19 years old What does "blind god" mean to Chaoshan people?

In my hometown, there is a strange saying that 65,438+09-year-olds should "make the gods blind" and 23-year-olds should "let their emotions drift" (note: all quotation marks should be read in Chaoshan dialect, and the age algorithm considers the nominal age. Of course, some people need it, and some people don't. )。 I won't explain the first one, because I have passed that age successfully. Second, I am at this stage. It means: "Some people are 23 years old, and there are many peach blossom parties, and people who ask for relatives are in an endless stream. However, these people who come to ask for relatives are not people who can be entrusted. To pray for God's blessing, I'd better keep my duty this year. Don't flirt with men; The woman wants to reject the man. Specifically, don't talk about marriage and don't talk about new relationships. "