Do parents really not expect girls after their long marriage?

Because they are married far away, they can't count on it. It is for this reason that many parents don't want their daughters to marry far away. They all feel that their daughters are far away from themselves not only geographically, but also in their hearts. I may come back two or three times a year when I first got married. But if you have children, you may come back less often. Although the traffic is so developed now, it is not convenient to take the children anywhere, let alone take such a long train, and my husband's family and mother's family will not be at ease. If you don't come back once a year, even if you kiss again, your family will be weak, especially with your brothers and sisters, not to mention the relationship between their children will definitely go further in the future.

The geographical location is far away, and the relationship is far away. To put it bluntly, in case the elders at home are in a hurry, the one who is married far away will definitely not be able to come for the first time. Usually I don't come back during the holidays, and I mostly video chat. It can be said that the maintenance of the whole relationship depends entirely on the Internet. This kind of affection is still different from the affection we get along with. Slowly, the relationship between them will fade away, and parents will not expect this distant daughter to be better for other children around them. The daughter who is married far away is splashing water. Don't count on her, it's not easy to come back once.

It makes sense that a distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor. What's going on here? If you don't make a specific phone call, the far-married daughter won't know, and naturally she can't count on it. When you are old, you want your children to spend more time with you, but it is impossible for a distant daughter to stay with you. What can you expect? I have something to do at home. If I get married nearby, I will drive at once. If I get married far away, it will take me a day to drive.

Generally, parents don't expect a daughter who is married far away, unless her husband's family is in good condition and can help the family.