Why do you beat mandarin ducks when you disagree with your parents on your birthday?

In fact, most people will not pay attention to this point about the eight-character disagreement. If parents care about this, there may be two reasons:

One is that a family has a big career, and the environment in which it is located also believes in these;

Another possibility is that parents use this as an excuse to block your marriage.

The first reason is that in some places, especially in the south, people believe in the eight characters. If a family has a big business, they don't want their daughter-in-law or son-in-law to bring bad luck to their family, so they will pay more attention to this.

The second reason is that parents are blocking your marriage with this unchangeable reason. It may be because parents are dissatisfied, but if parents use something easy to change as a reason, then the other party is likely to try to meet their expectations.

For example, the woman's family is not very good, and she is likely to work hard to make money to prove that she is in good condition; If parents think they are not good-looking, then the woman is likely to go back now and meet their requirements through plastic surgery or other means. In this case, parents will be in a dilemma. Others will think that ta has done so much to meet their own requirements, why not agree to ta? Friendship is hard to pass.

Then if the woman's parents are picky, it's mainly because the family doesn't like it. Because if Ma Yun marries his daughter, the average girl's parents will agree, even if most people think he is ugly. Or because of other reasons, such as feeling out of character, feeling that the man is too playboy and unreliable, or feeling that the man is not mature enough, and so on.

If the woman's family opposes the boy, these are relatively easy to handle. Because if girls really want to follow, parents have no choice; However, if the man's family opposes the girl, the boy usually needs to rely on the family to bear the responsibility of supporting the family at this time, and it is difficult to sever the relationship with the family at once.

Anyway, if you still want to be together, you can actually spend money to find a fortune teller. They always have a way to close the horoscope. If you want to be together, this may be the easiest way.

I'm Yo Truth/National Secondary Marriage and Family Counselor, welcome to pay attention to WeChat official account: Yo Truth.