Fracture of garter needle and human destiny

The garter needle breaks the seal and punishes the wife.

It's all in Xiang Xue's books

If you are a woman, you will be punished.

What do you mean by "the infusion bag is broken"? This means that there is a deep vertical stripe on the Tang Yin. It must be very deep.

This feature is extremely rare. When I was in high school, I read a photo album, only words, no pictures. I never know what "hanging a needle to break a seal" is. I look for them in the faces of people around me, and I have never seen "hanging needles".

Summer vacation of senior three, go to Jiuhua Mountain.

I saw a deep vertical stripe in the middle of Tang Yin of several monks and nuns, and suddenly understood what "hanging a needle to break the seal" was.

Btw, not all monks and nuns have "hanging needles to break the seal", but according to my observation for many years, the proportion of "hanging needles to break the seal" among monks and nuns is much higher than that of ordinary people.

Then I wondered, how do these monks punish their wives/husbands? No spouse or children.

I soon understood. In traditional novels, fortune tellers often say that children are punished by their parents and it is best to send them to become monks.

This is a solution.

The implicit logic here is that there is not only one possibility of fate. Some people are doomed to divorce and lose their children. If you choose to get married, divorce and have children. If you choose to become a monk (never marry or have children), you will avoid the pain of bereavement and divorce.

Everything comes at a price. Marriage is fun, raising children is fun, and divorce and bereavement are of course painful. Being a monk (single) has no pain of divorce and childlessness, but no happiness of getting married and having children.

Suppose the happiness of getting married is 5, the happiness of raising children is 10, the pain of divorce is -5, the pain of losing children is -20, and the sum of the happiness and pain of the previous life path is 5+ 10-5-20=- 10. The sum of happiness and pain in the latter road is 0+0+0+0=0?

Not necessarily. You have to be a vegetarian when you become a monk, and you can stand loneliness. For people who don't like vegetarianism and spiritual practice, the pain may exceed-10.

The garter needle leans against the parents, and the garter needle is sent to the father first;

The mother died prematurely with a needle hanging on her right, and the needle hung between husband and wife;

Put the garter needle on the bottom, male left and female right. That's right.

The above traditional explanations can be understood without translation.

The contemporary explanation of keeping pace with the times is that marriage is bad and divorce is easy. I dare not mention the child of criminal punishment.

Others explain it this way:

"There is a vertical wrinkle on the Tang Yin, which is called' hanging needle pattern'. People with narrow eyebrows have more of this pattern. The appearance of hanging needles on Tang Yin, whether left or right or in the middle, deep or shallow, long or short, single, double or even three, all have "hanging needles", which shows that

Dissatisfaction in my heart, long-term depression, over time, a lot of melancholy accumulated in my heart, I can't vent it. Therefore, this "hanging needle pattern" is the performance of hard work.

"

After watching 25 videos, I found that she also had a "broken garter needle".

Two divorces and the pain of losing a child.

Criminal husband kezi?

Stall, the worst time, eating is a problem. ...

Hard work?

I can't bear to write any more.

two

I was obsessed with metaphysics in high school and collected the birthdays of many students in my class.

At my level, of course, I don't see any mystery, so I keep it for reference and verify it later.

I was bored in college and asked some classmates.

Every high school university has a rare pattern of classmates.

One branch of the ground is closed, and one branch of the ground is rushed.

Both of them are schoolmasters, one is an undergraduate of Peking University, and the other is a master of Tsinghua.

A man who has been married for many years has a good career and family;

One seems to be unmarried and has a rough love life.

There is another classmate in high school, whose eight characters are similar to mine, that is, the same word appears frequently.

I'm Shen Nian Shen Yue Shenri. He's on the second day of February.

One branch of the earth is connected with three things, and another branch is connected with three things.

I went to this classmate's house to play, and his mother told me that after the senior high school entrance examination, she went to tell her children's fortune, because this classmate's performance in the senior high school entrance examination was average, and she was struggling whether to spend money to let him go to a key high school. At that time, the cost of choosing a school was a lot of money, and the family's economic situation was not good, so it was difficult to decide.

The fortune teller bluntly said: Your son will definitely go to a key university. Whether you spend money to buy him a key high school or not, he will go to a key university.

She made up her mind to buy it! I can't let my son see the point.

We were still in high school when she said these words to me.

This student was admitted to the top three famous schools in China.

Not only that, but also became the one who earned the most among his classmates.

I dug out his eight-character pattern and made a fortune every year, which was proper.

Look at yourself again. Fortune stars fall into the Children's Palace and can only hope for the next generation.

three

When I was a graduate student, I read a book, a modern interpretation of China's ancient outlook on fate.

The author's thinking of discussing the problem is very enlightening: is fate knowable/changeable?

People's views on fate can be simply divided into four categories:

Once you know it, you can't change it.

Recognize and change.

Unknown and unchangeable.

Unknown but changeable

My current outlook on fate still belongs to the category of "knowable and unchangeable".

If you can't change it, what do you know

So when my son was born, I asked someone to do the math for me.

Then, I watched him carry out other people's judgments bit by bit.

By the time my daughter was born, I didn't even have the heart to settle accounts with someone.

Since it cannot be changed, what difference does it make?

It's not good to feel spoiled in life.

four

Last March, there was a big news in Dongyang, Zhejiang. The mother told her daughter to "hold back" because the auspicious day has not yet arrived.

"Waiting for 1 1 point is good for children all their lives."

Obviously, the mother believes that "fate can be changed."

However, the usual practice is regular caesarean section, which is more popular in Hong Kong and Wenzhou. Hold back, it's too fierce.

According to the midwife of the Obstetrics and Gynecology Department of the Second Affiliated Hospital, there used to be many such caesarean sections, but later they were less strict.

Private hospitals in Hong Kong still provide such services, and many Wenzhou people also go to Hong Kong for caesarean section in due course.

I teach students what lessons are solid and what are lost at the starting line.

You lost at birth. Birthdays are carefully chosen. What about you?

Can I take your horoscope when I go out on a blind date in the future?

Then you can go back and blame your parents. Why don't you pick a good time for me?

The eight characters not only determine whether your marriage is good or not, but also your character.

Don't blame me for not working hard. The character you gave me is the character of not working hard.

The above jokes are purely funny, please don't take them seriously.

five

Anxiety-loving China people worry that their children will lose at the starting line, that their children will not be rewarded for doing good deeds, and that their children will not get married and their future will be bleak. ...

What should we do?

Teacher Liu's fatalism is the most gratifying.

Q: Why am I so unlucky?

You are so unlucky.

Q: Why are children so stupid? Helping him with his homework is my heart disease.

He is doomed to be stupid.

Q: I can stand the child's stupidity, but I can't stand her procrastination!

She is doomed to stall for time!

Q: Even if the child muddies along, what will she do if she doesn't work hard?

Don't worry, your daughter will marry well in the future.

Q: My child is so kind, will he be used to block the knife in the future?

Don't worry, your daughter didn't die young. She will die alone.

Q: My daughter is almost 25 and not married yet. I told her that if she didn't get married, I would jump off the building!

A: Your daughter is destined to get married at the age of 38. You can't see her getting married if you jump off a building now.

Q: Is there any way to get her married early?

A: If she marries early, she will get divorced soon, and then raise the children alone, and the rest of her life will be miserable.

Q: But after all, life is complete. Let her get married early.

A: If she marries early, not only will she suffer, but the health of her parents will also be affected.

Q: What impact? Is it awesome?

A: If it is serious, you may get cancer.

Q: Ah, why?

A: All six parents are in the same boat.