Powerful people all know how to deal with their own desires.

As mortals, each of us has hidden desires in our hearts, and we cannot simply deny our own desires. In the final analysis, it is precisely because of the existence of inner desires that there will be passion for exploration and pursuit and motivation for progress. Similarly, we can't let our desires go, because if we don't restrain and control them, once we open the floodgates, we will be like a scourge. At that time, we are very likely to become slaves of desire and be insulated from happiness.

Fromm, a famous German psychologist, once said: "Greed is a hell, which will bring infinite pain to people. It has exhausted the energy of trying to meet its needs, but it has not brought people satisfaction. " Indeed, greed makes people confused, dissatisfied and irrational. And once desire is out of control, it will become greed.

It is precisely because the centipede in the fable did not control its own desires well that it coveted its dreams and pushed its luck. After gaining a foothold, he was still dissatisfied. Driven by desire, he asked too much, which caused his own inconvenience. This can't help but make us ponder. Desire, like a bottomless black hole, we can never see how deep it is. If you don't control your desires, you will lose your mind and become a slave to them. Such people, in order to satisfy their own desires, will be deliberate and unscrupulous, and the result is often counterproductive and not worth the candle.

Makarenko, an educator in the former Soviet Union, once said: "Desire itself does not exist. If a person comes to the pine forest from a smoky city to breathe fresh air, no one will say that he is too greedy to consume oxygen. Greed begins with the conflict between one person's needs and another's needs, and it arises from the need to seize happiness and satisfaction from others by means of force, cunning and theft. "

Just like the old woman in the story, when the goldfish is willing to redeem it with expensive rewards, greed arises. In order to satisfy his greed and maximize his own interests, he even asked to be the overlord of the sea. However, the result is just the opposite. Not only did she not become the overlord, but all the splendor she had gained turned into a cloud, and she had to live in a broken mud shed and associate with a broken wooden basin.

Imagine that if the old woman can control her desires, she and the old man can live a happy and comfortable old age with the help of goldfish. Only by effectively controlling desires, being the master of desires rather than slaves, and learning to be contented can we achieve real happiness.

Therefore, in real life, friends should learn to control their desires and strive to be the masters of desires, rather than being driven by desires. To do this, we need to always be grateful, cherish what we have and be content.

Many times, we don't have too little, but too much desire. Once the desire is out of control, it will bite our hearts like poisonous snakes, making our hearts restless and difficult to get happiness. Therefore, if you want to have a happy life, you should bend over for happiness at the right time, control your desires, don't be slaves to desires, and build a happy life with the wisdom of bending over.

In daily life, everyone wants everything to be finished. However, in this world, nine times out of ten, you often have no chance to choose what you love, but if you have made a choice, you must love what you choose.

When Liu Qing graduated, she looked for a job in a hurry and didn't know her career direction. Later, she couldn't bear the pressure of work and frequently changed jobs, which was the main reason for her difficulty in finding a job.

College students who have never been exposed to society are like a blank sheet of paper, with neither work experience nor rich contacts. At this time, we should appropriately lower our requirements, after all, there are not many chips in our hands. Liu Qing, who graduated from the Chinese Department, should have a "counterpart" in the magazine work. If she can give full play to her specialty in this position and put her knowledge to use, she will certainly make a difference. But she took her choice seriously and resigned after less than a year, as did her second job. Maybe she didn't let herself go deep into work at all, just felt that the workload was too heavy, so she chose to give up once, which made her very passive in the workplace.

In the workplace, it is very important to love your chosen career. The so-called "do what you do, love what you do" and "do what you do, be good at what you do" are the professional attitudes that people in the workplace should have.

Whether you like this job or not, you should try your best to do it well. After all, this is the livelihood of the family. Of course, if conditions permit, you should try to choose your favorite job. If you take what you are interested in as your lifelong career, you will not only reap fruitful results, but also enjoy a wonderful working process.

Interest is the best teacher. Only with interest can fatigue at work become a source of happiness. When looking for a job, many people pay too much attention to their career prospects and remuneration without considering their own interests. This is very stupid. If it is purely out of interest, not only can you not get happiness and satisfaction in your work, but you can't do your own work well.

Work is a lifetime thing, so you must be careful when choosing a job. First of all, consider those jobs that are within your interest. If the reality is too severe, settle for the second best and love the job you choose. As long as it is not purely mechanical manual labor, it is entirely possible to find pleasure in work.

Choosing what you love is a manifestation of loving yourself and a means to fulfill yourself; Loving what you choose is a strategy to solve practical problems with the wisdom of compromise, and it is also a prerequisite for the success of your career.

Bend down for happiness, and build a happy life with the wisdom of bending down, not to make everyone succumb to reality and destiny, not to grovel and succumb to the mercy of others. On the contrary, to build a happy life, everyone needs to work hard for happiness and be the master of his own destiny. This is the essence and essence of bending wisdom. In real life, some people can't accurately understand the wisdom of bending over, don't understand the true meaning, and mistakenly think that bowing to fate will give them a sense of satisfaction and happiness, but they are always troubled by their own destiny.

The person who expresses this feeling is a typical fatalist who believes that his destiny is predestined and cannot be rewritten. Therefore, they willingly surrendered to fate and bowed to fate.

This misinterpretation of fate is obviously very stupid. Those who bow to fate easily are doomed to miss happiness. You know, only by striving to be the master of your own destiny and firmly believing that life can be changed and luck can be made, can you finally get your own happiness.

A successful person once said: "There are good and bad innate environments, and neither happiness nor sadness. The key to success lies entirely in your own efforts. " Indeed, in this world, it is not the manipulation of external factors or the arrangement of heaven that ultimately determines one's fate, but one's own control and domination of fate.

Just like the child in the story who was predicted by the fortune teller to be "born a beggar" but eventually became a top student in high school, perhaps his innate condition is not as good as that of the child who was predicted to be a top student, and even his birth is not as noble as the other person, but this is not the final factor that determines his life direction. What really matters is your own efforts. Only by being the master of your own destiny can you finally overcome and change your destiny.