When my son was seven years old, he said that he was not liked by you when he died. He also said that he was depressed and unhappy, and always felt that there was a dark cloud on his head. What does t

When my son was seven years old, he said that he was not liked by you when he died. He also said that he was depressed and unhappy, and always felt that there was a dark cloud on his head. What does this mean? He was very scared and asked for help. Obviously, your child is venting his feelings to his parents. It should be that he felt great pressure in front of his parents.

Most of this pressure comes from parents' criticism, such as "Why don't you eat, watch TV while eating, how can you be careless ...", which seems nothing to adults, but it is a great pressure to children.

The child is blaming himself for saying this. Because adults are always picky and angry, they don't know what to do to satisfy them, they can't control themselves, and they love their parents dearly, so I think there may be no life without parents.

When you are stressed, you will naturally feel depressed. There are dark clouds on my head, which means that my heart is gray and unhappy.

It is suggested that the landlord talk to the children more and don't criticize these negative words from the beginning. Treat him as a "person" and understand him more, instead of treating the child as a puppy.

In addition, learn the expertise of children's education and consult more children's education experts. There is also a lot of information on the internet. The process of educating children is also a process of learning and improving for adults.