My boyfriend's mother is superstitious and insists that we can't get along. How can I convince her?

? Seeing this problem, I have to feel the coincidence of this world, because I just saw a similar article this morning, and I have to sigh that the original TV drama dog blood really exists in real life. Speaking of which, I think marriage is really a matter for two families. When it comes to calculating eight characters, we should all be familiar with it. Everyone who has been married in China should be regarded as a combination of two characters.

Perhaps to some extent, this is the same as what we call constellation matching now, except that the range of objects he may face is not so large. Deeply influenced by this culture, China people, especially our elders, are convinced of the eight-character matching. Therefore, it is still difficult to change the other mother's mind. As for the method, I can only analyze it from my ideas.

In my opinion, the other mother cares about your horoscope mismatch. After all, she is still afraid that your marriage will not last long. She is worried that you two can't live together, and you just need to show the other mother that in life, you two are in harmony and can live together for a long time, which may dispel some bad feelings of the other mother about the horoscope, whether in three views or in living habits. But at the same time, I also want to say that if you find that no matter how hard you try, the other mother can't get over the hurdle in her heart and won't let you get married, maybe you can also consider stopping loss in time. Of course, these four words are easier said than done.

Because you two have emotional foundation, even deep feelings, but if the other mother doesn't support your marriage, and the other's attitude can't influence her mother's thoughts, if there is nothing you can do, even if you successfully enter the marriage hall yourself, then this problem is also a time bomb in your relationship.