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Wedding Etiquette in Rural Areas of Yang Guo, Anhui Province

Step 1: "Meet: Going home for the New Year is a good time to introduce people, because all the young girls and boys who work outside the home have gone home at this time. A few days after you get home, someone will come to your house and ask if you have a date or something, and then they will say to introduce you to someone. If you tell him so early that you don't want to introduce someone, he will definitely say that you will get married in two years! (especially men) and then the family will say meet! Generally, we meet at the woman's home or the matchmaker's home. At this time, boys should dress up very handsome (so the success rate will be greatly improved) and take two packs of cigarettes not less than 15 yuan, because the elders and men who come with the woman will smoke, so as to show your maturity and manhood. Even if you are a young man who can't smoke. After greeting each other, the matchmaker will let the men and women talk alone for a while (just a few minutes will decide their own marriage). After the talk, the two sides will go back to their own homes to discuss with their families, and then tell the matchmaker whether they are willing or not. If they don't want to, they will say goodbye. If they want, they will go to Guoyang County to buy clothes first ... (Generally, they will buy brand-name clothes, such as Anta and Xtep. )

Step 2: "Overpressing the hand" means that the matchmaker wants to ask the woman what she wants at home. Generally, the over-pressure hand is the deposit of 10000, and then there are goods such as wine and meat (generally, 20 cases of liquor 150, 20 cases of beer 30, half head of pork 100 kg, and so on ... After pressing the hand, the third step will be carried out.

The third step: "Happy New Year", because it is usually booked years ago, so you must go to the woman's house to pick up the woman from the man's house during the New Year and kowtow to the man's parents at the man's house on the first day of the New Year (this head is not for nothing, at least 2000 yuan). If the woman doesn't want to go to the man's house for the New Year, it is usually on the fourth day of the Lunar New Year, and the man brings gifts to her future father-in-law. At this time, the gift that the man takes should be at least 2000 yuan, and you can also get 2000 yuan for the future father-in-law. But you can't take this 2000 yuan away. After dinner, you have to give it to the woman yourself. The next day, the woman will go to the man's house to pay a New Year call. At this time, both men and women went to work in other places, went to different cities and did their own jobs. Don't fantasize about taking your girlfriend out to work together It's impossible to bring someone else's daughter to live together because of your little savings! When you miss her, you can call her. It's the only way. At this time, if it is a major festival, such as Dragon Boat Festival and Mid-Autumn Festival, someone in the man's family must have a gift from the woman's family. If you don't give gifts, the woman's family will break off the marriage on the grounds that the man's family doesn't know the rules. Not only is it as simple as giving gifts, but the man is not allowed to fall in love with other women in other places, denying that the woman is going to break off her marriage and not refund her money. What should the woman do if she falls in love with someone else in other places? That's a good question. If the woman has another boyfriend in another place, it will be considered as a breach of contract and the deposit will be returned to the man. As for compensation for mental damage, there seems to be no law. If both men and women persist for a year, then I can congratulate you. After a year of hard work, your love has finally turned into a positive result. Now we can proceed to the last link, which is the most important and crucial.

Step 4: "Get married after paying too much money", which is the most expensive step. Generally, men have to pay 50,000 to 80,000 more,100,000! But also buy three gold, that is, gold earrings, gold rings and gold necklaces. There is also a motorcycle and a new house. Generally, it takes100,000 to150,000 to build a new house. Only after that can we say that we will get married on a fixed date! On the day before the wedding, the man will send someone to the woman's house to send a bride price (generally, 20 cases of white wine, 0 cases of beer, a whole pig, a whole sheep, 20 cigarettes, etc., totaling about 10000). On the wedding day, you go to the woman's house to pick up the bride. Maybe she will give you a little surprise and spend 8000 yuan! It's not over until you get it at the man's house! ! ! (These are all money spent for the woman. For example, on the man's side, house decoration, tables and chairs will all cost money. )