Trusting others is the heaviest negative energy in the world.

Aunt Liu next door is in a bad mental state recently, and she is often absent-minded when walking. She didn't bother to talk when someone greeted her.

In my impression, Aunt Liu is an activist and likes to invite friends to square dance happily every day. Suddenly she became like this. She must have been hit hard recently.

While waiting for the elevator, I happened to meet Aunt Liu's daughter-in-law, only to know that the old lady was cheated of 20 thousand yuan by a fund charity organization, and she was a little depressed for a while.

But for Aunt Liu, being cheated of 20,000 yuan is a trivial matter. What really hit her was that she trusted each other so much but was ruthlessly deceived.

The other salesman is an old lady about her age. She is full of enthusiasm and eloquence. Chat at home when you meet, and dance square dance every day. Aunt Liu's money jumped into each other's pockets.

The day after the money was cheated, Aunt Liu foolishly jumped from the sunset to the western hills in the square like water, without waiting for that person to appear. She didn't know where the other person lived, so she called her mobile phone to remind her that the other person had turned off his phone. It is already that the Yellow Crane has not revisited the world, but Aunt Liu still feels that the other party just stood up, did not break his word, and even worried about whether something happened to the other party.

After half a month, Aunt Liu finally stopped fantasizing and began to regret and grieve. What she hates is that she didn't see through the man-eating wolf and spit bones behind her kind eyes. Sadly, she trusted others too much. The blow was too unexpected and touched her heart.

Liars can deceive people precisely because they have a sincere appearance that is harmless to people and animals and an irresistible lotus flower. Without such a perfect disguise, wouldn't they be seen through at a glance? Liars are regardless of age and sex, so you can't trust anyone.

02

When I was in college, I heard a good friend mention that Xiaole, who lives in a dormitory with her, met a boy online, and they soon fell in love and met in his city.

Everyone in their dormitory tries their best to stop Xiaole's adventure and thinks that love in the virtual world is unreliable. If they are really afraid of missing the fate and want to meet, they must invite him over instead of going to the appointment alone.

However, Xiaole, who was carried away by love, firmly believed that her lover was a good man with indomitable spirit and worth pursuing by herself, so she finally set foot on the train regardless of everyone's opposition.

What happened after the two met is unknown, but Xiaole burned everything related to him when she came back, and never mentioned this love again. She often stares at a place in a daze, sometimes crying, sometimes laughing in despair, and at night her eyes are still wide open and empty.

Everyone panicked and informed Xiaole's parents to come. Her parents took her to many hospitals and saw many psychologists. Finally, she was helpless. As a teacher, her parents even invited Xian, a street fortune teller, to exorcise evil spirits for her, but she remained silent and her mental condition became worse and worse.

Xiaole dropped out of school because she became a little autistic and inferior, and some were afraid to meet strangers. No one knows what kind of blow a girl like a flower has suffered in this supposed beautiful love contract. Because of her silence, the world has a headless case and a sad family.

Later, I vaguely heard that Xiaole's mental state was much better after more than two years of treatment and psychological counseling, but occasionally she was a little extreme and serious, and her temper was a little big. I think she is still lucky, at least she has a chance to get out of the gloomy days and usher in a sunny life again.

And how many innocent and lovely girls in this world have lost their lives because they believe in a love? Are we not familiar with such a tragedy?

Girl, even if you love someone very much, the first thing you should learn is to protect yourself.

03

There are three kinds of people who are most easily targeted by swindlers, namely, the elderly, women and children. These three types of people belong to vulnerable groups both physically and psychologically, and need more attention and protection from society.

I watched the second season finals of Happy Comedian the other day, and was moved by the sincere performance of Twist FunAge, so I revisited the wonderful programs of the first season by the way. Among all the programs in the first season, I think the most significant one is the anti-trafficking education program for children staged in MCA amusement city.

Children are the most physically and intellectually unsound of all vulnerable groups, so they are also the most easily targeted by the bad guys. The day before yesterday, I saw a vicissitudes of life father holding a photo looking for a child lost a few years ago. He looks haggard and sad, but he is firm in the face of the crowd.

The son of this fellow villager, 20 12, was cheated away by a strange man in a black car at his door. After this tragedy, the whole family was almost destroyed. As the pillar of his family, he had to bite the bullet and run around cities looking for his son. But I haven't found it yet.

That night, my circle of friends was screened by this fellow villager. Below the comments are various wishes and remarks, such as "human traffickers should be sentenced to death." As ordinary people, we can't control whether the child trafficker can be caught and executed after being caught.

But we can call on the whole society to pay attention to the anti-trafficking education for children and reduce the occurrence of tragedies. The first rule of anti-abduction education is not to trust others. Others, including strangers and acquaintances.

But in fact, the prevention of acquaintances can not be ignored. In remote areas, many children are trafficked by acquaintances, and most of the cases of sexual assault on girls are not strangers. Our mindset is often that strangers are the most terrible, and familiar people won't hurt me, so people around us are more likely to gain our trust and hurt us more easily.

04

I know many people will refute me. There are still many good people in the world. We should be sincere when we get along with others. Why should we guard against each other?

There is no data to find out whether there are many good people in this world, or whether there are several percentage points more good people than bad people, so I believe that "there are many good people in this world" is our good wish. Perhaps the fact is that there are not many really good people and not many really bad people in this world. There are many ordinary people who are neither bad nor bad.

But good and bad, good and evil, are just things between thoughts. There are probably only a few people in our life who can really trust each other. Most of them are just acquaintances, not people we trust.

Trust is necessary, lack of trust will affect interpersonal relationships, and excessive trust will cause harm. What is proper trust? I think we live on a wooden bridge together. The night is deep and the moonlight is bright. You and I always keep a distance of three meters. You can't hurt me and I can't hurt you. Looking back occasionally, we can all laugh with peace of mind.

We didn't grow up in a Peach Blossom Garden era where we could trust others wholeheartedly, nor did we have a sound social mechanism to protect the health and safety of parents, sisters and children. When we are unfortunately hurt one day and try to speak out to defend our rights, you will find that the road is long, full of torture and powerlessness.

Don't believe everything, and don't doubt everything. I believe that the era of Peach Blossom Garden will come, but it is definitely not today. We can keep calling for voices and strive to make the world match each other without deception and harm, but before this peach blossom dream comes true, we must first learn to protect ourselves.

Aunt Liu met the old lady and Xiaole's boyfriend online. They all fell in love at first sight and knew each other well. However, they responded to that sentence. They had a good start and a bad ending, not only bad, but also chicken feathers everywhere, which almost turned into a human tragedy.

The loss of a son suffered by my hometown is really a real tragedy. I hope that the opening of this tragedy will have a happy ending in the end. I hope that my children will come back tomorrow, but I hope everyone around me can be more cautious about tomorrow and less credulous about others.

Because trusting others is the heaviest negative energy in the world.