Pay attention to the performance that men don't want to marry you.

Subtext 1: The RV is in the back, and I want to marry you. Please believe me.

As a diaosi, in the current market, houses and cars may run out of savings for more than ten or even decades. Even if you are old, your parents can help you pay the down payment for buying a house at most. As a woman, if you promise to pay off the mortgage and car loan together after marriage, he won't marry you, but he said openly, dear, the house and car are things that men should bear. I will try my best to repair all the garages in the shortest time, and then I will marry you home. Please believe me. At this time, women should never think that this man is responsible. You should know best how capable he is, and you have loved him for so long. The subtext is that I was wronged by you because I didn't have a house or a car. If I have a house and a car, can I have a crush on you? Obviously, you are not his ideal marriage partner, so he chose to stay with you, or because he didn't meet a woman who made him want to get married. Therefore, when a woman meets a man who is willing to share joys and sorrows with you and is unwilling to marry you, don't force him to get married early and give up looking for someone who is willing to marry you.

Subtext 2: My parents are against us being together. Give me more time.

In the face of his girlfriend's forced marriage, if a man is not prepared to marry you, he will use his parents as a shield. This kind of man, who has been in love with you for half a year, will not take you to see your parents and rarely introduce you to friends. Although he cares about you on weekdays, he is just afraid that he will be lonely without you. Your love is like a covert operation, obviously you can't see the light. If you are forced, he will tell you the basic situation of you, and he confessed to your parents when you first established a relationship. It's just that his parents are not satisfied with your hardware conditions and oppose you being together. He didn't quarrel with his parents about it. He will be patient, depressed and innocent to tell you, dear, give me a little more time and I will definitely let my parents accept you. Dare to ask, he won't even give you a chance to meet your parents. Do you think your love will work? Therefore, when a woman has been mixed up with a man for more than half a year, he is unwilling to take you to see your parents, which is bound to be a lie. At this time, whether you give up or not, try to let go.

Subtext 3: Now we advocate late marriage and late childbirth, and get married after the age of 30.

When women are in their twenties, especially when their sisters are married, they will have the psychology of hating marriage. It's understandable to force her boyfriend to marry herself. But my boyfriend said that now we advocate late marriage and late childbirth. Can you wait until you are thirty to consider getting married? This kind of man either hasn't had enough fun, or is too dependent on his parents and doesn't want to wean, or doesn't treat you as a marriage partner. No matter what considerations men have, they have no plans to marry you in the short term. Even threatening to break up won't change his decision. When a man advises you to get married late, please leave him as soon as possible, because your youth can't be spent on him. In the age when women love uncles, the charm of men is directly proportional to their age as long as they are 40, while the cost of women's love is inversely proportional to their age. So, don't use youth to block an unknown tomorrow.