I fell in love with a Baodi girl ~ Is there any custom for a Baodi girl to get married? Is it different from our Tanggu?

Generally, there are six processes: receiving gifts, asking names, receiving gifts, inviting, and getting married.

Nacai, also known as marriage proposal, refers to the fact that the man's parents entrust a matchmaker to propose to the woman's family, and the matchmaker introduces the man's family, his appearance, age and so on. Go to the woman's house and leave a proposal form after the woman's parents agree.

When asking the name, the man will ask the woman's surname (including the adopted woman's name), maiden name, date of birth and so on. Through the matchmaker, and the woman writes the above content as a post, which is delivered to the man by the matchmaker.

Najib, also known as "too small post". After asking the name, the man asked the fortune teller to get married for divination. That is, men and women of the same family can't get married. On the other hand, after divination, the woman was told that the engagement was preliminarily agreed.

At that time, it was also called "big post". After the man asks for marriage, the engagement and gifts are sent to the woman's house, which is also called "makeup promotion". At this time, I was officially engaged.

Please ask the date, the man chooses an auspicious day as the wedding date, and informs the woman by book, which is also called "sending the day"

There are two rules for marriage. On the wedding day, the man organizes a ceremony to go to the woman's house to marry the bride, which is called "marriage", and the groom goes to the woman's house to get married, which is called "big wedding".

Interpretation of marriage dialect;

"Homeward": that is, the woman goes to the man's house to see the family situation.

"Eating fertilized eggs" means "eating engagement dinner". If both men and women agree, the engagement ceremony will be held at the man's home one day. On that day, the man's family will hold a big banquet and give the woman a happy event (ranging from four colors to eight colors).

"Eat Yuan": After the engagement, choose an auspicious day of the zodiac and hold a banquet at the woman's house. The man and the matchmaker will go to the woman's house together, and the woman will give the man a gift, so the marriage relationship will be settled.

"Dowry": The bride's dowry is sent to the man's house by the woman two days before marriage.

"Kang pressing": The night before the wedding, three to five boys from the groom's younger brother and nephew are chosen to sleep in the new house with the groom.

The bridal chamber: There are many underage men and women who come to have fun day and night when they get married.

"Back to the door": Three days after marriage, the couple went to the woman's house, and the woman's house gave a banquet to her son-in-law.

However, these are feudal superstitions, which are generally handled by Han people nowadays.