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What are the customs of the Han nationality?

(1) Lantern Festival

Holiday customs of Han nationality in China in the past 20 years. It contains fertility customs and culture. Popular in Cenxi, Fuchuan and other counties in eastern Guangxi, it has a history of more than 100 years. The time is the tenth day of the first lunar month. Last year, whenever a boy's home was added, lanterns were hung in the social temple. The lamp is tied with bamboo sticks, covered with floral paper, written with auspicious riddles, and lit with oil lamps, which should be oiled every day.

There are more people hanging lanterns, and the temple naturally forms a shed. On the same day, Tiandingfu drank lanterns and wine, grandparents sent clothes, suspenders and toys to the baby, and relatives, friends and neighbors sent clothes and red envelopes to congratulate them. Everyone drank together and had a good time. The lights will go out on the sixteenth day of the first month.

(2) Inspection date

Marriage customs of Han nationality in China. Also known as the reporting date. Popular in most counties and townships in Guangxi. Talking about marriage in rural areas: a step towards marriage. When young men and women get to know each other, tell their parents and ask the media to communicate. The man gives the bride a bride price and then sets a wedding date.

In the past, fortune tellers always ranked the "eight characters" first, and the fate was consistent. In some places, parents meet to get engaged. Such as quanzhou county, with mutual consent.

On behalf of the man, the matchmaker sent wine, meat and clothes to the woman, accompanied her parents and uncle to meet at the man's house on the agreed date, and the man gave a banquet. The young man poured wine in a pot, first to the woman's uncle and then to his uncle, and then toasted in turn.

The two sides agreed on the wedding date and the engagement was completed. Later, men and women gave the woman heavy gifts and bride price, the woman prepared dowry, the man prepared furniture, and the wedding was held as scheduled. If the woman urges marriage, she will make a pair of glutinous rice cakes (commonly known as "reunion cakes") and send them to the man's house. The man got the message, treated him warmly and invited his neighbors to go with him. Generally speaking, it is respected for the woman to take the initiative to advance the wedding date.

(3) He Langsong

Marriage customs of Han nationality in China. Popular in Xing 'an, northeast Guangxi. After visiting the church and the dinner party, relatives and friends gathered around the groom in the main hall and sang songs to congratulate him. Impromptu congratulations, but also joking and humorous words.

Friends and relatives sing a song and the groom drinks a glass of wine. Sing till midnight and send the groom into the bridal chamber. The female singer waited behind closed doors, and the men and women sang "Open the Door Song" in pairs before opening the door. Singing noisily after entering the door, from "a toast to the groom" to "ten cups", the groom drinks from 1 to 10 cups in turn (male singers can drink instead of winners).

Then sing "Sex Wine" and the couple have a drink together. Finally, the singer closed the door and sang the song of closing the door to end the wedding.

(4) sitting in the red hall

Marriage customs of Han nationality in China. Popular in quanzhou county, northeast Guangxi. On the eve of marriage, young men and women worship their ancestors in their own homes and receive lectures from their elders. The bride wears red ornaments and is accompanied by her classmates. She sat in the main room, singing "Weeping Wedding Song" softly, remembering her parents' kindness and expressing sisterhood.

Sisters told the bride to be filial to the elderly and live in harmony with her brothers and sisters, and praised the groom for his handsome and hardworking. When the bride expresses her unhappy thoughts, the sisters comfort her in many ways. Singing late into the night, Yiyi said goodbye and presented gifts.

The groom is also accompanied by his classmates sitting in his main hall, and is taught by his elders to be diligent and keep the house and obey the rules. After the teaching, the old man retired, and the boys joked and chased the groom, and the joy didn't end until late at night.

(5) Ask for the key

Marriage customs of Han nationality in China. Popular in quanzhou county, northeast Guangxi. The bride's wedding key is in the hands of any of her siblings or nephews.

Before meeting the bride, the groom sends a package to the bride-to-be and asks for the key, so that after meeting the bride, he can open the box and show Gu Mi's money, symbolizing a bumper harvest after marriage and a rich family. There were too few relatives to see me off, and the groom added many times. Farewell Lang took the parcel, and the groom got the key and went to see the bride happily.

(6) housekeeping

One of the marriage customs of Han nationality in China is an important procedure in rural marriage negotiation. Also called housekeeping rounds. Popular in most counties and townships in Guangxi. At that time, accompanied by more than 10 relatives and friends, the woman and two girls called "accompanying aunts" went to that house (some women didn't go).

The man gave a banquet to entertain. The matchmaker introduced the two parties to get married. When the woman's relatives and friends ask for gifts, the man will generally promise to give the guests "money" at that time.

The next day, the two sides negotiated through the matchmaker. In some places, it is also allowed to enter the inner room of the man who is proposing marriage to check the real situation and then propose marriage through the matchmaker.

(7) darkroom robbery

Marriage customs of Han nationality in China. Popular in Guidong and Hexian counties. In the downtown mountainous area, after the bride cried and got married for two days and two nights, she hid in a dark room with her girlfriends early in the morning on the day of crossing the door. After the men and women arrived, the bride's brother (or cousin) and the young men in the pro-prestige broke into the house.

The female companion threw sand and waved bamboo branches to resist. The robber tried to drag his girlfriend out of the door to eliminate interference. If you defeat two robbers, it will increase to four people even 10 or more until the bride is forced out.

Then two (or four) women in the man's wedding team take turns to carry the bride to Lang's house. In the competition of stealing marriage, the man wiped the cigarette and ink for the woman, and the woman tore the man's clothes, which turned the legacy of ancient stealing marriage into a farce for young men and women.

(10) Pay tribute to the church.

Marriage customs of Han nationality in China. Popular in most counties and townships in Guangxi. An important procedure in the wedding. Usually, the groom's uncle will light a pair of wedding candles on the altar and say some blessing words to express congratulations and prayers.

For example, in the county of Guidong, colorful words are often used: "The dragon lantern shines alone, the flower hall shines high, the husband and wife live together, and the luck is in pairs", "Holding a bonus in hand, congratulations on the nephew's marriage to the bride, and the husband and wife and Tian Ming live a long life, and the husband and wife are harmonious for a hundred years." After the speech, the bride and groom worship the heavens and the earth and their ancestors and get married.

Holiday customs of Han nationality in China in the past 20 years. Popular in Guanyang area in northeast Guangxi. On the seventh day of the seventh lunar month. According to local folklore, the weaver girl will meet the cowherd at night. During the day, she will dress up and rouge powder will be scattered all over the sky, hence the name.

At that time, women would take out their clothes and boxes and expose them to the sun. They will put water in a basin, put some grass in the water as a symbol of various drugs, and let them bask in the sun outdoors. This is called "sunbathing perfume". It is said that wearing clothes aired on the "fragrant day" and washing "perfume" can prevent plague, promote health and make couples more harmonious and loving, just like cowherd and weaver girl. There is a folk saying that "July incense basks in a cage box".

Extended data

The Han nationality in China is the largest ancient nation in the world. Because of its long history and developed culture, its customs are rich and colorful.

China Han culture is rich and colorful. In the historical process of its formation and development, Qilu, Zhongyuan, Zhao Yan, Guanzhong, Bashu, Jingchu, wuyue, Lingnan, Yunnan-Guizhou, Fujian-Taiwan, Songliao, Gan Hui and other distinctive regional cultures have been formed, which embodies the diversity and diversity of Chinese culture.

The Han nationality in China is an ancient agricultural nation. Since ancient times, the agricultural population has accounted for more than 80% of the total population, and the custom of respecting agriculture has a long history. Since ancient times, the Han people in China have taken agriculture as their occupation. As early as the Warring States period, Han Fei put forward the idea of "taking agriculture as the foundation".

He said: "The reason why pale ice is real is also a farming industry." Everything is wrong, treacherous article. Under the influence of the thought of Shang and Nong, the Han society in China has formed "men plow women's food, women weave women's clothes" and "Shang Jun's book, painting strategy".

"Men plow and women weave" can be said to be a typical portrayal of the social customs of the Han nationality in China. Only in modern times, especially after liberation, have great changes taken place.

References:

Baidu encyclopedia-Han customs