Buddha said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good.

Generally speaking, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will intensify within a few years after marriage for different reasons, but in the final analysis, neither side can consider the problem from the other's point of view. In the same way, if it is said by the mother, it may be sweet words, on the contrary, it may become poisonous snakes and malicious. This situation can happen in any family. As the middle coordinator, it is difficult for the husband to grasp this scale, and it is also difficult for anyone to offend the other party.

As a mother-in-law:

More understanding and tolerance. Even if the daughter-in-law is not sensible, treat her as her own child and teach her carefully without losing her elder demeanor. Don't always educate her by selling her old age. Think about whether you were immature and not sensible when you were a child, whether you were wronged by your mother-in-law's dislike and rudeness, or whether you had a daughter. If your daughter is not sensible, what kind of mentality will you treat! In the final analysis, it is to put yourself in each other's shoes. You are older and should be more sensible than your wife.

As a daughter-in-law:

From the day you marry a woman, you should understand a truth. You are already a member of your husband's family. You should try to get used to another way of life outside your family, learn tolerance and understanding, and have a sense of ownership. Think of other people's ideas, don't haggle over everything, and don't let your lover fall into the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law You should put the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law as important as interpersonal communication in the office. Respect your mother-in-law and treat her as a leader or colleague other than your parents. Although it sounds like a joke, if you have such a mentality to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and consider the problem from the overall situation, your relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not be too bad.

Finally, many things are easier said than done. I hope everyone will work hard enough to work together for a more harmonious family relationship!