The neighbors are too noisy at night, which affects my rest. What should I do?

Although there is a saying that "a distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor", sometimes neighbors may quarrel because of noise, and even "shaking the building artifact" is just to retaliate against the noise of neighbors. Then the neighbors are too noisy at night, which affects our rest. I think we should negotiate more and communicate more. If you just want to get back at each other blindly, you must know when the grievances will be returned, which will only make the problem more and more serious.

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First, many people respect me a foot, and I respect you a foot, so that you can directly and politely feedback the noise problem to your neighbors. In some communities, the quality of houses may be a problem, and the sound insulation is not particularly good. Therefore, when you meet noisy neighbors, you will be very depressed. Maybe the other person doesn't realize that the sound in his room will spread to other people's homes. At this time, if my neighbors are too noisy at night and affect my rest, I think I can tell my neighbors directly and let them know that my behavior has disturbed the people next to me. There is nothing to be embarrassed about. As long as I speak politely, I believe that the other party will exercise restraint and will not continue to make noisy noises on purpose, which will affect others' rest.

Second, in fact, the most painful thing is that there are families with children living upstairs, because the behavior of adults can be controlled, but the behavior of children is very irregular. I used to live in a building with children upstairs. Maybe children are active and naughty. They often don't know what toys are scattered on the ground. The tinkling sound makes people feel restless. Especially in the middle of the night, it is estimated that children wear adult high heels for fun, and nearly 1 1 is still walking upstairs. At that time, their hearts are actually very collapsed.

I think it seems a little too much to stay upstairs so late. If you can't find yourself, you may really be unable to sleep for a long time. So after struggling for more than ten minutes, I went upstairs and knocked at the door. The other party also apologized that his children thought high heels were fun, so after wearing them, they officially played excitedly in the house, saying that they would immediately control their children's behavior. When I met the child in the elevator the next day, I had a very friendly exchange with her, and neither side felt embarrassed. This is a good way of communication. Of course, it is not that all neighbors are easy to talk to. Some people have met neighbors who are very unreasonable and difficult to get along with.

At that time, in the popular TV series "Anjia", there was a plot in which two families living opposite were very unhappy because of the noise. One is that their daughter practices violin, and the other is specialized in stock trading and investment. The opening time is inconsistent with everyone's schedule. In the end, the two companies failed to coordinate or found an intermediary to buy a house before finding a suitable way to deal with it. It seems that it is better to find an intermediate coordinator to deal with many minor disputes.

Third, because of the noise problem, there have been cases of mutual abuse in the community. I remember seeing in a news that because of the noise problem in a certain community, the two sides talked to each other and cursed each other in the group, and even some very uncivilized words were sent to the group, which had a very bad influence. Because there are residents of various communities in the group, people of all ages and even children may hear it, and everyone does not quite agree with this way of dealing with neighborhood relations. However, most people silently watch the double abuse, and some people come out to discourage it, but the effect is not obvious. Finally, it was estimated that it was too late, and both sides had no energy to scold before ringing the golden bell to quit.

In fact, as a neighbor, if you look up and don't see it, the relationship will be particularly stiff, and it may be difficult to get along in the future. Even in the city, everyone is behind closed doors, but we should make more friends with our neighbors, instead of building enemies for ourselves in the spirit that one more friend is better than one more enemy.

Four, dealing with the noise of neighbors, in fact, there is a very useful way, that is, directly looking for property management personnel. Some residential property managers are really conscientious. If you hear noise interference, go to them to complain, and the community housekeeper will go to the family's home to persuade.

It is wise to let the housekeeper handle these things without coming forward, because this belongs to the category of property management itself, and you don't have to do things that offend people, so you are happy at leisure. Why not?

Write at the end:

As a member of the community, we should not live in a single-family house, and we should also have some public moral awareness. In the dead of night, we should try not to make noise and disturb others' rest. We don't want to encounter such behavior ourselves, and we don't want others to disturb each other with their own noise from another angle.