First of all, lead by example-as you sow, you reap! As you sow, so you reap!

Zeng Guofan is a very self-disciplined and learning-loving person. Why?

This is completely inseparable from his family education.

His family motto is eight words:

Morning: Get up early, get up early three times, and you can be a worker.

Sweep: sweep, clean and hygienic, can not be ignored.

Test: sacrifice, be cautious and pursue the future, and people's morality will return to thick.

Bao: Good neighborliness and friendship, caring for each other in adversity, only kindness is valuable.

Books: education, reading comprehension and popularization of knowledge.

Vegetables: grow vegetables, there are vegetables in the garden, and the four seasons are new.

Fish: fish, fish jumping in the pool, lively splash on the ground.

Pigs, pigs, fat, pension.

These eight things must be done by old friends at home. At the same time, family members are required to abstain from six kinds of people: fortune tellers, geomancers, wizards, witch doctors, monks and idlers.

Zeng Guofan mentioned in his diary and letters that although his family is poor, it is full of life, joy, friendship and love among family members. Their family gave him courtesy, honesty, frugality, filial piety, loyalty and patriotism.

So family education is very important.

Children's family education is to lay the foundation for the formation of their character, habits and world outlook.

If you want to know what kind of person your child is, then parents have a great responsibility. No pains, no gains.

In real life, the same is true.

You want your children to love reading and learning, but when they get home, they either chat with their mobile phones or play games with them. Then all you ask is to study. How is that possible? Your words and deeds are different. What you say is different from what you do. Examples speak louder than words.

I have a friend's son, who is a little warm man. Every time he eats, he will take the initiative to help his parents with food and rice. No one has asked him, and no one has specially taught him about it. But later I learned that it was his father who happily helped them with food, rice and soup every time he had dinner with his elders. When children see it, they naturally learn it. This is the power of example.

If you want your children to be filial to you, you must first be filial to your parents, and you are happy from the heart. Children can feel the joys and sorrows of their parents. Your filial piety makes him feel that it is a good thing, and happy things will be particularly imprinted in his heart.

Therefore, the first point of children's education is to set an example.