My boyfriend told me not to focus on him. What does he mean?

What he means is that you care too much. He has his own private space. Don't always pay attention to him. The relationship between you is to meet when you need it and try not to contact when you don't. The most important thing is that he can say such a thing to prove that he doesn't like you very much and doesn't want to marry you. You are like a spare tire. He is riding a donkey looking for a horse.

One, pay attention to him for 24 hours, the pressure is too great. Many girls are like a different person after falling in love. Her focus is on her boyfriend, what she ate in the morning and what she was doing in the evening. Even playing games and going out to parties are not allowed. Occasionally, I have to have dinner or even video with my friends, and I am always on duty. How many times does the boyfriend go to the toilet a day, when does he go to bed, what does he eat and do? In this case, she knows all this.

Second, don't waste time on him. It's impossible for two people. Send him a meal, buy a dress, chat with him, don't pester him, just stay together, and don't determine the relationship between men and women from his mouth. In this case, he said such a thing, which proves that this man doesn't love you at all and tells you not to waste time and energy. He won't be with you and he won't love you.

Third, he is a man who likes freedom. I think your boyfriend has many friends, many dinners, likes playing games and traveling. He prefers freedom to bondage. What about you? I value love very much. I'm afraid my boyfriend will cheat. I'm afraid I can't keep up with him. I even want to change him. You are completely from two worlds. He's not for you. You are suitable for finding a man who can live a good life with you. He loves you more than anything, likes your constant attention and your concern for him.

Love a person who has no self. Everyone has his own life. Don't make yourself an accessory to others. Men don't like their girlfriends, and future wives are too strict. Why did Xiaogang Feng marry Xu Fan? But today, because Xu Fan indulged him, Xu Fan even said that my family went out to play, and my family took advantage. With this in mind, give the other person a separate space and don't let him be too depressed.