of the family.

How to solve the contradiction between two generations

1, father don't interfere in anything.

Men who belong to horses are very responsible, willing to pay for their families, and will spend their efforts on cultivating children. While providing children with good resources, they will also pay attention to everything and hope that children will do things according to their own wishes. However, such an approach will only make children feel great pressure. The more parents care, the more they want to escape. Children who belong to cattle, in particular, are usually taciturn, but they may be very rebellious inside. Even if you can't see it at ordinary times, it will break out one day.

2. Take the children out for a walk.

Nowadays, many parents attach great importance to study, and even deprive their children of all study time. If you want to resolve the conflict between the two generations, I suggest you take your children out for a walk, meet their wishes appropriately when the academic pressure is not heavy, and devote yourself to playing with them. In this process, a good relationship between the two generations will be established, and the image of the father in the children's hearts will be improved.

3. Don't be together all the time.

Although raising children to prevent old age, parents are advised to keep a certain distance from their children when they grow up, and it is best to live separately, so that their feelings will be better. If you live in a space for a long time, it is easy for two generations to conflict. This is especially true after children get married, which is not conducive to the harmonious development of family relations.