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Should couples get married somewhere, with the groom wearing Japanese military uniform and the bride wearing kimono?

I think if we stand at the highest point of morality, we must condemn it, but it seems unreasonable. The historical evolution of Chinese weddings, the "faint" in the original Book of Rites, because the ancients married their wives, the wedding banquet must be separated at dusk, and the sun goes down and the moon is on, hence the name, followed by the word "female", meaning "marriage".

Old marriage custom: (1) propose marriage, and men and women get married. According to their parents' orders, they exchange the word "Geng Paste" (age, birth, eight years old) through matchmakers, press it in front of the stove, and have another cup of tea to measure the gods. For example, in these three days, nothing unusual happened at home, such as bowling, choking food, family disputes, anxiety between cats and cats and so on. Ask the fortune teller to "arrange the eight characters" to see if it coincides with the year of Gengzi, and it has nothing to do with the zodiac. Some people used to be superstitious about the so-called six-year career and worked in a hurry for three years; Men's marriage age doubles, and 19-year-old women do not get married; Hens and dogs (hens can't), dragons and tigers (dragons and tigers fight), tigers and sheep (sheep's mouths), snakes and rats (snakes swallow rats) are hard to distinguish, so they are regarded as the beginning and the end.

(2) Establish kinship, decide to be pro-professional, discuss "small gifts", and negotiate in the wedding year. Generally, it is "four magenta" or "six magenta" (six to six silk clothes), two gold rings and a pair of gold earrings; Dowry, small gift 36, big gift 64, big gift 100 (silver dollar) The number of dishes is "64", that is, 64 pairs of buns, 64 oil bags, 64 biscuits, etc. There are 2 to 8 pairs of old wine, so oysters are called "old wine cellar". After the date, the man took the bar and gave the previous gift to the woman. Women mainly return gifts with golden balls, oil bags and embroidery made by prostitutes. On the voucher, the man sent a "book", commonly known as "red and green book paper" (red on the outside of two layers of paper, green and green on the inside), and the woman sent a "forwarding" thank you, commonly known as "Wen" Ding. So the old couple argued that my wife often said that I had a "red and green book" to suppress my husband. After Wen Ding, Ji Yingying chose a day and a "beautiful day" in the shop that day. Gifts for family and friends, weddings are mostly cash, or wedding cakes, happy axes, as well as this book "A Hundred Years of Harmony, Five of His", "Arabian Nights" and so on. Gifts are mostly embroidered or satin quilts, headdresses or daily necessities, but also red dates, peanuts, longan, lotus seeds and "premature birth".

There used to be a custom that matchmakers could not drink tea for the first time, saying that "matchmakers don't drink tea", and drinking tea should dilute marriage. The matchmaker can eat "one hundred meals" and pay "thank you fee", but after marriage, if there is a conflict between husband and wife, the matchmaker has the responsibility to mediate.