What etiquette should we pay attention to when getting married?

What etiquette should we pay attention to when getting married? First, the preparations for the wedding (pre-wedding ceremony)

1. Prepare dowry, betrothal gift and wedding dress (i.e. levy).

The man needs to send a bride price to the woman, and the woman accepts the bride price. Then it is convenient for the woman to start preparing the dowry. The most important dowry is sewing a quilt. You must find a woman with two children and a living husband to sew it. When sewing a new quilt, you must sew it with red thread, not black thread or white thread. Sewing time must be in September of the lunar calendar, not in 10. Avoid sewing quilts by widows or people who don't belong to the bride, so as not to bring bad luck to the bride. The wedding dress worn by the bride should be brand-new. If it is old, the bride will be suspected of infidelity. In addition, wedding dresses are taboo, and cotton is the best. Avoid purse, so as not to take away her family's wealth.

2. Preparation and taboo of the wedding room.

The arrangement of the wedding room is called "paving the room" in ancient etiquette. The day before the wedding, the bride's family sent someone to the new house to clean up and prepare gifts for the greenhouse. As a new house, feng shui is very important. If you don't know Feng Shui, just because you like it, it's easy to do some harm to your later married life. Therefore, we should pay attention to the following points when arranging the wedding room: (1) It is best to choose the wedding room in a place with clear light and ventilation. (2) Don't make the bridal chamber colorful, which is easy to have extramarital affairs. (3) Don't hang wind chimes on the windowsill of the new house, which will easily make the bride nervous, dizzy and upset. (4) The new house should not cross the horizontal wall inside and outside the house, and couples are prone to quarrel. 5] When installing a new bed, put the bed in a proper position, not facing the sharp corner of the desk closet or something. The new bed also needs to put some auspicious items on the bed, such as lilies, red dates, lotus seeds, etc., which means a hundred years of harmony and early birth.

Second, the ceremony etiquette (wedding) in progress

1. Etiquette taboo when greeting (greeting)

The man greeted the bride according to the "invitation period" agreed by both parties. The number of people at the "wedding reception" should not be even, and the number of women sent to get married should also be even. This means that the man's family is "single" and "double", and with the addition of the word, the woman's double number is "double pair", which means to grow old together. If you meet another wedding convoy on the way to the wedding, this situation is called "happiness", which needs to be solved by setting off firecrackers or exchanging flowers prepared in advance.

2. The bride's etiquette taboo

When the bride leaves home, she should cry with joy. The sooner she cries, the louder the better, so as to make her family prosperous. On the wedding day, the bride should not eat the rice of her husband's family. As the saying goes, "A chastened woman gains wisdom", which means that she has been wronged in her husband's family in the future, so she can only submit to humiliation and do what she is told. To avoid it, she only needs to eat vegetables instead of food. In addition, the bride should avoid stepping on the groom's shoes when she leaves the gate, and be careful not to step on the threshold when she enters the man's house. Violating any of them will bring bad luck to her family and her husband's family.

3. The groom's etiquette taboo

The groom-to-be should avoid sleeping in an empty bed on the eve of their wedding, and can find an underage boy to "press the bed" in order to have children early; When the groom's family holds a wedding, it is necessary to blow, blow and set off firecrackers. Let the bride enter the house noisily, and avoid being cold and cheerless. In addition, if the bride doesn't wait to enter her in-laws' house, firecrackers will be broken, causing the scene to be deserted, just like a funeral. People also think that firecrackers are "evil spirits". The happier the days are, the more evil spirits will be, and they must be driven away in time.

4. Taboo of other audiences

It is human nature to celebrate the wedding. As the saying goes, "come without being rude", it is natural to "raise money". The host family needs to prepare a bookkeeping book and remember "money". In the future, when people hold happy events, they will also "chip in", and the amount will be more than the gifts given by the other party. When the bride enters the man's house, aunt Weng, pregnant woman and filial piety should avoid each other to prevent conflicts. At the same time, widowed and remarried women and people wearing white clothes are forbidden to enter the bridal chamber, which is an ominous sign. On the wedding day, if you are bored,

Three: the taboo of marriage customs (marriage ceremony)

1. Three days after marriage, the groom accompanied the bride back to her parents' home, commonly known as "going back to her parents' home".

"Back to the door" must get back to her husband's house before sunset that day. In case of special circumstances, if you can't come back, you will live in the woman's house, and the husband and wife will sleep in separate beds to avoid conflicts with their families and bring bad luck to the woman's house.

Within four months of marriage, newlyweds are forbidden to spend the night outside.

No wedding or funeral is allowed. Don't look at others in the bride's mirror, because the bride's celebration is heavier, and looking at others in the mirror will lose the bride's blessing.

The six rites in ancient marriage are actually equivalent to the modern marriage law, which, like modern marriage, is a code of conduct based on the emphasis on marriage. Although most of the "Six Rites" were deeply influenced by ancient feudal superstitions in China, from another perspective, they also had their positive side. For example, men and women cannot meet alone before marriage. Although "the words of parents' matchmakers" have been criticized frequently in modern times, in the past, it avoided the ignorance and rashness brought by the age of early marriage and was conducive to the stability and long-term marriage.

Every place has different customs. For example, in Wenzhou, there are many ceremonies about the return of bride price, especially all aspects should show a face, and all aspects of red envelopes and wedding candy should be taken into account. Matters needing attention in wedding:

1, the wedding personnel and wedding vehicles are singular when they go and singular when they return (intended to be paired). When you arrive at the woman's house, go back to the new house, turn inward (plan not to go out), and don't take the repeated route (plan to get married this time).

2. Four bride price gifts are hung in red packages, and axes and weights are wrapped in red cloth.

3. When the bride and groom wear red ribbons, they should not tie knots.

4. Before the ceremony, the bride and groom get off the bus and immediately get off the bus (this time they plan to get married and get the car).

5, like wax, don't blow it out (meaning that life is old, life and death are together, don't blow it away).

6. When the bride grabs the blessing, try to catch it, but don't catch it completely (meaning to leave the blessing).

7. When the happiness car returns to the happiness car, crosses the intersection or crosses the bridge, the bride waves a red handkerchief outside the window (meaning to add happiness to happiness).

8. Cover the manhole cover near the new house with red paper.

Does the bride need to pay attention to any etiquette on the wedding day? The key point to pay attention to on the wedding day is to let you arrive half an hour early, attend the wedding banquet and tidy up your appearance, so don't rush to go, otherwise it will be rude. Give the gift bag to the receptionist in front of the reception desk and sign it to congratulate you. * If you are late or leave early, you should inform the other party in advance. If you are late or leave early, you should inform the other party in advance. When you are late, don't enter the meeting alone. You'd better ask the receptionist to take you in. If you want to leave early, you'd better wait until all the guests have finished speaking. You don't need to say hello to the bride and groom when you leave, but you should say hello to the people on both sides of the table. In front of the reception desk, say some congratulations. First of all, congratulate the relatives of the couple, say their names and thank them for their hospitality. (2) Pass the gift bag and look the other person in the eye. At this time, by the way, say some words of blessing. Sign the autograph book. If both husband and wife are present, write the husband's name first and then the wife's name.

Matters needing attention on wedding day

1, don't be late

This principle applies not only to the bride and groom, but also to all those who attend the wedding. Try to get your wedding started on time. If you can't start on time, everything will be postponed. There will be some problems in the wedding place, especially after you arrange another wedding here. If you can't start on time because the guests are not here, don't wait more than ten minutes.

Don't forget to eat.

Hunger is an unimaginable problem that the bride and groom will face. On this day, maybe everything will be arranged by others. This is the most self-lost day in your life. For the smooth progress of the whole wedding, you should let all people feel your happiness, satisfaction and pride. There will be bouts of blank and tension in my heart, and my appetite may not be very good. So, remember that breakfast can't be omitted, and it's best to eat traditional poached eggs in China syrup. If you have a bad stomach, try to eat salty things. If you feel uneasy at the beginning of the wedding, I'm afraid you won't have time to eat again. Many newcomers are too busy receiving guests to eat by themselves. If you don't eat breakfast, the long wedding will make you tired, lose the luster of the newlyweds, and even faint. Therefore, you must eat something before the wedding and try to eat at the banquet.

3. Don't be too nervous.

Some brides are immersed in the wedding desire on the wedding day, and there is no need to use sedatives, alcohol and other drugs to calm themselves down. On the wedding day, the excitement usually begins in the morning, and some minor problems may not be discovered when they appear. If there is a big problem that you can't solve, don't panic, let others solve it for you. You just need to relax, keep smiling and enjoy your day.

4. Don't do things that are not important to you.

In a traditional wedding, you will find some secular and traditional things, which are not important. If you don't want to, you don't need flower girl, or even bridesmaids and groomsmen. If you think some ceremonies are embarrassing, leave them out. There is no law that requires you to follow a certain procedure completely. Try to do it in your own way.

5. Don't spend too much time receiving individual travelers.

This may be a bit difficult, but you should try to receive every guest in as little time as possible. On your wedding day, there are many things you must do, such as toasting and cutting cakes. If you spend a lot of time receiving guests, your time doing these things will be delayed, and you can finally spend some time greeting your friends.

6. Don't let the guests get drunk

There is no need for the police to maintain order, but the waiter must be reminded of the safety of the guests. Meanwhile, ask your best man to keep an eye on every guest.

7. Don't forget what happened

The wedding day will soon pass. Months of arrangements will be reflected on this day. Guests will appreciate your wedding dress and flowers and enjoy the sumptuous banquet you prepared for them. But in the end, everything is just a party. Wedding is more important: it brings two people together and lives together. Try to remember one or two important moments in this busy day. Find the smiling face of the beloved in the crowd, so as to regain this beautiful memory in the future.

8. The bride's shoes should be comfortable.

Generally, the bride will choose some shoes that match the wedding dress before getting married. If you are a careful bride, you will definitely buy shoes that match your dress. Let me give you a hint. When you buy shoes, you should not only pay attention to style and color, but also pay attention to comfort. Because the bride is always the heroine on the wedding day, you need to stand for a long time to accompany the guests. Because you forgot to bring two pairs of shoes, the former can be used when you come out of the float, because the guests are vying to see your beauty. When you enter the scene, you can change clothes after the wedding, which can not only be "kind" to yourself. And very considerate to the guests. In addition, don't forget to bring more * * * to avoid "loopholes" in your busy schedule.

9. The bride's red envelope should be properly kept.

Brides in China always encounter the problem of red envelopes when they get married. Being a bride for the first time may receive red envelopes from various relatives and friends. These red envelopes should be collected and properly kept. Because often a red envelope will write a blessing with a clear name and amount, don't screw it up. At the same time, some brides will send some gifts to their junior guests, which should be wrapped in advance according to the guests who may be present. Hand it to the bride and distribute it to them.

10, the groom is in a hurry.

This is an urgent reminder for the groom. Which groom should not hug his bride? This touching scene made every guest deeply moved. The groom and the bride appear at the wedding, which is often a small wedding activity.

I would like to remind you that before the wedding, the groom must take the time to personally go to the hotel or place where the wedding is held or ask the "absolute best friend" to scout the terrain, otherwise it will be very troublesome to find the spiral staircase in the hotel and it will be difficult to carry the bride upstairs. Safety comes first that day. In order to avoid accidents, don't do things that exceed your authority.

What is the etiquette of Mongolian marriage? What should I pay attention to? Monogamy, men and women of the same blood can't get married. In the old society, marriage was mostly decided by parents. Usually, the man sends a matchmaker to the woman's house with Hada and wine as matchmakers. If the woman agrees, she can get engaged. When getting married, the Lama chooses a good day. On the wedding day, the man set up a new bag in the yurt where he lived. In the early morning, accompanied by the boxing matchmaker and the best man, they set foot on the steed to meet the bride. When I got to the woman's house, she still didn't open the door. A woman sings folk songs in her yurt and asks questions behind closed doors. The best man answers questions with folk songs, and the bridesmaid invites the best man to get started. The groom kowtows to the Buddha statue, then presents Hada, soju and other gifts to the bride's parents, and presents smoke pots to relatives and friends. Then, the bride rode around the yurt three times in the sound of a toast, bid farewell to her parents and sisters, and was escorted to the groom's house by relatives and friends. On the way to the wedding reception, both men and women should chase and play with each other and get home first. When I get home, I will circle the yurt three times, dismount and hold a whip. Both of them will go through two fires, showing their loyalty to love and expressing their wishes for the newcomers to avoid disasters. After entering the bag, the bride and groom bow down to the Buddha statue and the groom's parents, and then the bride meets the new friends one by one, offering Hada, gifts or exchanging snuff bottles. After the ceremony, a banquet was held to entertain new friends.

When passing through the yurt, ride slowly so as not to disturb the cattle. Put the whip outside the door before entering the yurt; If you bring it into the bag, it is considered disrespectful to the owner. Enter the door from the left, sit on the right side accompanied by the owner after entering the bag, and take the original route when leaving the bag. Don't get on the bus immediately after getting out of the yurt. You have to walk some distance and get on the bus as soon as the master comes back. The host should bend down to serve milk tea, and the guest should bend down to pick it up with both hands. 4, the stove is not allowed to touch with your feet, nor can you roast your feet on the fire, otherwise it is equivalent to insulting the kitchen god. There is a patient in the yurt, and a rope is tied to the left in front of the yurt. One end of the rope is buried underground, which means that the director can't entertain guests and visitors should not enter the door. 6. Don't eat seafood such as fish and shrimp, chicken and duck viscera, fat pork, and don't like vegetables and dishes with sugar, vinegar, too spicy and soup.

What etiquette should we pay attention to before and after marriage? You are a man, and a man should be generous and inclusive to his wife. As the saying goes, the prime minister can take a boat in his stomach and buy some supplements for his future mother-in-law. If you are out of town, call and say hello more often, which shows that you are good at handling things. After marriage, it is most important to keep feelings, and of course, to take things. If she comes to your house, she should be quick-eyed and quick-footed. For example, after dinner, she will go to the kitchen with your mother, mainly washing dishes and cleaning the house. Of course, all these things were done by women in the history of China, so diligence is the key. Making your mother like her will be very good for your future life. Otherwise, parents will disagree and the future will be very embarrassing. What did you say?/Sorry?

My brother is getting married. What should my sister do on the wedding day? What etiquette should I pay attention to? Wedding preparation:

1. Don't plan your wedding with other people's intentions. A wedding will bring many people, such as relatives and friends, and some social groups to your side, but more importantly, it will bring two people together and live together. When you plan your own wedding, you should focus on what you want to do, not what others want you to do. Indeed, it is important to consider the feelings of others. Using some symbolic behaviors will please others, but never make a choice that you don't like originally, but just to please others, and don't make arrangements beyond your ability to pay.

Don't invite those irrelevant people. A simple truth is that every additional guest is equivalent to an increase in the wedding budget. If you have a maximum cost (which most people have), increasing the number of people means reducing other expenses. The increase in guests is equivalent to the decrease in the quality of the banquet. Invite people you care about and people who play an important role in your life. On the wedding day, you must want to be surrounded by warm and familiar smiles, not those faces you can't recognize.

The principle of not being late applies not only to the bride and groom, but also to all those who attend the wedding. Try to get your wedding started on time. If you can't start on time, everything will be postponed. There will be some problems in the wedding place, especially after you arrange another wedding here. If you can't start on time because the guest is not here, the waiting time can't exceed 10 minute.

4. Don't be afraid of chaos. Usually the excitement begins on the morning of the wedding, and some minor problems may not be discovered when they appear. If there is a big problem that you can't solve, don't panic, let others solve it for you. You just need to relax, keep smiling and enjoy your day.

Don't be too nervous. Some brides are so immersed in the desire for the wedding that they use sedatives, alcohol and other drugs to calm themselves down.

6. Don't do things that are not important to you. In a traditional wedding, you will find that some secular and traditional things are not important. If you don't want to, you don't need flower girl, or even bridesmaids and groomsmen. If you think some ceremonies are embarrassing, leave them out. There is no law that requires you to follow a certain procedure completely. Try to do it in your own way.

7. Don't forget that hunger is a big problem that the bride and groom will face beyond imagination. Do you think skipping breakfast can make you look slim in a wedding dress? No. Breakfast may be your last meal of the day, and you need energy. If you have a bad stomach, try to eat something salty. If you feel uneasy at the beginning of the wedding, I'm afraid you won't have time to eat again. Many newcomers are too busy receiving guests to eat by themselves. Not eating will make people listless, and in severe cases, they may faint. Therefore, you must eat something before the wedding and try to eat at the banquet.

8. Don't spend too much time receiving individual travelers. It may be difficult, but you should try to receive every guest in as little time as possible. On your wedding day, there are many things you must do, such as toasting and cutting cakes. If you spend a lot of time receiving guests, your time doing these things will be delayed, and you can finally spend some time greeting your friends.

Don't let the guests get drunk. There is no need for the police to maintain order, but the waiter must be reminded of the safety of the guests. Meanwhile, ask your best man to keep an eye on every guest.

10. Don't forget what happened. The wedding will be over soon. Months of arrangements will be reflected on this day. Guests will appreciate your wedding dress and flowers and enjoy the sumptuous banquet you prepared for them. But in the end, everything is just a party. Wedding is more important: it brings two people together and lives together. Try to remember one or two important moments in this busy day. Find the smiling face of your bride or groom in the crowd, so that you can regain this beautiful memory in the future.

What etiquette should Chaohu people pay attention to when they get married? Buy 3 or 5 gold first, and then talk about tens of thousands of bride price (rural), depending on the day, banquet money to buy dowry money and so on. I also watch my friends get married. They are from Nanjing and Chaohu, hehe.

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