There is a feeling that what you can't get is always the best.

In the TV series "Empresses in the Palace", the emperor is obsessed with the dead Queen Chunyuan. No matter how many concubines there are in the emperor's harem, in the eyes of the emperor, no one can surpass the pure yuan queen in intelligence and beauty. Is Queen Chunwon really that unique?

Novelty is always beginning.

When people first come into contact with a new thing, they always spend a lot of time paying attention to it deliberately, even expressing their enthusiasm constantly, and even having an impatient mood, so that they can have it immediately.

It may feel good at first, bringing a fresh and different feeling to people. Anyway, this feeling is the most attractive.

A special freshness attracts people's attention. At this time, you will have the idea that you can't have it, which is really a pity in life.

So I continue to pursue bravely, and constantly pay my enthusiasm. I always hope that the beautiful things belong to me.

In the shopping mall, you see an item you are familiar with, and suddenly it has a beautiful package. At that moment, you can't help but look twice and even have the desire to buy.

Emotionally, when I meet new feelings, I can't wait to be together, even forgetting whether this feeling is appropriate.

There is always an inexplicable love for a strange and unfamiliar thing. In fact, I have never thought about whether this kind of love is really like it, just a novelty and curiosity about things.

A hazy beauty instantly blurs the brain, because ignorance and strangeness at first sight increase a lot of imagination space.

There is no limit to imagination, and everything is always imagined. Emotion is ideal and beautiful. The scenery in the distance is always fresh.

What you get may not be appreciated.

He was introduced to her, and after months of contact and understanding, they finally decided to talk about marriage. In men's minds, this woman, in all aspects, feels very suitable for each other.

Both sides have met their parents. According to the traditional concept, the man's parents ask both men and women to show their birthdays to fortune tellers, which is the final affirmation.

Unexpectedly, when the man's parents showed their birth date to the fortune teller, the fortune teller said it was inappropriate and the woman might agree with the man.

The fortune teller gave such a result, which was really unexpected. The man's parents believed and accepted the fortune teller's statement. In this way, the man's parents did not agree to their marriage.

Due to the opposition of the man's parents, the man also compromised and the two quickly broke up. Surprisingly, this woman soon married another man and even gave birth to a child.

When this man knows that this woman is married to someone else and pregnant. The man regretted it and began to realize his mistake. He began to think that this woman was very good and excellent in all aspects, but he abandoned her.

Many years later, men are still unmarried and still live alone. He has met other women in his life, but for the woman he had no choice at first, he always thought she was the best.

There are always flaws in her hands, and she always feels that she is not perfect and does not know how to cherish it. When I abandoned it, I suddenly felt very sorry

When I can grasp my feelings, I always hope that the other person is perfect. But critical eyes can always find fault with her.

In the end, I let go decisively and gave up my feelings that I thought were quite suitable. But in the face of some problems, I can't cross the obstacles and cherish the feelings I have now.

You won't feel regret until you lose it. Only when you meet new emotions do you feel it is a pity. If I can't get it, I find that what I can't get is the best.

The food in other people's bowls smells best.

It's not that the eyes are not bright enough, but that the greedy side of human nature wants more. Instead of being satisfied, we ignore many beautiful things around us.

The less you get, the more you want. The stronger the feeling of not getting, the more obvious the feeling of losing. I got it, but I didn't expect it to be so attractive.

Not only love, but also other aspects of life produce such feelings. Seeing that others have a novelty, I am particularly eager to have it.

Distance produces beauty, but for the sake of unattainable feelings and life, we lose ourselves a little in life and waste unnecessary time and energy.

In fact, what you can't get is not necessarily that good. This is just a kind of "Chickney effect", which enlarges and idealizes what can't be obtained.